Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RealAssanova]

this is true, women tree branch, ive been told that bs before " i need space", "i just dont want to date anyone at this moment" then a week later in a relationship with someone else on fb, or a new "friend".

As well women check out of relationships, months in advance, thats when they drop the bomb on you, the emotions for you is just like a friend, they keep you around because of guilt and just incase.

Also agree with you about the gym, releasing endorphins makes you feel better, as well I would recommend travel, I got over my biggest breakup ever with my ex fiance by going away to a all inclusive resort, i enver thought about her once. As well download forgetting sarah marshall and swingers.

ANd I agree never look back towards exes, or never take them back. like you mentioned whenever a girl breaks up with you, within 24-48 hrs shes getting new dikk.

I let it be knwo to every chick once were done were done, ive had chicks dump me, then like a month later hit me up like really, you left me for some otehr dude more than likely and it didnt wokr it, and now you expect me to come back?


I';m that dude that all my exes will think back when they are old and single, old and a single mom, old in a horrible marriage, old in a content marriage while they google my name and see a big smile on my face knowing deep down they fd up.

b!tches be funny huh .

i remember dis one broad bout 3-4 yrs ago. I had no idea dis broad was feelin me till bout one friday night. I was bored and decided to text her. All i said was..

me: aye do you know what day it is

her: friday why?

me: naa _____, its freaky friday.

It was a wrap from that very moment on. I had no idea homegirl was a freak. Dem shy h0es . Anyways, we ended up sextin until the wee hours of the mornin and shorty got sooo wet dat she called me @ like 6am mornin cuz she was soo horny, but by den da kid was sleepin. So, knowin i had dis in da bag, i tried to set summin up for da weekend. She was talmbout comin to her house, goin down towards da beach area and fukkin. She was even willing to lie to her aunt about goin out for groceries or summin.

To make a long story short, homegirl switched it up on me and wanted me to take her out before she gave it up. I said, laughed and deleted her. 6 months later she hits me up, and we shoot the shyt. I got a new phone and added her on bbm. Without hesitation i hit her wid da 'when we gonne fuk'. Shorty goes from takin her out 6 months ago to when i have a full-time job, my own place and my own car. . So i tell her to quit playin and lets fuk seein as how we both want each other. She then tells me she outta my league and that i shud get a life. So i say cool and delete her.

3 yrs later i'm out at dis festival wid couple n!ggaz when who should approach me..... We shoot the shyt, but 3/4 of the time i'm lookin somewhere else while talkin. She eventually gets the hint and dips. She prolly thought i was gonna step to her azz like before.

But i ain't gonne front, shorty was lookin sexier den ever before.

 

[darius19]

at this

http://www.thejackalnews.com/gossip/a-letter-from-jp-morgan-ceo-to-gold-diggers

 

[kevm3]

man that's why i been reiterating lately focusing on your priorities and focusing on other things in life than these women. They really aren't a big deal when you think of what you get in return for all that effort you invest. The biggest problem is how many of them end up leaving for no real reason and no matter how much you put into them. In fact, the men who invest the most, especially in terms of physical possessions, get done the worst. how many stories have you heard of the guy who is working crazy hours to support his wife, he's paying off her school loans, buying her things, etc., and she rewards him by sleeping with his friend or some dude she met at a gas station? "Oh I felt so LONELY because you were never THERE for me and Stevie made me feel so beautiful!"

On the other token, those 'bad boys' don't get any more loyalty than the responsible guy. She's going to peel off on them talking about why don't you get a real job or you're not making enough money... or wait until she hits jail. She's going to find someone to keep her occupied. Even in that story of that correctional officer getting pregnant, the prisoner she got pregnant by was NOT the prisoner that was her boyfriend lol. What's sad is that these women don't 'wise up' until she's probably already had a couple of her 'bad boys' kids. That's when she starts coming back around to the responsible guy talking about "Heyyy you remember me?" In fact, she didn't really wise up. She needs her, in the words of Teirra Marie, a 'sponsor'.

Let's be real... you invest all this time and effort into these women and what do you get in return? A bunch of memories of loose women that you popped one off in? An ungrateful woman who is going to use you for your cash? Naw mane, focus on your future, get your money right and you better be highly skilled with the way the economy is going. That's not to say not to deal with women at all, but it's to say that you got much higher priorities than wondering what this particular woman is feeling today and why she is playing these lame games she is. Bottom line is if she's going to get your time, she better jump on it when you offer it. If she doesn't take the offer, keep it pushing and let her flow out of your mind. Women that are really about you don't play games and women play so many games because there is so much simping going on with these guys who allow this behavior to go on.

Now if you found you one of those rare unicorns... a down for you for sure woman. THAT'S the one you invest your time into and you let to get a bite of the fruit of your labors... but these women out here playing around? Nah, be no nonsense on them. Get your money right, get your life right, get God in your life, and enjoy yourself and when that real deal woman is there for you, let her walk on in through that door. Until then, keep it pushing and make your tomorrow better than your today.

