If you even have to “check where her heads at” then it’s not happening. Women go for what they want all the time. 2025 men need certainty.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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If you even have to “check where her heads at” then it’s not happening. Women go for what they want all the time. 2025 men need certainty.
skyrunner1
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Congrats on the promo breh..
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
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let me guess...This simp at my job keeps letting this female coworker use his car (she drives her car to work, but apparently the steering is fukked up). And he keeps leaving work to drive her to the store or to get food. While he's not on break. And she charges him for the food.
He's gonna learn
Putting his job on the line simping for this bird brained chick who don't even want him.
I looked her up and one of her baby daddies was arrested for murder last year. He was out on parole at the time of the shootings. He hasn't been sentenced yet.
Her other baby daddy locked up for domestic violence, violating an order of protection and malicious punishment of a child
she fine as fuq tho?
thats the kryptonite for a lot of men's brains
I agree about certainty to a degree but read back my posts for the pretext on me and ole girl’s engagement.
I was getting some strong signs of interest from her (touching my arm, bring extra nice, talking to me and flipping her hair etc). Things that were outside the regular corporate friendliness/civility. Things you’d more so expect from a woman interested in you.
“Checking her head” was about me making a sly move to see if she’d bite, but in a way that would leave me with plausible deniability if things went south.
Example: “Hey Chen Feng, me and the finance team are going for drinks at SF bar to celebrate closing deal ABC, do you want to come with?”
Here, I get her to the HH and see if the interest was really there or if I was imagining it. If the interest was real, I could then suggest for both of us to go elsewhere, if it wasn’t, I just leave it there.
The plausible deniability is I can just say I invited her to a company HH if things don’t work out. We both don’t work on the Finance team but it’s common at my company to have teams attend other cross functional team events. And being that it’s not my team’s HH, I don’t have my other teammates there and things are discreet.
That’s really it.
To the point on certainty, most of the time we men will never get 100% certainty from most women and have to read signs and make a move. Outside work, I’d have made a direct move. But at work, and on the same team, I’d have to tread with caution.
But like I said, I’ve deaded the situation. Juice isn’t worth the squeeze and this promotion gonna hit harder
Thanks my G! I’m only black man on my floor and only black man on this team that handles my company’s biggest accounts.
You don’t throw away opportunities like this for some cheap thrills as tempting as it may be. I know other people have messed around at work but they’re white so the rules are different.
Amo Husserl
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Sleepy Floyd
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A warehouse. She works up front on the phones.
Sleepy Floyd
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Honestly not really...she skinny with a hard face and smells like weed all the time
She look like Rico Nasty
Redwood
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Every day I see stuff like this in goatganda
And these black women happy to be seen with a ugly azz old mzungu
Don't ever think any chick is good enough for you brehs
RealCrownHeights
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I don't know if this is race-related, as I haven't dated a white girl in NY for a while, but Black women I talk to, from NY and who moved here, really have a problem if you don't have a car. Despite the fact that I work in Midtown and go into the office 4 days a week and the fact that people at my job are much richer than them and their whole family doesn't drive in NY. It's really mind-boggling how logic escapes them at that point. One told me, "Well, I like to be in control of my destination." Another said, Well, in D.C. we have metro, but people drive. Like, bytch, are you going to help me move the car every minute, pay the insurance, and pay the congestion pricing? I make a decent wage and have my own crib, but it's never enough, or they act cool with it for a while and then they switch up and make a joke sarcastically later on.
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
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Race-related / attraction issue. Cause if you were white or you were high on her attraction scale I’m sure they would cut you some slack (I.e. he’s probably investing, or he’s smart for not having one)
Also depending on her “DC experience with men / age” she now “demands” certain things. If it’s not a car, it’ll be the type of car, etc.
Also remember women are programmed to stay on their highest setting. (Also why she’s making sarcastic remarks about you not having a car and putting you on a clock)
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You meet these women fathers or hear them talk about their fathers. That nikka don't even be half the man you are.
we talked about this a few days ago...not a car specifically though.
it isnt you breh...thats all i can say lol. and yes its more of a black thing. the odd time i'll know a black chick who fine with us taking the subway and shyt but a lot of the time they expect yall to uber and if you dont they are judging you. Unbeknownst to them, I'll have my sky dweller on, a $2000 outfit on, got my own place, I done paid for the date etc....but they gon assume you cheap/broke just cause you dont uber or own a whip
. Our people are mentally behind breh.most other women dont be expecting anything though. I had a colombian shorty come over off hinge the other day and she ubered herself to my crib. as a courtesy i ubered her back.