Shoutout to this black Sista for being honest and direct.
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THISYou lost if you wifed any grown woman who constantly refers to black men as nikkas
no she doesnt. because its coming from a place where she wants these dudes to be top notch in every aspect but is she? NOPE.
And thats the argument i have always had for my homegirls who use to talk this nonsense. there's nothing wrong with having standards, you better have them. lol. But there is something wrong with asking for 2 pac in a business suit, if you aint beyonce in a pants suit. You want a person that has it all setup just right like a King. great. you better be a queen. or else that person will most likely treat you like your one of many side pieces. if thats all you ever strive to be than do you.
Its all fun and games when people talk that evenly yoked talk. but these ladies dont want to tell the truth on themselves as well. step your game up too. and i'm not talking about in the bedroom and in the kitchen. some ladies think well i cook. that aint enough anymore. if you asking your dude to be rich, famous, have all the connections, and be bob the builder, while killing it in the bedroom. then just cooking aint enough. sorry ladies. step up or shut up.
now is there a lot of complaining dudes that just pop off because they so far away from doing anything with their lives and themselves?sure. are there a lot of loser dudes running around popping off about "why she a gold digger?" when reality is, if you can never pay for any dates at no time you dont need to be dating. that part is facts.
number21
Strive for rulership not equality, black man.
OP couldn't even stop his bytch from cheating on him
You pathetic postin this lost thot
havent heard this part 
He made a thread in the salon asking the brehettes what he should do lol
@Barnett114. You got the link breh
ask a chick this and one of the following things will happen every time
1) she gets mad because she doesn't have anything and tries to play victim -"you're objectifying me"
2) lists a bunch of education or personal achievements that don't actually speak to her character - "I'm smart and well traveled and not like these other bytches"
3) talks about how she doesn't have to offer you anything because SHE is the prize - something you'd discover yourself over getting to know her but she isn't used to that. She is used to being used under false pretenses and thinks that is normal. Now you end up being expected to simp. And have your actions compared to a simp
Honestly as soon as a woman asked me this and I asked the exact same thing, it always goes downhill. Dunno how anyone expects a certain type of person if they can't even match that energy.
Some girls really just want to be taken care of and not do shyt but fly around and tweet. Same ones on social talking that independent shyt don't clean or do nothing but be pretty. fukkin disgusting.
Half of these hoes can't even fukking cook
I know this type all too well. It's best not to hurt your head with these type of women.They're so easy to play, if that's the type of steeze you're on.
Software
RIP Future Gohan
Or did you ever think...idk
This might be a really good angle?!
Careful, I know a lot of stingy people with money. They'll do just enough to keep a series of women on a treadmill.
For example, a man with money uses it like a tool. He may drop $2000.00 on gifts at the mall, but you best believe he's expecting a ROI, in other non-monetary ways. Money is used as a form of control.
Too many woman are blinded by the facade of a well off man, when in reality they're in a manipulative treadmill situationship.
Not necessarily, a lot of us are just speaking from experience. Remember there's sides to every story: the male version(1), the female version (2), and what really happens(3).
I have no problem "providing" for a woman, but not every woman I date or encounter is "worthy" of being taken care of.
For real.
Guvnor
Da Speculative Spectacle®
I thought they wanted equal rights though, why do we have to provide when they can get to the money themselves 
just asking for the point of discussion.
It's one thing to provide but some of these women want tricks and don't got shyt to offer too.
just asking for the point of discussion.It's one thing to provide but some of these women want tricks and don't got shyt to offer too.
I literally made that point in the next post I made.
Youseenmywork
KING
Y’all are funny what is considered BROKE ? Start Challenging women when they say they don’t want a broke man ?