 

[Kartel13]

h0es never dump they man unless they have another n!gga comin off da bench. They need that void to be filled up right away, even if its temporary and they end up regretting leavin the n!gga they was originally with. So chances are, she fukin wid a new n!gga (probably was durin the relationship, but kept it on the hush). But hey, it ain't your issue now.


As far as the breakup, you handled it well imo and now its IMPERATIVE that you keep AND maintain no contact. Remember, SHE don't care about you no more. SHE decided to end the relationship. SHE probably takin a new d!ck in and around em lips, in da puzzy and prolly up the poop chute too.

What you also gotta do is, preoccupy yourself. A breakup is usually the best time to hit the gym and go absolutely ham on the weights, kick it wid your n!ggaz and just have fun. I wouldn't recommend bangin women or rush into anything of that sort yet, because the wounds will still be fresh. However, if you feel that you can and you won't be thinkin about her, then hey, play on playa.

Weeks, months and even years down the road, you will realize that the break up was for the best. Whether it is in the form of her constantly textin/callin/stalkin you and realizing you dodged a psychotic azz trick OR through self-improvement and development that you became a much better man post break-up.

You single, can save up more $$, deal wid NO female BS and do whatever and whomever the fuk you want.

Dis ain't no ordinary W my n!gga, this a blowout.

Damn, almost co-signed until I realized my sister just broke things off with her dude with nothing to fall back on. But I can say 99 out of 100 will have another dude on deck. But the rest is gospel!

 

[kevm3]

When you really get your weight up, you don't have to deal with 1/10th of the things the normal man has to, although there will still be issues to handle. Remember how we all thought Bow Wow or Nick Cannon were so corny? But nevertheless, they still have limelight and they have had the ability to pull unbelievably fine women without too much effort. These women are rushing to them and positioning to get noticed by them as opposed to them having to do all these circus tricks to get a woman's attention. Point of the story? Now most men will never be as rich or as famous as those guys, but the point remains... when you increase your value and carry yourself properly, women come to you or they become much easier to access and much more compliant to you dealing with them. On the other hand, if they don't see you as high value in their minds, you have to deal with a whole bunch of things the high worth man doesn't. This isn't to say to go out dazzling women with your money and material possessions. It's more to say that when you have your PRIORITIES set right, things start flowing a lot smoother.

When you are highly attractive in the eyes of a woman, a whole bunch start liking you. Women are herd creatures, and I'm sure some of you experienced this, but women come in bunches. When it seems like one woman likes you, a bunch of them like you. As a man who is high value, a whole bunch of women start to like you . This puts you in the highly advantageous position of not tethering your hopes to one woman, who, if she acts up, you are a lonely mess. It also puts you in a position where women are competing for you, so they are on their best behavior and if she gets too out of line, you know there are other women who want to deal with you, so you don't put up with the madness. The baseline philosophy is to not do what the average man does and 'chase women', but to position yourself so as where the women want to chase you. Obviously you will still have to put in work, talk with them, yada yada, but when you get things properly situated, things flow a lot smoother.

 

[kevm3]

Here's a post from Roosh I agree with

Do Not Have Sex With Feminists
By Roosh
Feminism gets its power from two centers. The first is a large tax-paying middle class. It provides welfare money for single mothers; it extorts or steals money from husbands and fathers via an aggressive judicial system that prefers women; it enforces laws against masculinity using local authorities; and it funds feminist studies programs in public universities. If you add to that the system’s need to score female votes during elections and the feminization of men who vote along with them, it’s easy to understand how entrenched their power is in America. I haven’t even mentioned how corporate media hires feminist stooges to appeal to a fattening female audience that is just as hungry for hamster rationalization as they are for cupcakes and artisanal pizza.

It’s a large middle class that partially explains why feminism is rising in Brazil, but not in Argentina or Colombia. While there are many exceptions to this middle class rule, you will not find feminists gains in countries with a weak middle class. This source of feminist power will erode as the world approaches an economic singularity event, but until that time, we have the individual power to speed up the decline through one simple action: don’t have sex with women who identify with feminism.

A woman will only behave in a way that allows her to continue receiving what she wants in life. So far, being a feminist has not hurt her chances at “sexual discovery” when hitting the town on Saturday night, or filtering through hundreds of messages from men on dating sites. A man at a bar will roll his eyes at feminist talking points, but he will nonetheless persist in his pursuit of the notch. This must end. For the same reason you pass on fat women, resigning them to an underclass of low-quality men who will fukk anything, you must now sexually discriminate against women for their man-hating belief system.

Not only must you pass on a feminist, but you must let her know why you are passing on her. It must be clear to her that a man she was considering for sex has rejected her solely for her beliefs. Examples:

Girl: “It’s too bad that men still make more than women.”
You: “Wait, are you a feminist?”
Girl: “Well yeah.”
You: “Too bad, I don’t date feminists. Have a good night.”

Girl: “Birth control should be a human right, like mobile internet access.”
You: “So you’re a feminist?”
Girl: “I think if you believe in true equality, you’re a feminist, too.”
You: “LoL. I don’t talk to feminists.” Backturn

An argument or debate is not on the table. Do not give her the chance to explain her beliefs or demand to know yours. Once she admits to being a feminist, someone who believes in female superiority at the cost of male well-being, she no longer exists in your world.

