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Balla

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in those bw getting degree threads it's "they're getting worthless degrees. they're worth $5. black men still outearn them"

now it's "women outnumber men in college. they make just as much if not more than men. this makes no sense."


I was about to say something about this because I read a post where it said that bw have more degrees than bm and out earn them, so they will be the provider.

But what I wanted to know is, if they both have good jobs, what is the man providing for exactly? I can see if she works a really low paying job compared to him, but if they make the around the same or she makes good money and he makes more, where does her money go to? Does she just buy groceries, clean, cook, and save her money while the husband pays all the big bills?
 

Mowgli

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My time or hours aren't an issue. My issue would be what I mentioned not what you made up.
How is time not an issue.

Seems like that's the only thing that could interfere with what's Most important to you. Your business.

The things a man need only require a lil bit of time so unless that's time you need to handle your financial affairs or personal interests, it shouldn't get in the way.

Holla.

Go on ahead and get married. Sounds like you got time to do all the above a - z
 

™BlackPearl The Empress™

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How is time not an issue.

Seems like that's the only thing that could interfere with what's Most important to you. Your business.

The things a man need only require a lil bit of time so unless that's time you need to handle your financial affairs or personal interests, it shouldn't get in the way.

Holla.

Go on ahead and get married. Sounds like you got time to do all the above a - z

I already stated the concerns which you keep ignoring and I don't need your approval to get married.
 
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