should women approach men more?

Randoug

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If you are attracted to someone then engage them in a conversation...simple as that


Problem alot of women have is that they have way too much pride and fear judgement from society based on norms that are decades old that need to be eradicated...A guy won't always be able to tell you're into him when You're playing putting up fronts.
 

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If Idris is walking down the street, bet women do what it takes to get his attention.
If Denzel is walking by, bet women will go out of their way to approach him.
If Drake...



You get my point. Women are not dumb. They know what they like and will throw away the petty shyt when they feel there's something worth having in the equation. Main reason a lot of guys are complaining is because they're going after chicks who didn't want their attention in the first place. Cook with the ingredients you got.
 

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I Don't approach women at all and never will.... women have 10,000 nikkas approaching them every day and they think u just like the 10,000 hound dogs who say some lame shyt..

If a woman interested I let her make the move...

My girl approach me at a Brazilian festival because we bump into each other like twice and the third time she made eye contact and gave that hint...come get me

What planet do you live in where women get approached by so many men? Most men will be too old or too you. Others might be homosexual or in a relationship. Some might be like Kent. That leaves very few men to approach even the most attractive woman. You guys are living in fantasy.
 

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idk. I just want to know why they're acting like you absolutely have to approach men even if don't want to. Like if you see a man that you like you have no choice but to approach him or you're insecure and afraid of being rejected, no maybe I just don't want to approach him. wtf.

".....I'm not scared to say hi, I just dont feel like it right now. Im NOT chicken....Leave me alone okay?"

:sas1:You realize you sound like EVERY male before he reaches the stage of confidence where he could comfortably approach random females without fear of rejection? Just sayin.
You dont have to throw yourself at EVERY dude you like, but to say that you wouldn't ever go up to one? Ever?:heh: C'mon now. If you don't have another reason than "I don't feel like it...ever" it basically means you're scared to. :yeshrug:Which is understandable. Women usually never have to risk on-sight rejection like that, so why would they all be in a rush to start? :sas2:
 
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I simply appreciate a woman with the assertiveness to go and get what she wants rather than waiting back to accept the best offer

and its 2015. tell me i'm pretty, you heaux :ahh: tell me you been looking for a minute :noah: even if you ugly as fukk, your game might get your foot in the door

:ohlawd:

i'm choosing
 

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What planet do you live in where women get approached by so many men? Most men will be too old or too you. Others might be homosexual or in a relationship. Some might be like Kent. That leaves very few men to approach even the most attractive woman. You guys are living in fantasy.
I agree
Only a handful of men approach females

That does not include cat calling
 

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might as well. might change things. i remember my second ex approached me. and asked me out. shyt was random.
 

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I ain't for games. Enough headaches and heartaches from these attention whores (the girls that complain about how guys don't approach knowing full well they curving 80% of nikkas that step to them). It's false hope to me and a free ego boost to them. :camby:

I'd rather spend my time making myself more attractive to signal at/approach in the first place. Not to mention through activities and social circles. Same rules apply though, be attractive, look for signs and let her make no doubt about whether or not she is feeling you.

I take the high percentage shots (either that or I'm a spot up shooter). :obama:
Bold is facts. Your job should be to deflate that shyt until it can't float anymore, rather than gas it up further. The day I discovered treating every woman no better
than you would treat a man on the street was the day my results went up. If you gotta go through hoops, she probably wasn't worth the time anyway :yeshrug:
 

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I said it in the Kent thread, I'll say it here:

If you're attractive enough to a given girl, she will approach you or, at the very least, make no mistake about her interest in you (ie, making sure she sees you again at some point down the road). If not, she probably wasn't feeling you that much to begin with. :ehh:

It's 2015, girls are not the helpless creatures that some of yall make them out to be. Even the most meek and timid girl will put herself out there some type of way if she likes the guy enough.

Blind approaches are fukking stupid when you really stop and think about it. Why approach someone who didn't even look at you or give you a signal? I'm not afraid to say it, cold approach isn't for me, I ain't about that life. :manny:

Some nikkas will chuck up any shot and see what falls, others wait for a look from their spot(s) on the court. I'm definitely the latter.

I would much rather approach if she gives the green light or just make friends with alot of girls through social circles and see what doors open from there. The key is still being attractive enough to her either way.

These females have mouths and use them all the time. Let's not act like here is any different. :stopitslime:

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What planet do you live in where women get approached by so many men? Most men will be too old or too you. Others might be homosexual or in a relationship. Some might be like Kent. That leaves very few men to approach even the most attractive woman. You guys are living in fantasy.

Sorry....I forgot ur not the type of woman not even a shark will approach if u was on your period dripping blood...

I live in the real world where even homely looking women get approach constantly by men....

u must not have anything going on for yourself for a man to approach u..

Every other female poster on here can tell u they get thrown dikk in their face every 20 seconds when they walking down the street..

I GUESS U NEED TO HEAD TO HOLLYWOOD OR NEW YORK AND GET SOME WORK DOWN BY A DOCTOR IF U NOT GETTING APPROACH.... AT LEAST YOU CAN HEAD TO THE POUND AND PICK UP A CAT... BUT THAT EVEN THAT MIGHT BE A STRETCH IF U CAN'T GET A dikk TO APPROACH U, I'M PRETTY SURE A p*ssy WOULDN'T EITHER
 
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