that i lurk this thread everyday
this thread saved me from almost going out with this young pretty broad with TWO fukkING KIDS
anyways she said that she sorta had plans with a friend on sunday...but that it wasnt def., and that she will find out for sure tomorrow, and let me know ASAP and we will be able to get together on sunday. More than likely Im not seeing her on sunday, since it was sorta of last minute. but if she comes up with some other plan in turn then there is some interest on her part, but if she just says she cant make it and then doesnt offer any other options to reschedule I know she wasnt feeling me[/quote
who cares throw her in the bushes...
I watched Crazy, Stupid, Love today and@ them trying to make people sympathetic to dudes whore wife that cheated on him, then asked for a divorce because she was bored. That movie was pretty realistic in how it portrayed the average American women's inability to take blame, then they tried to vilify the husband for going out and fukking random women while he was separated
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I've said it before and I'll say it again, Romantic movies can be just as damaging to how women view the opposite sex as porn can be for men. The female behavior that the genre tries to justify is perplexing at times, its no wonder some of these chicks feel so entitled
I know cats who are working full time, making good money, going to school at night, taking care of they girl and their baby, thats cool too.. one day I may have to do something like that. but right now, there is no weight on my shoulders.. some people might try to put something on my back, I shake that shyt off.. there ain't enough time in a day to carry any weight but my own. Don't get me wrong, I'm a good friend, I take care of my folks, I live day to day... nowadays.. I live a 1 day theory, when I go to sleep tonight.. I might not wake up tomorrow.. so I'm going to enjoy today. If I wake up tomorrow.. I will wake up feeling renewed and blessed all over again to live another day, and to be a witness of this crazy world.
I try to live my life without regrets, and I'm sorry that when I did have the girl of my dreams, I was so uptight,..trying to plan a future for the both of us, stressing me out and I probably wasn't very happy with all that pressure of responsibility to be the best man. I'm not the best man in the world.. and now I don't have to be.
You can eliminate all worry and fears by letting go of everything.. no stress.. maybe a little frustration at work, but nothing that will last. Everything in life is temporary, relationships, jobs, bank accounts, laws, highs, lows, once you accept all of that, and let go of you idea to control those things, life is truly something to appreciate.
Attachment is an illusion, control is an illusion. Its all in your mind..sometimes you have to just take your time, to accept what is, for what it is, the reality of it, is temporary, because everything is constantly changing... like when people say.. stop and smell the roses, you have to literally do that in the moments of life as much as possible. I try to appreciate all the victories that can possibly happen within a day.
Since the first day I was blessed to grace this earth man, I've been surviving, I've been living up right, and doing the best I can, and I look where its got me, I feel successful, and there is not one single reason why I should believe that I will lose my success in life.
my goal is not let shyt fukk with me, to be happy today, thats it.. keeping it simple over here.
thats right.. she was never his. and never is, or was.. none of that shyt.
You cant act like you own a woman like a slave and shyt..
you act like you own a chick, then you're setting your self up to be disappointed over and over..
its like an open hand.. you open your hand you might get her to put her hands into yours.. but if you grab ahold of her hand and hold it tight, its only a matter of time till she will want to be free like she should be, leave your hand open, let her come and goes as she pleases, she will always come back.. and if she dont, at least you wont be crying about it six months later on a message board.
call me sucker,... you cant lose if you aint got shyt to lose. The upper hand is making your girl want you.. thats the bottom line. Sure, you like her, you want her, but ultimately.. you dont have to tell her that. She is not concerned with how bad you want her, she is concerned with how bad she wants you.. thats all I got to worry about.. making sure she knows what she wants, and that what she wants is me. And once she got you clocking her every move, she aint gonna want you no more.
Im wax on wax off on that ass.. keeping my karma clean, living prosperous with a smile on my face. I can break up with a chick and she still love me... mean while you trying to hold a chick down and make her feel inferior. Thats too much work on another person, I put in work on my self and let the blessings hit me.
Yup because if she says no, no biggie I was going to see that movie anywaus .
Me hey I think we should hang sometimes
Her sure I'm not doing anything Friday
Me that's cool im going down to the waterfront to take some pictures then seeing aovie after, see you around 7.
You've taken the power away, you already had plans she's just becoming a part of it
If she calls Thursday and she says I can't make it who cares because your plans aren't changing , whether you were going by yourself or with her you were going to enjoy yourself regardless.
And daps again regarding the roster we've all been there , only one stock holding onto, the desperation etc
Its like owning one system let's say with nba2k13 it keeps shutting off, you have no more games so you keep putting up with the unrrealibility hoping it changes. If you had more games or another system with NBA 2k13 you'd be like scrrw it I'm not putting up with this crap anymore.