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back in the day when women never got the same opportunities as men it was understandable but those days are over.

Imagine me working for 8 hours and you working for 8 hours but I'm suppose to open up my wallet and pay for this and that while your money is just used for fenty makeup etc.

and this has nothing to do with being "broke" as a man. Money and gifts has never bought loyalty just being viewed as a sucker for the most part.

When you canoodle and cavort with a woman who chips in and pays her fair share its so much more pleasurable.
 

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and it’s still not enough
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back in the day when women never got the same opportunities as men it was understandable but those days are over.

Imagine me working for 8 hours and you working for 8 hours but I'm suppose to open up my wallet and pay for this and that while your money is just used for fenty makeup etc.

and this has nothing to do with being "broke" as a man. Money and gifts has never bought loyalty just being viewed as a sucker for the most part.

When you canoodle and cavort with a woman who chips in and pays her fair share its so much more pleasurable.
the one with the most power in a relationship is the one who invests (proportionately) and sacrifices the least.
a guy who has spent a lot of money and sacrificed a lot of time or women to be with one woman is going to be a lot more into her and a lot more willing to keep things going. the only way to even the playing field is to have the woman invest or sacrifice as well whether its emotions, time, living circumstances etc
 

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the one with the most power in a relationship is the one who invests (proportionately) and sacrifices the least.
a guy who has spent a lot of money and sacrificed a lot of time or women to be with one woman is going to be a lot more into her and a lot more willing to keep things going. the only way to even the playing field is to have the woman invest or sacrifice as well whether its emotions, time, living circumstances etc


In the past I used to open up my wallet and the ish still ended, now I don’t and the ish still ends but at least I’m keeping my money now :wow:
 

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I make good money but if a girl starts talking about providing on the first, second,third,fourth, fifth date



:mjlol:


I'm not going to waste her time.
 

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F*** what she talkin about. I can't stand when women talk about who should be the provider while they're getting out and getting their own money. If me and a woman live together, and we mutually decide that she's going to take care of home, then I will pay all the bills. But if we're both working, WTF I look like paying all of the bills while you stack paper?

Paying all the bills is nothing to most dudes. We were paying our own bills before you. The problem is when these women come in for a free ride. We are both working, but I'm paying all the bills?Then you go look to me to pay for all the dates, vacations, etc?

On top of her working and stacking her paper, she's not taking care of the home, got you paying for all the extracurricular activity, and got dudes in her DMS to replace you. Going through all this for high-mileage p*ssy that other dudes got for free.

Hoes winning in 2018.
 
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