Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RealAssanova]

dont really approach. girls who want my number always end up getting it somehow by hook or by crook. last couple of chicks, one just asked me "is this your number?________" and i said yeah. then she gave me hers as well and asked me to text her. other chick she got my number because we had to meet up somewhere for an event and we put our numbers on a list for the person who was organizing.

this type of thing doesn't happen on a weekly basis though and both of them are chicks i knew prior plus it was a very slow build up (weeks/months). And i haven't slept with neither but i feel like they are both interested. What i find is that when a chick wants you, if you give her enough space, she will figure out a way to get in your zone. Some will be upfront, some will make up excuses (sometimes even to themselves). Sometimes you just have to let it play out. Sometimes i don't even care. They'll make the move if they want me. but the tradeoff is that you will lose the ones who don't want to put themselves out there like that, if you can live with that and accept it, you're money. It's almost like doing it how girls do it. Women are natural pimps in a way. They usually wait to be chosen first. Another thing that i've learned is that you can't switch up. if she's used to making her moves towards you at her own pace and then you switch it up, she'll start feeling like she got you and move on to the next one. Since it's hard to switch it up, that's why it's probably best to not play games and come real from the get go. that way you don't have to wear a heavy mask at all times with her.

but yeah i definitely don't pull weekly numbers, lol. but i'm still happy. not saying my way is The Way though. everyone has their own style depending on their temperament. We all do what works best for ourselves.

i strongly believe in this. That and if you a really good-lookin n!gga but terrible at conversatin', the girl gets turned off in the worst way possible. Its like homegirl wanted you so badly, yet your body language and speech had her thinkin . I think good-lookin n!ggaz have it worst then average to below-par cats. You almost gotta sound and move like a playa in order for da girl to feel you, with the exception of certain chicks which that game won't work on.

 

[RealAssanova]

dont really approach. girls who want my number always end up getting it somehow by hook or by crook. last couple of chicks, one just asked me "is this your number?________" and i said yeah. then she gave me hers as well and asked me to text her. other chick she got my number because we had to meet up somewhere for an event and we put our numbers on a list for the person who was organizing.

this type of thing doesn't happen on a weekly basis though and both of them are chicks i knew prior plus it was a very slow build up (weeks/months). And i haven't slept with neither but i feel like they are both interested. What i find is that when a chick wants you, if you give her enough space, she will figure out a way to get in your zone. Some will be upfront, some will make up excuses (sometimes even to themselves). Sometimes you just have to let it play out. Sometimes i don't even care. They'll make the move if they want me. but the tradeoff is that you will lose the ones who don't want to put themselves out there like that, if you can live with that and accept it, you're money. It's almost like doing it how girls do it. Women are natural pimps in a way. They usually wait to be chosen first. Another thing that i've learned is that you can't switch up. if she's used to making her moves towards you at her own pace and then you switch it up, she'll start feeling like she got you and move on to the next one. Since it's hard to switch it up, that's why it's probably best to not play games and come real from the get go. that way you don't have to wear a heavy mask at all times with her.

but yeah i definitely don't pull weekly numbers, lol. but i'm still happy. not saying my way is The Way though. everyone has their own style depending on their temperament. We all do what works best for ourselves.

 

[Kartel13]

Is this dumping brehs?

My godson mom is unenploynent living on employment that is about to run out, so I spent a few hours fixing up her resume and cover letter.

I then sent out her resume to like over 200 places, got her like five interviews this week and hopefully a job.

In return I get notbing , except knowing my godson has. Roof over his head

Your values are all wrong, breh.

 

[sixsixtwo]

i disagree with the guy's views but i definitely salute the concept of not entertaining women who show disrespect for manhood or who try to shame you into adhering to their beliefs. basically flipping the script and taking the power of sex back.

Interesting.. What views of Roosh's do you disagree with?

 

[Kartel13]

h0es never dump they man unless they have another n!gga comin off da bench. They need that void to be filled up right away, even if its temporary and they end up regretting leavin the n!gga they was originally with. So chances are, she fukin wid a new n!gga (probably was durin the relationship, but kept it on the hush). But hey, it ain't your issue now.


As far as the breakup, you handled it well imo and now its IMPERATIVE that you keep AND maintain no contact. Remember, SHE don't care about you no more. SHE decided to end the relationship. SHE probably takin a new d!ck in and around em lips, in da puzzy and prolly up the poop chute too.

What you also gotta do is, preoccupy yourself. A breakup is usually the best time to hit the gym and go absolutely ham on the weights, kick it wid your n!ggaz and just have fun. I wouldn't recommend bangin women or rush into anything of that sort yet, because the wounds will still be fresh. However, if you feel that you can and you won't be thinkin about her, then hey, play on playa.

Weeks, months and even years down the road, you will realize that the break up was for the best. Whether it is in the form of her constantly textin/callin/stalkin you and realizing you dodged a psychotic azz trick OR through self-improvement and development that you became a much better man post break-up.

