Seems that a lot of men have lost their virginities at a young age to significantly older women

[#SOG_soldier]

This reminds me of that African Bambata thing.

It's like everyone is always trying to protect the little girls and treat them well, but forget about the little boys.

I was going to make a thread about boys being molested (by males b/c of the african bambata thing) but then I thought it would be pointless. Most males wouldn't admit to that, especially black males b/c they wouldn't want to be seen as gay. & most women wouldn't date a male who they know was molested by a male.

Not the same thing. Afrika can rape them a woman can't force me to do anything besides no teenager doesn't want sex from an older woman

 

[#SOG_soldier]

In both instances this should never be the case. They're always trying label black boys as men. Basically eliminating their childhood. In the case of the thread, it's an issue that seems to have happened to a lot of men at tender age and it's never discussed at full mass like other issues (though those issues are important) and that's unfortunate.

Also wish some of y'all that posted could be a little more serious. Laugh and jeer about it but I'm sure if it was your little boy being fondled or put in a situation like that you wouldn't be smiling.

If you ain't a man by 13 MENTALLY AND SEXUALLY you are a fakkit. Boys mature faster than women

 

[#SOG_soldier]

My babysitter(14 yrs old) took my virginity when I was 9.

Woke up from a nap and she was grinding on top of me.It wasn't a dry hump, neither.My lil peter was squishing around in something wet & warm.

We "humped" about 5-6 times after that, but for some reason, it didn't sit well with me.I ended up telling my mom.Just cuz I thought it was the right thing to do


It was like my conscious hacked my brain and made me go tell momz about it.I was conflicted.I knew it was wrong, but I didn't really wanna tell, but I ended up telling anyway



Won't front, a huge part of me had kinda feelings for Shay(My sitter).


I admit it made me over-sexed.Got turned out on the puzzy at a young age.It was too soon of a discovery

Yeah 9 too young 13 is just right

 

[Ineedmoney504]

Are u aware of the kind of psychological damage it does to these young males when exposed to sex at a young age ?

man fukk outta here

I was watching flicks and beating off at like age 7-8 no old bytches wasn't giving me no p*ssy tho

I was molested by a female baby sitter. I was around 3 or 4 years old. She made me lay on her naked body. She was very bossy. She had really huge breasts and looked like a Young Pam Brier. But we didn't have sex etc. All I did was lay on her. shyt was weird and uncomfortable cause I didn't understand what was going on. As a result it made me shy around women to the point where I didn't lose my virginity until I was 22 and even then that experience was like...I had been passing up p*ssy left and right and even told women I was waiting for marriage. But this sister was a Leo and fresh out of prison.

After that I didn't have sex for 11 years. I think that experience when I was a child really fukked with me psychologically and made me miss lots of opportunities in life. I am the definition of a late bloomer. It wasn't until after the third person I had sex with I completely lost my shyness. But even though it happened I am not bitter and glad that I didn't become like my father and grandfather who have 10+ kids. The pimpin is in my genes but I've learned to control it through nofap and just being smart about who I associate with.

u sound p*ssy and probably just couldn't get no hoes. I don't even remember what was going on at age 4

 

[Dre Space Age]

If I find out that a grown ass woman is fukking on my son, she's going to get yoked up

Word I'll literally take off my belt and whoop a bytch's ass.

 

[Kwéyòl]

come to think of it after my "event"

Spoiler

i was 8 going on 9 she was 14 & her sister was 16.

i became way more reserve and quite. At the same time i was playing hide and hump with the girls in my class in 5th grade. i was feeling up and kissing my cousin's high school friends while i was in middle school. on some real shyt its why i have an aversion to eating pum pum, i dont like kissing, cuddling or holding hands. I had a girlfriend the only time i went over her house was to fukk i would text her some "lovey " shyt so she wouldn't feel like i was using her or she was a thot. No matter how many times i say i love you deep down i never felt it.I dont even think i men that shyt when i say it . its just a response to make em feel better bout themselves before i leave. in fact i dont really care about females outside of sex . I'd listen to them talk but i really dont care what they talking bout

 

[thoushallhustle]

This reminds me of that African Bambata thing.

It's like everyone is always trying to protect the little girls and treat them well, but forget about the little boys.

I was going to make a thread about boys being molested (by males b/c of the african bambata thing) but then I thought it would be pointless. Most males wouldn't admit to that, especially black males b/c they wouldn't want to be seen as gay. & most women wouldn't date a male who they know was molested by a male.

I got a homie that had this happen to him. One night we were doing cocaine together and he confessed it all. He was molested by an teenage boy in the neighborhood who was real popular and played football. It really did a number on my homies psyche. He was married, has kids, and seems like your average straight black man. Dude is deeeeep in the closet with his shyt. His ex wife used to fukk his with dildos and he loved tranny porn.

 

[Dre Space Age]

man fukk outta here

I was watching flicks and beating off at like age 7-8 no old bytches wasn't giving me no p*ssy tho

u sound p*ssy and probably just couldn't get no hoes. I don't even remember what was going on at age 4

far from it. when I was shy, p*ssy still got thrown at me. i literally had chicks bucknaked in my room sitting on my lap. i went on dates. i made out, sucked on titties but still would not have sex.


the average age humans begin remembering from their childhood is around 3 1/2 years old. My memories go back to around 1 1/2.