The emasculation of men in the West is proceeding at such a rapid clip that it may be time to move past indiscriminate banging to sexually punishing women who vote for politicians that push laws and policies which make men second-class citizens. We only have ourselves to blame if we persist in the hypocritical behavior of lamenting the destruction of men while giving orgasms to the very women who are pushing it along. Our penis must take a backseat to our principles.

A part of me wonders if we’re too far down the road for this action to have a large effect, but even if we are, it’s an action we must still pursue, for we must align our behavior with our beliefs, our beliefs with our character. We can not grieve against a thief that is robbing us as long as we keep allowing the thief to rob.

If a girl is rejected only two or three times by men for being a feminist, she will think twice about sharing that affiliation to future men she meets. And if she is unable to share those beliefs, to openly discuss them, her mind can’t help but see them as shameful and controversial. Without water, the feminist soil in her brain will dry up, and the plant will wilt. She will be more hesitant about spreading her ideas, and rightfully come to see feminism as something that hurts heterosexual relationships.

The middle class in America is on the decline. The strained state will have to reduce the money flow to the feminist establishment. If this is combined with men rejecting sexual intercourse with feminist women, I believe we’re looking at a 1-2 combination punch that may put this ideology on the backburner, pursued only by the transgendered and homosexual freaks of society, instead of the cute girl you exchange eye contact with in your favorite coffee shop. Hopefully she’s not a feminist, but if she is, reject her swiftly and without compassion.

Men need to stop rewarding females with company despite their bad behavior, ideologies, etc. One of the only reasons women can hold that neo feminist attitude is because men still rush out to sleep with them regardless.

 

[karim]

Here's a post from Roosh I agree with


Men need to stop rewarding females with company despite their bad behavior, ideologies, etc. One of the only reasons women can hold that neo feminist attitude is because men still rush out to sleep with them regardless.

 

[Mr210]

been talking to this girl I met on okcupid for over 2 weeks now, been out twice and had a great time both times, constantly texting with some phone convos in there as well. She told me yesterday for me to text her when I board my plane tomorrow and when I land and i already told her that make sure she is free on tuesday night, for some us time. She responded "yes sir"!

 

[Jahmal]

been talking to this girl I met on okcupid for over 2 weeks now, been out twice and had a great time both times, constantly texting with some phone convos in there as well. She told me yesterday for me to text her when I board my plane tomorrow and when I land and i already told her that make sure she is free on tuesday night, for some us time. She responded "yes sir"!

Please stop updating us on these simple interactions with women until you have sex with them...

 

[Turbulent]

a simp and his dignity soon part ways.

 

[Kartel13]

Please stop updating us on these simple interactions with women until you have sex with them...

 

[MikelArteta]

Is this dumping brehs?

My godson mom is unenploynent living on employment that is about to run out, so I spent a few hours fixing up her resume and cover letter.

I then sent out her resume to like over 200 places, got her like five interviews this week and hopefully a job.

In return I get notbing , except knowing my godson has. Roof over his head

 

[Turbulent]

Here's a post from Roosh I agree with


Men need to stop rewarding females with company despite their bad behavior, ideologies, etc. One of the only reasons women can hold that neo feminist attitude is because men still rush out to sleep with them regardless.

i disagree with the guy's views but i definitely salute the concept of not entertaining women who show disrespect for manhood or who try to shame you into adhering to their beliefs. basically flipping the script and taking the power of sex back.

 

[Brandsdale]

On average how many number do yall bring in on a weekly basis?

Past couple girls I got lead to absolute no where both late/no response texters

I feel like I gotta scout more.

 

[Turbulent]

On average how many number do yall bring in on a weekly basis?

Past couple girls I got lead to absolute no where both late/no response texters

I feel like I gotta scout more.

dont really approach. girls who want my number always end up getting it somehow by hook or by crook. last couple of chicks, one just asked me "is this your number?________" and i said yeah. then she gave me hers as well and asked me to text her. other chick she got my number because we had to meet up somewhere for an event and we put our numbers on a list for the person who was organizing.

this type of thing doesn't happen on a weekly basis though and both of them are chicks i knew prior plus it was a very slow build up (weeks/months). And i haven't slept with neither but i feel like they are both interested. What i find is that when a chick wants you, if you give her enough space, she will figure out a way to get in your zone. Some will be upfront, some will make up excuses (sometimes even to themselves). Sometimes you just have to let it play out. Sometimes i don't even care. They'll make the move if they want me. but the tradeoff is that you will lose the ones who don't want to put themselves out there like that, if you can live with that and accept it, you're money. It's almost like doing it how girls do it. Women are natural pimps in a way. They usually wait to be chosen first. Another thing that i've learned is that you can't switch up. if she's used to making her moves towards you at her own pace and then you switch it up, she'll start feeling like she got you and move on to the next one. Since it's hard to switch it up, that's why it's probably best to not play games and come real from the get go. that way you don't have to wear a heavy mask at all times with her.

but yeah i definitely don't pull weekly numbers, lol. but i'm still happy. not saying my way is The Way though. everyone has their own style depending on their temperament. We all do what works best for ourselves.