Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Fatboi1]

Breh this chick at my job really just got me like I know the inevitable "don't dip your pen in company ink" or "Don't shyt where you eat" posts will ensue but this is a job I'm not looking to stay at for much longer.
First it started like a few months ago I'd say in April when she started there. She'd be all talkative to me and showing me interest. I seeing that, immediately took it as a go signal and started flirting lightly with her. Well one day out the blue her friend who also works there was in the front office with me and the girl. I ask the girl for a dollar(playing) and her friend was like "fatboi, she wants you to fukk the shyt out of her before and then she'll give you the doller." I'm like "cool but yea about that dollar."

Fast forward like a few months later I asked for her number one day while at work and she texted me that same day while we still working like "Can u keep a secret?"

I'm like "Yea, I don't kiss and tell" Yadda yadda and she asks me if I want to kiss her. I think I said I could do that. She then started getting more sexual like she want me to bite her butt too "lol". So from then on she starts callin me boo at work in front of the other cats and the manager(a chick) plays along too callin me her "ex" and other funny shyt.

Now the thing that confuses me is since then occasionally she'd be giving me mixed signals. She'll text me or ask me to call her when I'm leaving work and we'd text a little but it be really explicit and then when I try to tell her she's bluffing she say she serious. I try to get her to slide to the house and she like nah my cousins and shyt live there too since my cousins also work at my spot(a big hotel with different businesses.)

She then said I could come to her house since she was about to move into her own spot which she did already. Since then I haven't went into her house but I took her home one day from work since she lives real close to the job and her house is in the same direction to where I drive. She again still in that "boo" mode outside of work so I take it that she's serious.


The funny thing is one day I text her saying I'ma come through the next night and she better not make excuses and she like "ok" "Fatboi we not havin sex" and I just was like thats wassup. I told her it's so available but w/e. She then said oh we just cool and we just flirting blah blah. At work this chick sees me and be hugging me(i never see her hug anyone else in there although it's a small job) and she always notice when I ignore her. Now recently last night I just texted her out the blue and she was on some one word reply shyt.

I tell her cool i see how she is and told her I'll hit her up another time I gotta go call someone. She like "Lol u crazy" and then told me she don't care. I told her she think she the shyt and she call me like who am i talking to? She didn't ask me in a angry manner but more so in a puzzled fashion. I tell her I'm playing and she like ok well she'll see me tmrrw at work but I was off today. I then texted her back like "fukk outta here" and she text me back like "look u crazy", ,"u takin it too far," "We just cool and flirtin" "u acting like we had sex...relax", "no more flirtin between us, ok lil nigg". I ain't even reply to that shyt. This chick seems like a chick who love the attention.

The shyt that kills me is SHE initiated all this sextin and explicit flirting and then has the nerve to tell me this shyt. I deleted her number and text so I can't even respond to her now. I was just tryna hit it but all this dumb shyt she doing makes me think she just fukking playing. The thing that befuddled me is she at times done shyt showing me she liked me such as tellin me to call her and then CALLING ME when I don't, saying she misses me(one time she did that) and some other shyt. Sorry for the length and hasty post but It was just something I felt like sharing. There may be a few key details missing so I'll elucidate if needed.

 

[nls743]

i'd take it as a sign that i need to move on to the next one. what difference does it make if she has a boyfriend or not, if she was interested but fronting or if she just wasn't interested? fukk playing sherlock holmes, she said she's not allowed to give her number so i'd figure i'm not getting the number. nice meeting you, peace out.

well i asked the question because....this is a thread called gems on dealing with women. she was about to leave before I asked for her number so I pretty much did walk away afterwards. But I chalked up the L and kept it moving

 

[karim]

Breh this chick at my job really just got me like I know the inevitable "don't dip your pen in company ink" or "Don't shyt where you eat" posts will ensue but this is a job I'm not looking to stay at for much longer.
First it started like a few months ago I'd say in April when she started there. She'd be all talkative to me and showing me interest. I seeing that, immediately took it as a go signal and started flirting lightly with her. Well one day out the blue her friend who also works there was in the front office with me and the girl. I ask the girl for a dollar(playing) and her friend was like "fatboi, she wants you to fukk the shyt out of her before and then she'll give you the doller." I'm like "cool but yea about that dollar."

