People will disagree, but that's what I have seen on many occasions. Yes, I get approached by good men, but if I see a man that I am interested in and there is a chance that I will never see him again I am going to start some conversation with him.
Yeah. Life is short. Why simply settle for average when you can get better?
A lot of women don't feel they're good enough for what they really want, which is why they settle for what approaches them. They also have very fragile egos, so rejection would only serve to shatter what little ego they have.
They'd rather hide behind the "I don't approach" excuse as opposed to working on themselves and putting their best foot forward in an effort to get what they truly want.
They're really no different than the man who doesn't even try and simply falls back on the "All Black women want thugs" garbage.