Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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http://msn.foxsports.com/collegebas...president-obama-bunny-ears-in-photo-op-073113

^ "Buu....Butt But Michelle likes him though!!" :snoop:

This dude does not learn. Act like a puppy to a woman and make her eventually take advantage of you brehs.

Dudes like the guy in the link above just don't get it. You can't be that way with women because EVENTUALLY they will take advantage. They cannot help themselves. I mean the disrespect in that picture is just mind boggling. The sad thing is that in today's matriarch society it will be thrown under the rug. We got Alex Wagner out here putting male cohosts in headlocks as a "joke" because she is a woman and kissing them on the head and nothing happens.

shyt is sad in today's society
 

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Usually 15+. I live in Atlanta where single black women are plentiful. Its not that hard to go clubbin Thursday,Friday and Saturday night and look in your phone sunday morning and discover you bagged 20 chicks over the weekend.

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http://msn.foxsports.com/collegebas...president-obama-bunny-ears-in-photo-op-073113

^ "Buu....Butt But Michelle likes him though!!" :snoop:

This dude does not learn. Act like a puppy to a woman and make her eventually take advantage of you brehs.

Dudes like the guy in the link above just don't get it. You can't be that way with women because EVENTUALLY they will take advantage. They cannot help themselves. I mean the disrespect in that picture is just mind boggling. The sad thing is that in today's matriarch society it will be thrown under the rug. We got Alex Wagner out here putting male cohosts in headlocks as a "joke" because she is a woman and kissing them on the head and nothing happens.

shyt is sad in today's society


WTF are you talking about? :what:
 

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When it comes down to it, the treatment you get from women is consistent with what you let them get away with or will tolerate. You tolerate or let them talk down on you and talk to you crazy, that's the kind of behavior you're going to get from now on. You tolerate flaking, that's what you're going to get from now on. You tolerate her putting hands on you, that's what you're going to get. Respect is everything when it comes to women.
 

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http://msn.foxsports.com/collegebas...president-obama-bunny-ears-in-photo-op-073113

^ "Buu....Butt But Michelle likes him though!!" :snoop:

This dude does not learn. Act like a puppy to a woman and make her eventually take advantage of you brehs.

Dudes like the guy in the link above just don't get it. You can't be that way with women because EVENTUALLY they will take advantage. They cannot help themselves. I mean the disrespect in that picture is just mind boggling. The sad thing is that in today's matriarch society it will be thrown under the rug. We got Alex Wagner out here putting male cohosts in headlocks as a "joke" because she is a woman and kissing them on the head and nothing happens.

shyt is sad in today's society

what was he supposed to do? slap them? he is the fukking president, doing anything but shrugging it off would have made him look petulant and weak.
 

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what was he supposed to do? slap them? he is the fukking president, doing anything but shrugging it off would have made him look petulant and weak.

Nah, dude loves them hoes and will let them hoes run all over him. :troll:
 

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Is this dumping brehs?

My godson mom is unenploynent living on employment that is about to run out, so I spent a few hours fixing up her resume and cover letter.

I then sent out her resume to like over 200 places, got her like five interviews this week and hopefully a job.

In return I get notbing , except knowing my godson has. Roof over his head
Did you mean simping? If so yes it is.
 

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On some level, I just feel like it's gotta be effortless. I get making sure your ish is tight, you got yourself together and all of that because you never know when you meet someone you're going to want to get at... but I've seen far too many instances where I'm like, so and so likes so and so for him/her. Like you don't have to change unless your mate makes you want to change of your own volition. As other posters have said, making sure you're on your game physically, emotionally, spiritually is essential, but a part of me is like... as you are right now, so long as you've got a positive disposition/mindset about you, somebody out there would be feeling that.

And that apathy stuff can work something fierce. One of my boys always tells me that perhaps my greatest strength is that I don't dictate that people like me.

If y'all think I'm wrong, feel free to say so. I've been reading this gospel of a thread for some time now, and any debate/different takes on it would be fantastic.
 

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On some level, I just feel like it's gotta be effortless. I get making sure your ish is tight, you got yourself together and all of that because you never know when you meet someone you're going to want to get at... but I've seen far too many instances where I'm like, so and so likes so and so for him/her. Like you don't have to change unless your mate makes you want to change of your own volition. As other posters have said, making sure you're on your game physically, emotionally, spiritually is essential, but a part of me is like... as you are right now, so long as you've got a positive disposition/mindset about you, somebody out there would be feeling that.

And that apathy stuff can work something fierce. One of my boys always tells me that perhaps my greatest strength is that I don't dictate that people like me.

If y'all think I'm wrong, feel free to say so. I've been reading this gospel of a thread for some time now, and any debate/different takes on it would be fantastic.
basically the way i see it too. i just try to stay open to opportunities (women, money, friendships, etc), aware of my surroundings and just try to be ready at all time to be chosen. cause you don't know when the moment will come. If you stay ready you ain't gotta get ready. like you said, both presentation wise, mental sharpness wise and even logistics wise, stay ready to where you're not even stressing about when it should happen. everything is on autopilot and once she chooses you you just make her fit in your already established framework. as long as she chooses first she'll be down with whatever framework you operate on.
 

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This might be a dumb question and even obvious answer but.......say if you and a woman were having a good conversation for 10 minutes or so. You then ask for her number then she says "I'm not allowed to give out my number", do I take it as she has someone or she just wasn't interested,even though she gave off signals like she was?
 

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This might be a dumb question and even obvious answer but.......say if you and a woman were having a good conversation for 10 minutes or so. You then ask for her number then she says "I'm not allowed to give out my number", do I take it as she has someone or she just wasn't interested,even though she gave off signals like she was?

She wasnt interested...She just used you for an ego boost.
 
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I've just been getting really intoxicated as of late, and doing what I want, saying whatever, and not caring about the aftermath as much. Not exactly a healthy practice, but fukk it. I woke up this morning feeling slightly regretful, then I just said, fukk it. I know my drunk self is sloppy and obnoxious and sporadic, but I don't care anymore. Thinking about past instances is too draining, it depletes the energy too much.

Two nights ago, I went on a date with this girl, I think I might've told you guys, it was when I got that text message from this other girl about playing pool. Anyways, before the date, I drank a lot of gin, a lot of fukking gin. I was hammered, brehs. I reached blackout, delirious status quickly. I do not remember what the fukk I said or did towards the end of the night, I know I smoked some weed, but that's it. Only other thing I remember was getting dropped off home. The next day, my typical, selfless side of me said "apologize to that girl for your state last night", but then I said, fukk that! She tried to guilt trip me into going on that date with her, and I'm not attracted to her, so I said fukk it. I don't owe this broad shyt. I don't owe anybody any fukking thing. Me being courteous and cordial and thoughtful of others hasn't exactly granted me much reciprocation so I said fukk that bytch. I didn't message her. If anything, hopefully my intoxication level turned her off and turned her away from me. I mentioned my low libido and oddly low sex drive on the date, too.

It's like a heel turn for me in life. I'm kind of enjoying this.
 

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This might be a dumb question and even obvious answer but.......say if you and a woman were having a good conversation for 10 minutes or so. You then ask for her number then she says "I'm not allowed to give out my number", do I take it as she has someone or she just wasn't interested,even though she gave off signals like she was?
i'd take it as a sign that i need to move on to the next one. what difference does it make if she has a boyfriend or not, if she was interested but fronting or if she just wasn't interested? fukk playing sherlock holmes, she said she's not allowed to give her number so i'd figure i'm not getting the number. nice meeting you, peace out.
 
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