Shoutout to this black Sista for being honest and direct.

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

They say this, but stay fukking broke niccaz.The value system is all fukked up.

Has to be a collective change.Not just a sprinkling of sparse individuals here & there.

The value system in the black community is mainly built on compensation.Niccaz

don't inherit the family business, but they can dress like a million bucks.They can have swag,

be a tough guy, and get laid by women that way.These same women talking that provider shyt

are still born out of that value system.The environment shaped their thoughts, molded their mind,

and eventually evolves to their actions.No matter how much they scream about wanting a provider,

niccaz know they're still vulnerable to the game.The right nicca, with the right kind of magnetism can

have these chicks for pennies on the dollar.And he won't even need to have a penny in his pocket,

The shyt is that entrenched.I look at chicks talking that talk like the one in the op as nothing but

an idealist.It's just another hot topic to get views.A broke nicca probably smashed that before breakfast

this morning.That's just the way it be

 

[tuckgod]

You lost if you wifed any grown woman who constantly refers to black men as nikkas

That’s what you got outta that.

 

[Elle Driver]

This convo is so tired.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You thinking to hard
All he want is regular meals, always available poosay, regular dome, someone who isn't fat as hell and a loving mother for y'all kids


Are we asking for alot? Compared to what y'all want?

A house
A lifestyle of security and sustinence.
Money to shop for shyt to compete with other women.
College bound children that know Brazillian Jiujitsu who are going to become strong and successful.
Ya p*ssy ate

We are simple. Y'all just pretend it's complicated cuz you don't wanna do shyt

From my personal perspective, I have no desire to have a man be the sole provider. So if any part of that means I have you give up my business or having him make decisions for me than that ain't for me.

 

[Insensitive]

Depends on what this person means by "Broke".
If you make a good salary, have a home, car etc. and you're
being referred to as "broke" because you don't make six figures or more.
Then the woman is a gold digger seeking to have her lifestyle funded by someone
who makes substantially more than her.

That's not "Financial Security", that's looking for a person to be your ATM !
Someone you can EXPLOIT financially.


If you're referring to the young dude content with rolling up, playing videogames and
doing some OT here and there at his part time job making minimum wage wishing
for access to attractive women, then YES, you gotta step your game up breh.

Just the truth and while you're stepping your game up and seeking a new mate
don't JUST look at physical attraction.
Seeking MORE qualities in them ! Education, Wealth Building etc.

A bum chick with a cute face is ultimately still a damn bum.

 

[The Up Right Man]

Men need to step up periodt. I as a heterosexual, cisgender, opposite gender loving male would love to provide her a living.

She wouldn’t have to pay for nothing, I got us bae.
I bet her love is unconditional. Y’all new dudes new to the game.

 

[The_Sheff]

Because a man doesn't want someone specifically looking to be a freeloader that makes him broke?

 

[intruder]

No we don’t it’s a reason why broke dudes will spend what they have to look rich. A lot of women are with dudes they thought had money

Doggy it doesnt take that long for a woman to figure out you dont have money like that.
Within a month if she cant tell it's a front she's stupid as fukk and probably deserves the bum clown she caught while trying to chase ballers. And most people dont have no problem breaking up with a mofo they have been with less than a a year or two.

 

[Lord_nikon]

1.Being a provider to a girlfriend is like investing in penny stock ( High risk ) that relationship may not last
2.Being a provider for your wife and kid is a Plus. No problem with that.
3.If i'm paying all the bills and we married, her as better be saving...!!!!!!

Basically dating some women is like this pic below \/ and some women handle money like this and when the relationship is over you outta stacks of cash and she outta reusable p*ssy

 

[AAKing23]

Being a provider in 2019

Was about to say the same shyt, who is willingly signing up for that shyt in 2019

Glad I’m a “lame” and never around these types of chicks

Facts, I just keep to myself

 

[Tommy Knocks]

Ok so what her kitchen and cleaning game like because if I'm providing what am I providing for?

 

[billsburydoughboy]

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

Guess I'm "broke" by her standards because I'm not spending my bread on a chick. Shorty better be making a nice livable salary to take care of herself, because I'm not helping with any of her bills or such.

 

[Benefited]

You're pulling assumptions out of the air

You shouldn't be getting this emotional over what she has to say

If you feel insecure in your stock as a man, boss up, dont go on these tirades in an attempt to rationale why she's wrong for wanting a boss

I meant no disrespect,only telling you what people might assume from you sporting a homosexual in your avi,remove it if that makes you insecure:respect:

Far as me being emotional?I'm not emotional at all,I'm only giving the game away to any misguided women browsing the site who may think like her. A man who is a boss who has no long term plan for the BOTH of you. Is just a boss nikka who is fukking you,not a provider. A man is not a "provider" until he has long term plans for the two of you as a unit. Not sure how you can consider a man a provider who hasn't shown any long term interest in keeping you around for the long haul. If a woman isn't righteously attached and never been married,she hasn't yet proven she has "woman'd up" enough to actually pull a provider. Therefore she may have shortcomings she should look at as well. Lashing out at broke nikkas won't stop you from being one of the many "unclaimables" to the men who you desire as a woman. And you are on the clock ladies,because once the age begins to show?You'll be right back at square one settling for men who are less than "bosses",maybe even the same type of men you called broke in your prime.

 

[AAKing23]

fukk that bytch