Fast forward like a few months later I asked for her number one day while at work and she texted me that same day while we still working like "Can u keep a secret?"

I'm like "Yea, I don't kiss and tell" Yadda yadda and she asks me if I want to kiss her. I think I said I could do that. She then started getting more sexual like she want me to bite her butt too "lol". So from then on she starts callin me boo at work in front of the other cats and the manager(a chick) plays along too callin me her "ex" and other funny shyt.

Now the thing that confuses me is since then occasionally she'd be giving me mixed signals. She'll text me or ask me to call her when I'm leaving work and we'd text a little but it be really explicit and then when I try to tell her she's bluffing she say she serious. I try to get her to slide to the house and she like nah my cousins and shyt live there too since my cousins also work at my spot(a big hotel with different businesses.)

She then said I could come to her house since she was about to move into her own spot which she did already. Since then I haven't went into her house but I took her home one day from work since she lives real close to the job and her house is in the same direction to where I drive. She again still in that "boo" mode outside of work so I take it that she's serious.


The funny thing is one day I text her saying I'ma come through the next night and she better not make excuses and she like "ok" "Fatboi we not havin sex" and I just was like thats wassup. I told her it's so available but w/e. She then said oh we just cool and we just flirting blah blah. At work this chick sees me and be hugging me(i never see her hug anyone else in there although it's a small job) and she always notice when I ignore her. Now recently last night I just texted her out the blue and she was on some one word reply shyt.

I tell her cool i see how she is and told her I'll hit her up another time I gotta go call someone. She like "Lol u crazy" and then told me she don't care. I told her she think she the shyt and she call me like who am i talking to? She didn't ask me in a angry manner but more so in a puzzled fashion. I tell her I'm playing and she like ok well she'll see me tmrrw at work but I was off today. I then texted her back like "fukk outta here" and she text me back like "look u crazy", ,"u takin it too far," "We just cool and flirtin" "u acting like we had sex...relax", "no more flirtin between us, ok lil nigg". I ain't even reply to that shyt. This chick seems like a chick who love the attention.

The shyt that kills me is SHE initiated all this sextin and explicit flirting and then has the nerve to tell me this shyt. I deleted her number and text so I can't even respond to her now. I was just tryna hit it but all this dumb shyt she doing makes me think she just fukking playing. The thing that befuddled me is she at times done shyt showing me she liked me such as tellin me to call her and then CALLING ME when I don't, saying she misses me(one time she did that) and some other shyt. Sorry for the length and hasty post but It was just something I felt like sharing. There may be a few key details missing so I'll elucidate if needed.

she's an attention whore and enjoyed playing with you as an ego boost. you fell for that shyt and played along. don't text, don't call and at work be polite when you see her but keep your distance. if she asks you what's wrong or why are you acting different shrug and tell her you have no time for playing games. she will most likely start throwing herself at you, but you can under no circumstances react to that shyt because then she will start playing you again. get rid of that bytch.

 

[Fatboi1]

she's an attention whore and enjoyed playing with you as an ego boost. you fell for that shyt and played along. don't text, don't call and at work be polite when you see her but keep your distance. if she asks you what's wrong or why are you acting different shrug and tell her you have no time for playing games. she will most likely start throwing herself at you, but you can under no circumstances react to that shyt because then she will start playing you again. get rid of that bytch.

Yup that's exactly what I thought. I feel like I've been played. One time Shorty even went so far as to stand behind me and press her ass up on me talking about "Is my ass soft?"

 

[karim]

Yup that's exactly what I thought. I feel like I've been played. One time Shorty even went so far as to stand behind me and press her ass up on me talking about "Is my ass soft?"

that should have been a red flag right there. yes you've been played, but now you can play her by withdrawing all your attention. just be nonchalant about it.

