Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Kartel13]

I don't invite smut's to my crib that easily, breh. especially if they are coming off type strong for me. Last I need is a crazy chick hanging around my apt complex.

 

[Kartel13]

Nah breh I was trying to play it off like it didn't affect me I used it in the same breath as or

Breh, you were simping, not flirting. You caught an L, move on. It happens to all of us.

 

[45123]

Breh, you were simping, not flirting. You caught an L, move on. It happens to all of us.

I'm not tryna flip an L, but this chick was way into me and I simped to try and get her and now I'm wondering what the fukk happened

 

[T-K-G]

I thought it was a cool way to play it off Just substitute it for a smiley like and you can imagine the effect I was going for, like "It's cool if you don't "

that "effect" doesn't exist, the fukk a grown man asking a female "why dont you like me?" for


go re-evaluate yourself and your decisions up to this point

 

[45123]

that "effect" doesn't exist, the fukk a grown man asking a female "why dont you like me?" for


go re-evaluate yourself and your decisions up to this point

I'm only 21 I'm hardly grown
If you ask me I thought my game was on point, I just fukked up the 9th inning

 

[T-K-G]

I'm only 21 I'm hardly grown
If you ask me I thought my game was on point, I just fukked up the 9th inning

so a 21 year old isn't a man anymore?


and harassing a female who already said she wasn't feelin you is game?

 

[45123]

so a 21 year old isn't a man anymore?


and harassing a female who already said she wasn't feelin you is game?

I didn't say a 21 year old isn't a man, I said he's hardly grown what the hell are you talking about
How are you gonna misread everything I wrote though I said I had immaculate game when I was getting @ her and she was feeling me, I just fukked up in the end when I "harassed" her

 

[MAKAVELI25]

I didn't say a 21 year old isn't a man, I said he's hardly grown what the hell are you talking about
How are you gonna misread everything I wrote though I said I had immaculate game when I was getting @ her and she was feeling me, I just fukked up in the end when I "harassed" her

They're being a little harsh but what they are telling you is a 100% true. Have some self respect, man. Don't ever beg a chick for her favor, I know you meant it as a joke but it came off as pathetic. Your self respect is more important than any woman, never forget that

 

[Kartel13]

I didn't say a 21 year old isn't a man, I said he's hardly grown what the hell are you talking about
How are you gonna misread everything I wrote though I said I had immaculate game when I was getting @ her and she was feeling me, I just fukked up in the end when I "harassed" her

You're young, breh. You live and learn. Just make sure never to repeat the same mistake and understand everyone won't get your humor. I was a young fool at 21 as well. Brush your shoulder off KIM...

 

[T-K-G]

I didn't say a 21 year old isn't a man, I said he's hardly grown what the hell are you talking about
How are you gonna misread everything I wrote though I said I had immaculate game when I was getting @ her and she was feeling me, I just fukked up in the end when I "harassed" her

so how old you gotta be before you realize that begging a broad for anything is pathetic regardless of whether it's a joke or not

you a year older than me that's why im lookin at you like for tryna use "im hardly grown" as an excuse

 

[45123]

so how old you gotta be before you realize that begging a broad for anything is pathetic regardless of whether it's a joke or not

you a year older than me that's why im lookin at you like for tryna use "im hardly grown" as an excuse

I wasn't begging anyone for anything Where are you making this shyt up from breh. I'm not using hardly grown as an excuse either, you just seem to think I rationalize my decisions on the same plane as a 30 something year old when I'm still a pup in the game

They're being a little harsh but what they are telling you is a 100% true. Have some self respect, man. Don't ever beg a chick for her favor, I know you meant it as a joke but it came off as pathetic. Your self respect is more important than any woman, never forget that

I understand, I got my head on my shoulders and all, it's just that if you read these texts in context it doesn't seem like I was coming off as pathetic. I probably should have told her in person anyways but I couldn't.

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

Damn yall, this gneeguh is coming to yall for help & yall are shyttin on him.

 

[Kenny West]

I wasn't begging anyone for anything Where are you making this shyt up from breh. I'm not using hardly grown as an excuse either, you just seem to think I rationalize my decisions on the same plane as a 30 something year old when I'm still a pup in the game



I understand, I got my head on my shoulders and all, it's just that if you read these texts in context it doesn't seem like I was coming off as pathetic. I probably should have told her in person anyways but I couldn't.

bruh. you so busy defending yourself that u missing the point

 

[T-K-G]

bruh. you so busy defending yourself that u missing the point

basically

 

[CrossBones]

Spoiler

"No. She does not love you. She is a woman, and love is NOT the same to them as it is to you.

