Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ahadi

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we talked about this a few days ago...not a car specifically though.

it isnt you breh...thats all i can say lol. and yes its more of a black thing. the odd time i'll know a black chick who fine with us taking the subway and shyt but a lot of the time they expect yall to uber and if you dont they are judging you. Unbeknownst to them, I'll have my sky dweller on, a $2000 outfit on, got my own place, I done paid for the date etc....but they gon assume you cheap/broke just cause you dont uber or own a whip :mjlol:. Our people are mentally behind breh.

most other women dont be expecting anything though. I had a colombian shorty come over off hinge the other day and she ubered herself to my crib. as a courtesy i ubered her back.

!!!!!!!!!

I had a situation like this with an ex lol.

Date went great, paid for everything, she was enamored the entire time. I forgot however long it was, maybe a month or two later, she said “you know the one thing that irked me was you didn’t call me an uber to the lounge”

:gucci:

So idk maybe it is a black thing. I haven’t had that experience with another woman of a different background yet.

I’ve attempted to do the uber thing with other women, but some weren’t comfortable and didnt want me to know their address. But happy I offered.
 
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!!!!!!!!!

I had a situation like this with an ex lol.

Date went great, paid for everything, she was enamored the entire time. I forgot however long it was, maybe a month or two later, she said “you know the one thing that irked me was you didn’t call me an uber to the lounge”

:gucci:

So idk maybe it is a black thing. I haven’t had that experience with another woman of a different background yet.

I’ve attempted to do the uber thing with other women, but some weren’t comfortable and didnt want me to know their address. But happy I offered.
I ain’t calling a bytch an uber unless it’s to come to my place or take her home from my place late at night

Sets a bad precedent with somebody who i barely know in my opinion
 

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Its amazing how upset women get when you regain your power.

Had a chick who i was dating for 3 months. She hit me with the “hey im not feeling a connection, we can hang out as friends occasionally, if not I understand.” I never responded as there wasn’t anything to say, as I wasnt putting myself in the friendzone.

She’s been checking my ig stories for weeks now, caught her looking at them today and then she unfollowed :mjlol::mjlol:

These egos are insane out here
 

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Its amazing how upset women get when you regain your power.

Had a chick who i was dating for 3 months. She hit me with the “hey im not feeling a connection, we can hang out as friends occasionally, if not I understand.” I never responded as there wasn’t anything to say, as I wasnt putting myself in the friendzone.

She’s been checking my ig stories for weeks now, caught her looking at them today and then she unfollowed :mjlol::mjlol:

These egos are insane out here
Post her IG
 

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Its amazing how upset women get when you regain your power.

Had a chick who i was dating for 3 months. She hit me with the “hey im not feeling a connection, we can hang out as friends occasionally, if not I understand.” I never responded as there wasn’t anything to say, as I wasnt putting myself in the friendzone.

She’s been checking my ig stories for weeks now, caught her looking at them today and then she unfollowed :mjlol::mjlol:

These egos are insane out here


Were you sleeping together? As much as I don't think "friend zone" is THAT much of a real thing, it def. isn't the version that people seem to dread AFTER you've slept together. Doesn't sex invalidate the entire idea of the friend zone?
 
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Were you sleeping together? As much as I don't think "friend zone" is THAT much of a real thing, it def. isn't the version that people seem to dread AFTER you've slept together. Doesn't sex invalidate the entire idea of the friend zone?
If he getting tossed in the friendzone after you smash, then that says something about OP's "Loin Tendering" Skillset.... :hubie:
 

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Its amazing how upset women get when you regain your power.

Had a chick who i was dating for 3 months. She hit me with the “hey im not feeling a connection, we can hang out as friends occasionally, if not I understand.” I never responded as there wasn’t anything to say, as I wasnt putting myself in the friendzone.

She’s been checking my ig stories for weeks now, caught her looking at them today and then she unfollowed :mjlol::mjlol:

These egos are insane out here
Sometimes you treat em too good they resent you
 
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