Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[karim]

what exactly do you want from that chick? if you wanted to hit, you should have made the move when she told you about her first date rule. her telling you this is her saying that she wants you but it "wouldn't be right". at that point, all you gotta do is "make it right" in her mind.

also, i totally agree with you in the end. the ball is in her court. She's the one who canceled. she's the one who said she would set something up. give her the opportunity to do so by laying back and not seeking anything from her. Also, don't even bother asking her if she's playing games. It's the most pointless question ever cause if she isn't she'll say no and if she is, she'll still say no because it's part of her game. fall back and let her choose what she wants in her life while you keep going forward with or without her.

on the one hand you are right, but on the other hand woman doing this is something that seriously turns me off. i have turned p*ssy down because of this. in my mind i was like "we're both adults, grow the fukk up and take responsibility for your actions". might be stupid but i just hate that shyt.

 

[Rayzah]

on the one hand you are right, but on the other hand woman doing this is something that seriously turns me off. i have turned p*ssy down because of this. in my mind i was like "we're both adults, grow the fukk up and take responsibility for your actions". might be stupid but i just hate that shyt.

Right this is what makes things complicated sometimes, that whole giving mixed signals thing is ridiculous. If you want to do it then your grown ass should just do it, fukk whats "not right"

 

[Turbulent]

on the one hand you are right, but on the other hand woman doing this is something that seriously turns me off. i have turned p*ssy down because of this. in my mind i was like "we're both adults, grow the fukk up and take responsibility for your actions". might be stupid but i just hate that shyt.

i feel you. at some point you just get tired of this and playing the never ending game of getting puss. I can't front though, that's how i used to think and get some. it kind of is a short cut to getting p*ssy but the tradeoff is that you're teaching her that you're willing to play her game to get her p*ssy which could make you lose more energy in the long run if you consider wifing her later on...

 

[Kartel13]

Brehs, there's always a bottom line to everything in this world. At one point, we have to look at things as black and white. Anything in between is a fukken headache. Either the girl is into you or she's not. It's as simple as that. If you want to make things easier, don't stress going in for the kiss until the 2-3 date. Just worry about picking her brain and finding out if she's damaged goods or the level of insecurity she's carrying. Play things cool and don't worry if you're going to get it in. Like many have stated in this thread, be careless about your feelings. Just don't give a fukk.


After a couple of dates, go in. If she backs off or resists, DROP HER. You're saving yourself a headache. It's that simple.

 

[karim]

i feel you. at some point you just get tired of this and playing the never ending game of getting puss. I can't front though, that's how i used to think and get some. it kind of is a short cut to getting p*ssy but the tradeoff is that you're teaching her that you're willing to play her game to get her p*ssy which could make you lose more energy in the long run if you consider wifing her later on...

it just encourages the female notion that men should be mind readers. i don't do that anymore. if she says no, i understand no, if she says yes, i understand yes. i know four languages, but unfortunately, woman-speak is not one of them, so she is free to choose from one of the others to communicate with me.

 

[karim]

i feel you. at some point you just get tired of this and playing the never ending game of getting puss. I can't front though, that's how i used to think and get some. it kind of is a short cut to getting p*ssy but the tradeoff is that you're teaching her that you're willing to play her game to get her p*ssy which could make you lose more energy in the long run if you consider wifing her later on...

it just encourages the female notion that men should be mind readers. i don't do that anymore. if she says no, i understand no, if she says yes, i understand yes. i know four languages, but unfortunately, woman-speak is not one of them, so she is free to choose from one of the others to communicate with me.

 

[Mr210]

Brehs, there's always a bottom line to everything in this world. At one point, we have to look at things as black and white. Anything in between is a fukken headache. Either the girl is into you or she's not. It's as simple as that. If you want to make things easier, don't stress going in for the kiss until the 2-3 date. Just worry about picking her brain and finding out if she's damaged goods or the level of insecurity she's carrying. Play things cool and don't worry if you're going to get it in. Like many have stated in this thread, be careless about your feelings. Just don't give a fukk.


After a couple of dates, go in. If she backs off or resists, DROP HER. You're saving yourself a headache. It's that simple.

real talk, i would say 90% of the time, i usually end up kissing the chick on the first date but a lot of times, its not me going in for the kiss its the woman. Like with the chick I was talking about yesterday. we were sitting next to each other and she went in for the kiss and it was fairly early in the date.

 

[Mr210]

so where do you guys like to go on a first meetup? Ive always felt the dinner thing feels like an interview, last date I went on was to a minor league baseball game, i found it fun and relaxing.

 

[Mr210]

In my opinion I would expect her to assume you got her number so you can set up a date, and if she is on a dating site then I would assume she would be willing to meet you at her next earliest convenience. As far as text vs call, I always text first, I only call if I have alot to say or after the first date.

see i usually call, and keep the first message brief, because i guess texting seems so informal, however; I think with this chick im going to text, it seems like now that is what people prefer. She said hope to hear from you soon. See if I can get something popping this weekend

 

[MikelArteta]

On dating sites if she finds you attractive you can say anything

 

[MikelArteta]

[quote, post: 5055399, member: 3394"]so where do you guys like to go on a first meetup? Ive always felt the dinner thing feels like an interview, last date I went on was to a minor league baseball game, i found it fun and relaxing.[/quote]

I usually do something I want to do

dinner = money. Hell I hate eating out so why im i going to spend bread even if im just paying for my meal hell no.

 

[Medio]

so where do you guys like to go on a first meetup? Ive always felt the dinner thing feels like an interview, last date I went on was to a minor league baseball game, i found it fun and relaxing.

walk in the park and coffee, or since it's summer maybe mlikshakes. i don't know i find them very nice, you can just walk and talk, then you can sit down on a bench or something, then make a move if you feel the chemistry is right.

very cheap and it seems like it won't take long but if the date is right it'll be 3 hours in no time

 

[Mr210]

walk in the park and coffee, or since it's summer maybe mlikshakes. i don't know i find them very nice, you can just walk and talk, then you can sit down on a bench or something, then make a move if you feel the chemistry is right.

very cheap and it seems like it won't take long but if the date is right it'll be 3 hours in no time

a walk in the park actually works? with this texas heat and humidity, hell I wouldnt even want to do that

 

[Soundbwoy]

just finished talking to this girl, I can really hear in her voice she is genuinely feeling me Ive been so jaded from previous relationships/dealings with previous women I'm kind of scared of fukking things up with her like I did with others, Im meeting with her on Sunday I was thinking of going at an outdoor art fest then go grab something to eat

 

[Malta]

I watched Crazy, Stupid, Love today and @ them trying to make people sympathetic to dudes whore wife that cheated on him, then asked for a divorce because she was bored. That movie was pretty realistic in how it portrayed the average American women's inability to take blame, then they tried to vilify the husband for going out and fukking random women while he was separated