 

[Ooh Marty]

come to think of it after my "event"

Spoiler

i was 8 going on 9 she was 14 & her sister was 16.

i became way more reserve and quite. At the same time i was playing hide and hump with the girls in my class in 5th grade. i was feeling up and kissing my cousin's high school friends while i was in middle school. on some real shyt its why i have an aversion to eating pum pum, i dont like kissing, cuddling or holding hands. I had a girlfriend the only time i went over her house was to fukk i would text her some "lovey " shyt so she wouldn't feel like i was using her or she was a thot. No matter how many times i say i love you deep down i never felt it.I dont even think i men that shyt when i say it . its just a response to make em feel better bout themselves before i leave. in fact i dont really care about females outside of sex . I'd listen to them talk but i really dont care what they talking bout

This and @Dre Space Age post are prime examples of what I mean.

When a young male is used for sex by an older woman, his view of women and the world changes completely

 

[全能の神]

This and @Dre Space Age post are prime examples of what I mean.

When a young male is used for sex by an older woman, his view of women and the world changes completely

you gonna cherrypick 2 people out of all the other posts

 

[Ineedmoney504]

This and @Dre Space Age post are prime examples of what I mean.

When a young male is used for sex by an older woman, his view of women and the world changes completely

Still believing these nikkaz duck tales I see

I treat bytches like @Sauce God and ain't shyt happen to me. What's the difference between me and him?

 

[#SOG_soldier]

come to think of it after my "event"

Spoiler

i was 8 going on 9 she was 14 & her sister was 16.

i became way more reserve and quite. At the same time i was playing hide and hump with the girls in my class in 5th grade. i was feeling up and kissing my cousin's high school friends while i was in middle school. on some real shyt its why i have an aversion to eating pum pum, i dont like kissing, cuddling or holding hands. I had a girlfriend the only time i went over her house was to fukk i would text her some "lovey " shyt so she wouldn't feel like i was using her or she was a thot. No matter how many times i say i love you deep down i never felt it.I dont even think i men that shyt when i say it . its just a response to make em feel better bout themselves before i leave. in fact i dont really care about females outside of sex . I'd listen to them talk but i really dont care what they talking bout

It's called being a real nikka. Women number one use is sex. Ain't nothing wrong with you

 

[Dre Space Age]

come to think of it after my "event"

Spoiler

i was 8 going on 9 she was 14 & her sister was 16.

i became way more reserve and quite. At the same time i was playing hide and hump with the girls in my class in 5th grade. i was feeling up and kissing my cousin's high school friends while i was in middle school. on some real shyt its why i have an aversion to eating pum pum, i dont like kissing, cuddling or holding hands. I had a girlfriend the only time i went over her house was to fukk i would text her some "lovey " shyt so she wouldn't feel like i was using her or she was a thot. No matter how many times i say i love you deep down i never felt it.I dont even think i men that shyt when i say it . its just a response to make em feel better bout themselves before i leave. in fact i dont really care about females outside of sex . I'd listen to them talk but i really dont care what they talking bout

I have some of the same issues you have. It kind of makes us seem like we're a little coldhearted, but we really aren't.

 

[InDePickWest]

Are u aware of the kind of psychological damage it does to these young males when exposed to sex at a young age ?

I think I said on the first page sis, that it's a battle not worth fighting. A lot are fukked up in the head. Sexual abuse does pretty irrefutable damage to children growing up, girls accept it, boys neglect it because they are taught to.

Little story:

I had a guy tell me he was raped by his moms best friend and her daughter (he was.. I knew the girl..her older sister dated one of my older brothers and we used to hang out all the time despite her being like 7 years older than me..cool chick) and I tried to tell him maybe that's the reason he was 4 baby mommas in at 19 (yeah I told you these nikkas are severely damaged). He cursed me out and told me he's just a straight male that loves p*ssy. I told him that being hypersexual is a mans way of coping, along with unneeded aggression, he told me I didn't know men and got upset and really peaced out on me. Literally last I checked he's in jail for trying to run over one of his women. I knew the real him tho. A sweet boy who didn't know how to cope with what happened to him. His mom and his auntie beat the breaks off her friend who was in her damn 40's and the daughter lives out here in LA so they told me if I ever see her to pop the trunk on her..but why should I if the nikka didn't even think he was a victim? He has all girls but no doubt if he had boys he'd try to get them raped too.

Moral of the story: It did something to me when he told me that in confidence, you can tell he was holding back tears. I went home and cried. But guess what? The next day at school he told everybody I sucked his dikk. Lol no lie. He was literally sitting on my floor telling me this while I was sitting on my bed then went back to school and sexualized me. My twin bros put something on him tho


I know you didn't ask for this but I wanted to share cuz I never told anybody the full story

Complete with the dikk sucking rumors

 

[Ooh Marty]

you gonna cherrypick 2 people out of all the other posts

They're the only two that went into detail about how it affected their lives