I actually do look in the mirror for advice/ criticism
And “discipline “ his girl? Man watch your words that’s a slippery slope homie… only disciplining he should be doing is exercising his power to walk tf away
relationships are a pain man....like am i wrong here?!!
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And “discipline “ his girl? Man watch your words that’s a slippery slope homie… only disciplining he should be doing is exercising his power to walk tf away
African Peasant
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Yes, discipline. Put boundaries and give proper instructions. If she refuses, she out. 2 people or more cannot be together without a common framework.
Duke Wy Lin
It's been a good run. Wish y'all the best ✊🏿
Well, compromise is the corner stone of every relationship. Even the most introverted of men (if he is reasonable) would want to compromise for the sake of his girl. The problem in the case of OP, if we take his post at face value, is that his woman does not recognize the effort he makes in terms of keeping her happy. This is clearly a problem.
Mirin4rmfar
Superstar
I wouldn't say disrespect because she hasn't but apparently I am not meeting her expectations as her bf to make her feel appreciated. I will see what this leads to.
the bossman
Superstar
You flew her around the world and you haven't met her expectations
Unless her vagina pulling out the next wembanyama, why are you making this shyt so difficult?
Consider this, how do you feel?
Do you feel like she’s meeting your expectations? Are there things she could do better?
Are you happy with her? If you are tell her that.
That’s one of these things women like to hear.
Were you happy otherwise prior to this conversation?
Did you feel prior to these conversations that you were on a path to marriage?
The problem is, it sounds like she dictating or controlling the pace of the relationship.
And she doesn’t want to do. She wants you to take initiative and plan dates more frequently without being told.
Not because she expects it but because she wants to know that you actually want to spend time with her.
You got put your foot down and be in control.
With women you have to remember you’re always being compared to their ex’s, flings, social media, movies and horny men they encounter.
As many people have said, anything you do at the beginning of a relationship, be prepared to do that the rest of the relationship. You're in constant campaigning mode with women. When a woman says you don't do this or that anymore, she's often right but forgets that such was done to get into the door. I'd say put your foot down but either ways, you'll probably have to let this one go.
DatLBCGuy562
Superstar
I stopped at a very young trying to be a woman pleaser. I’m talking, 22-24, tops. Best decision I ever made for my sanity and peace of mind. I, like most men raised before the advent of the internet, was indoctrinated with the Disney movie bullshyt. Treat her like a queen, “happy wife, happy life”, never stop dating her, always court her, etc. All bullshyt. These women don’t appreciate shyt. All that that matters to her is the latest gift, trip, fancy dinner. Nothing before TODAY matters in a woman’s mind. That shyt is for the birds. Racking your finances and tranquility of spirit to make some ungrateful, lack of perspective having whore satisfied so that you continue having access to her vagina and fukked up attitude is not the life for me 
you simps can tell yourselves whatever you need to. That you “stepped up to the plate“ and you were a “real man” for wifing up some nagging, perpetually unsatisfied whore who will literally drain all of life’s joy out of you, as well as your hard earned resources,over time if you’re not smart enough to recognize the trap and avoid it early in life. fukk that. I spend all my time and money making MYSELF happy. Doing shyt I wanna do, eating where I wanna eat, going where I wanna go. I’m always satisfied, never feel taken advantage of or under appreciated, and I’m appreciative of my efforts
Brehs better wake up….life is a one time shot. Ain’t No do overs and you don’t get wasted time back…
you simps can tell yourselves whatever you need to. That you “stepped up to the plate“ and you were a “real man” for wifing up some nagging, perpetually unsatisfied whore who will literally drain all of life’s joy out of you, as well as your hard earned resources,over time if you’re not smart enough to recognize the trap and avoid it early in life. fukk that. I spend all my time and money making MYSELF happy. Doing shyt I wanna do, eating where I wanna eat, going where I wanna go. I’m always satisfied, never feel taken advantage of or under appreciated, and I’m appreciative of my efforts
Brehs better wake up….life is a one time shot. Ain’t No do overs and you don’t get wasted time back…
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J.E.T.S
Lookahere mayne...
She’s pushing you away. There’s a reason for this.
Do NOT go to that therapist bruh.
Walk away. Tell her to go find better.
& to the fool talking about “why I’m in a relationship with someone I don’t trust?”
man, y’all nikkas just don’t learn.
ALonelyDad
Veteran
ungrateful woman, next time give me the ticket you bought for her and we can enjoy our vacation together
Lmao user name checks out
Disrespect is not just her cussing you out bruh.
My advice would be not to go to that therapy because that’s her idea.
You are literally in a position now where she’s dictating the outcome regardless of how you feel.
From your posts bruh, you also come across like you don’t like confrontations.
Man up a bit and dash your balls on her forehead.