 

[Kartel13]

she's an attention whore and enjoyed playing with you as an ego boost. you fell for that shyt and played along. don't text, don't call and at work be polite when you see her but keep your distance. if she asks you what's wrong or why are you acting different shrug and tell her you have no time for playing games. she will most likely start throwing herself at you, but you can under no circumstances react to that shyt because then she will start playing you again. get rid of that bytch.

I disagree. I think he could have got something out of it if he played his cards right. That "fukk outta here" comment showed that you got a little moist.

 

[karim]

I disagree. I think he could have got something out of it if he played his cards right. That "fukk outta here" comment showed that you got a little moist.

i doubt it, and even if so, these attention whores are like trolls. don't feed into their bullshyt.

 

[Fatboi1]

I disagree. I think he could have got something out of it if he played his cards right. That "fukk outta here" comment showed that you got a little moist.

Only time will tell. I'll just have to hold my composure and not let her push my buttons into reacting into shyt she does. shyt had me feeling some type of way to keep it 300.

 

[Kartel13]

Only time will tell. I'll just have to hold my composure and not let her push my buttons into reacting into shyt she does. shyt had me feeling some type of way to keep it 300.

She said you can come to her crib when she got her own spot. have you been direct with trying to do that?

 

[Fatboi1]

She said you can come to her crib when she got her own spot. have you been direct with trying to do that?

She has her own spot now. I know where it's at as I picked up and dropped her off to it for work one day(it's literally around the corner from the job.)

I haven't come out and explicitly say "Can I come over to your house?" Last thing she said about me coming through was her saying that her crib still not sorted out yet so it's not ready. I toyed with the idea in that one text where I told her "I'm about to slide thru" and she said she's going out.

I remember one time I was closing with her and I wasn't driving at the time so she offered me a ride home from her mother. I get in the car and her mother like "Hi Fatboi." I'm like in my head because I never met her so apparently she must have pointed me out to her. In the ride home, the girl was like "Fatboi you can come to my house(at that time I didn't know she was planning to move)" right in front of her mom.

Honestly at this point I'm not going to continue to make a fool out of myself for some p*ssy. I'm going to just be like y'all said nonchalant and basically ignore/reject her advances.

 

[Soundbwoy]

She has her own spot now. I know where it's at as I picked up and dropped her off to it for work one day(it's literally around the corner from the job.)

I haven't come out and explicitly say "Can I come over to your house?" Last thing she said about me coming through was her saying that her crib still not sorted out yet so it's not ready. I toyed with the idea in that one text where I told her "I'm about to slide thru" and she said she's going out. Honestly at this point I'm not going to continue to make a fool out of myself for some p*ssy. I'm going to just be like y'all said nonchalant and basically ignore/reject her advances.

just go out have fun you might end up meeting a new chick

 

[Kartel13]

She has her own spot now. I know where it's at as I picked up and dropped her off to it for work one day(it's literally around the corner from the job.)

I haven't come out and explicitly say "Can I come over to your house?" Last thing she said about me coming through was her saying that her crib still not sorted out yet so it's not ready. I toyed with the idea in that one text where I told her "I'm about to slide thru" and she said she's going out.

I remember one time I was closing with her and I wasn't driving at the time so she offered me a ride home from her mother. I get in the car and her mother like "Hi Fatboi." I'm like in my head because I never met her so apparently she must have pointed me out to her. In the ride home, the girl was like "Fatboi you can come to my house(at that time I didn't know she was planning to move)" right in front of her mom.

Honestly at this point I'm not going to continue to make a fool out of myself for some p*ssy. I'm going to just be like y'all said nonchalant and basically ignore/reject her advances.

How old is she and how old are you?

 

[Fatboi1]

How old is she and how old are you?

I'm 24 and so is she. She turns 25 later this year.

 

[Kartel13]

I'm 24 and so is she. She turns 25 later this year.

Ya'll young.

Is she a bad chick? Does she get a lot of attention by people at work?

 

[Fatboi1]

Ya'll young.

Is she a bad chick? Does she get a lot of attention by people at work?

She's
I've seen better but She just has a phat ass and is thick. At work it's not really much people there so I don't notice no blatant thirst for her.