You single, can save up more $$, deal wid NO female BS and do whatever and whomever the fuk you want.

Dis ain't no ordinary W my n!gga, this a blowout.

@Ready2Run


In regards to the bolded, yes on hitting the weights and getting your overall swag up. Consider yourself dude from Crazy,Stupid, Love and you have an imaginary Ryan Gosling helping you get your swag up.

And one more thing, I think you SHOULD meet other women. But it's imperative you keep your cool and don't be bitter or negative. If they really want to know about you, hint that you just got out of something but keep it friendly. You're going to have women draped all over you because chances are you're going to have a I-don't-give-a-fukk attitude and you still miss your girl.

 

[Turbulent]

Interesting.. What views of Roosh's do you disagree with?

maybe not his "views" but i meant to say is if i meet a chick who disagrees with me on something, it doesn't mean i'll shun her right away. My thing is you could have whatever belief you want. as long as you don't try to shove them down my throat we can talk. I may not sleep with you or wife you if you have certain beliefs but if the chick has an open mind i could still entertain and maybe one of us will change our mind. To me, it's not the beliefs of feminism that are the problem. it's the attitude of trying to force and shame others into it i have a problem with.

 

[MikelArteta]

Your values are all wrong, breh.

How so?

 

[Jahmal]

On average how many number do yall bring in on a weekly basis?

Past couple girls I got lead to absolute no where both late/no response texters

I feel like I gotta scout more.

Usually 15+. I live in Atlanta where single black women are plentiful. Its not that hard to go clubbin Thursday,Friday and Saturday night and look in your phone sunday morning and discover you bagged 20 chicks over the weekend.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

Please stop updating us on these simple interactions with women until you have sex with them...

 

[Kartel13]

How so?

Were you expecting something in return? Unless I misunderstood the "Is this dumping?" part.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

i strongly believe in this. That and if you a really good-lookin n!gga but terrible at conversatin', the girl gets turned off in the worst way possible. Its like homegirl wanted you so badly, yet your body language and speech had her thinkin . I think good-lookin n!ggaz have it worst then average to below-par cats. You almost gotta sound and move like a playa in order for da girl to feel you, with the exception of certain chicks which that game won't work on.

I disagree with the bolded. If a good looking guy can learn when to shut the fukk up then he is golden. It's a lot easier to talk yourself OUT of p*ssy than in to it, he doesn't even need to have to have great game, if he can learn to think before he speaks and let the chick fill in most of the mystery with her mind then he's got it made.

 

[kevm3]

i strongly believe in this. That and if you a really good-lookin n!gga but terrible at conversatin', the girl gets turned off in the worst way possible. Its like homegirl wanted you so badly, yet your body language and speech had her thinkin . I think good-lookin n!ggaz have it worst then average to below-par cats. You almost gotta sound and move like a playa in order for da girl to feel you, with the exception of certain chicks which that game won't work on.

If a woman thinks you're fine, you have to stay in that consistent frame. One thing is, if a woman thinks you're fine, being overly aggressive turns her off. She wants to 'look up' to you and be able to have that notion you're unobtainable. I can understand where they are coming from. It's like you seeing this superfine woman, but all of a sudden she is all in your face begging you to come out. It kind of ruins that illusion fro them. It's a lot different if women think you are fine compared to the average guy. The average guy does better when he's more aggressive and pursuing all the time, but if a woman likes how you look, you have to kind of chill and leave her guessing all the time. If you're too aggressive, you'll shatter the illusion or she'll think you're a player. Plus, the worst thing a woman can feel about a guy she thinks is fine is that he's desperate, which happens if they are overly aggressive. She starts thinking, "Why is a dude that looks like this so thirsty?"

 

[MikelArteta]

Were you expecting something in return? Unless I misunderstood the "Is this dumping?" part.

I meant simping
Dumb ass auto correct

Nah I wasn't expecting anything , I was just saying that I have no problem in helping women out sometimes without expecting head, puzzy etc.

 

[Kartel13]

I meant simping
Dumb ass auto correct

Nah I wasn't expecting anything , I was just saying that I have no problem in helping women out sometimes without expecting head, puzzy etc.

my bad. I was under the impression that you felt dumped for helping someone out. There's nothing wrong with a good deed regardless of who it is.

 

[CASHAPP]

http://msn.foxsports.com/collegebas...president-obama-bunny-ears-in-photo-op-073113

^ "Buu....Butt But Michelle likes him though!!"

This dude does not learn. Act like a puppy to a woman and make her eventually take advantage of you brehs.

Dudes like the guy in the link above just don't get it. You can't be that way with women because EVENTUALLY they will take advantage. They cannot help themselves. I mean the disrespect in that picture is just mind boggling. The sad thing is that in today's matriarch society it will be thrown under the rug. We got Alex Wagner out here putting male cohosts in headlocks as a "joke" because she is a woman and kissing them on the head and nothing happens.

shyt is sad in today's society