You are capable of feeling sublime emotions and caring about someone else more than yourself. She is not. (Except temporarily with a young child, due to bonding hormones, that typically wear off in her brain when the child is around 3 years old. This is the age they start to drown their kids in the tub and drive them into a lake.)

You think that, since she is a human like you, she must feel things like you feel things. But she doesn't.

The reality is, she has no clue and no plan. She is just going moment-by-moment, like a dog with an iPhone.

This is not her fault; women need a man with a plan. They need a train that is going someplace with or without them. Once on a train, they can make it fun and party things up, but they won't get a train going from a dead stop, and they sure as fukk won't engineer a train from scratch.

Think of Coyote Ugly. If you own a bar, girls will get drunk and dance on the counter. They will not build the building, apply for a liquor license, or distill spirits. They will look good and they will suck your dikk.

Back to the train metaphor, your job is to be a train that is leaving the depot on YOUR schedule with whoever is on board WITH YOU.

And when you get to your stop, you need to be able to kick off everyone that you don't want going to your NEXT stop.

This means no co-habitation.

Never, ever let them move in with you. You didn't know, and guess what? This is a learning experience. Don't forget it.

Always have your own place in your own name.

Always be able to kick someone out.

You can let them sleep over, but remember it's like when your friends slept over and you played video games all weekend. There was never any expectation that your parents were gonna adopt them; they had their own family and their own home. And it was for a couple days at a time, not weeks or months.

Always keep the upper hand. If you can't do something unless the girl is equal to you (like on a lease) or above you, don't do it. Increase your standing, go back, and try again.

Understand human nature: Everyone is trying to exploit you. Even your own family. They have their own ideas about what you should do to suit them.

Your "friends" will exploit you. If you are doing better than them, they will try to mooch off you. If they are doing better than you, they will try to throw you crumbs that show they think you are below them.

You cannot trust anyone that occupies the same competitive strata as you.

Did you ever notice how humans like dogs and cats and vice-versa? It's because they are not competing with each other. Cats that are nice to you will hate other cats. Dogs will cop a 'tude with other dogs.

It works the same in the rainforest -- many species will co-exist and seemingly cooperate, because they occupy different ecological niches: one species in the canopy, another in the trees, another on the forest floor. They eat different things and share warning systems.

You can "trust" a lot of people online in some ways, because they are not in direct competition with you, and everyone is gaining more from cooperation. Being anonymous, nobody can take advantage of knowledge of your weaknesses.

There are very few relationships like that. Sometimes a real best friend, where you both value the other more than money and more than bytches, and are both trying to elevate the other. This happens in nature too, when two brother lions who are young, and not quite as strong individually as a grizzled male who has his own pride, can together take him down and then rule as co-alphas, and then it's almost impossible for any other lion coming along to depose them.

But women don't think of you like that.

When a new lion comes along, and defeats the old lion, he also kills all the cubs who are still suckling, because suckling releases hormones that prevent her from going into heat again too soon (until they are grown up). The females mourn their murdered cubs for a week or two, but once they go into heat, they all submit to the guy who came in and killed their babies, and mate with him, and have his babies.

Females have extremely plastic and transferable emotions. They had to, because they were always getting passed around from dominant male to dominant male with no choice in the matter. (Anyone who was emotionally wrecked by this, unable to function, would not be able to care for her own children and wouldn't pass on her "sensitive" or "loyal" genes.)

You can see this now by how much women respond to sexual dominance, and how women who were "kidnapped" and live in houses in suburbia as sex slaves just stay there and don't bother running away.

They have completely fukked-up psychology compared to your ideal for yourself.

So stop thinking about THEIR FEELINGS.

Women are the closest thing to happy when YOU do the shyt YOU want to do, and they get to follow you around like puppies."

Anyone getting the picture here? You're wasting time trying to figure out magic techniques to attract women to you when in the process of you handling your life business and getting to where you need to get, you will get them coming to you. Guys who spent their whole lives trying to impress women and wasted all their young, prime years chasing them around look back and wonder why they aren't anywhere in life.

Now the point of this isn't to say, "Attract women with your money and material possessions." It's to say to put your priorities in order, and as has been stated numerous times in this thread, never make women a number one priority. How many guys have invested countless time and energy dealing with some woman and giving her your best only for her to walk out for no reason for some guy who didn't do any of that? Invest your time and energy into something more productive and the attention of the women come with that.