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Doggy it doesnt take that long for a woman to figure out you dont have money like that.:comeon:
Within a month if she cant tell it's a front she's stupid as fukk and probably deserves the bum clown she caught while trying to chase ballers. And most people dont have no problem breaking up with a mofo they have been with less than a a year or two.

My point is the black american man mindset is that we have to provide.
That is why dudes front about what they have
 

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The problem is these bytches only want to honor one half of the traditional arrangement
If a nikka providing for you like it's the 1950s
Then you need to be cooking, cleaning, sucking and fukking when the provider demand, and not leaving when you find out he got a side family across town.
bytches want all the benefits they grandma had not realizing it was MAJOR tradeoffs involved with that shyt.
These bytches want a provider when they making damn near the same amount of money if not MORE than the provider
It's some real have your cake and eat it too shyt
 

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Happy people don't broadcast, they are too busy living life.

You are seeing more women/men do stuff like the bird in the OP because men and women with means have changed how we move. We don't marry down anymore. And that what has these mfers pressed. I don't have a problem with a woman trying to marry someone with money; but I wouldn't ever marry you and share what I have built with you if you have nothing of your own.

We make good money, we own our home before age 40 and we are on track for a healthy and timely retirement. But my wife has a DBA and earns more than I do. What the fukk do I look like surviving the South Side of Chicago, fumbling my way through High School, wising up and grinding my way through to a Masters in HCI and then working my ASS off to build the life my mother wishes she could have had herself... only to marry a woman that Tweets all day about "nikkas" and how only an "Alpha Male" is good enough for her...

Its crazy. People will tell men (and women) that they are wrong for trying to wake these delusional people up; but its good advice. No one that endures the rigors of capitalism to make it to the comfortable middle class (with all the baggage it brings, including the overwhelming student debt) these days is looking to pair up with a bum with a pretty face.

You want a "6 figures, 6 certs" (or whatever the fukk Coli calls it) man or woman? Then you had better be one yourself. Otherwise, get real accustomed to tweeting while you drive, because not only do the street nikkas not respect you. The Middle and Upper Class won't either.
 

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My point is the black american man mindset is that we have to provide.
That is why dudes front about what they have
And you think this is a black American woman mindset only:russ:
Know any haitians? I'm not talking about them hybrid haitians that were born here to haitian parents but grew up around americans. I'm taking born and raised.
 
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Only young naive men actually listen, care and value the words and thoughts of a woman. Never listen to a woman and just get your own. These bird brain women because of social media have an outlet, voice and audience; yesterday year’s people would laugh at their thoughts and never take them serious. A woman’s mind/intelligence is that of a prepubescent boy; childish, illogical and dangerous if left alone.
 
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From my personal perspective, I have no desire to have a man be the sole provider. So if any part of that means I have you give up my business or having him make decisions for me than that ain't for me.
I dunno. That's his problem.

From aams perspective sounds like you're giving yourself alot of excuses to not hold your Man down, at your convenience.

Ah oh sorry baby working OT.
Ah oh sorry hun no ass tonight tired from work
No I can't work out been working 10 hours
No can't cook tired from work
No can't give head tired from work

Marry your career and avoid relationships
 
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Because a man doesn't want someone specifically looking to be a freeloader that makes him broke?
Bingo! and not in a generation where the economy is in a deficit. White people are not thinking like this, but black women are and as black men, we're suffering from PTSD and bytches with delusions of grandeur that bedwench.

I've personally seen white women work while their boyfriends/husbands finished school so that it could benefit them both. A relationship is choosing a good business partner and making smart investments. A lot of our women are bad at owning a business.
 
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