Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[George Gooney]

I think so too. How old are you man?

Just turned 25 a lil while ago.Why breh?


EDIT - oh wait you were asking homeboy? My bad

 

[Mr210]

I think so too. How old are you man?

im 26, not trollin, like i said im just going to said ok and keep it moving, there isnt not much else for me to say, but damn she could have atleast said sorry for missing your call or something, but then again, she probably didnt want to talk...oh well

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

Yeah something definitely seems suspect

 

[MAKAVELI25]

It's never wise to "tell girls how you feel" breh we've all been there and it rarely ever ends well especially if you come out with the feelings first. It's easy for us guys to fall for a good girl but in a woman's mind it comes off ingenuine and thirsty because she wants to "earn" your love. It comes down to the female psyche of her feeling like she was "better" than all the other women in your life and it's very selfish in actuality but we humans can be selfish at times. As far the "letting something go" phrase I've always found it to be B.S for example I remember when I dated a girl and she suggested we break up after a fight(which was a test I didn't then know of) It made things much worse when I nonchalantly agreed "yea maybe you're right" because I wasn't willing to "fight for her". Women are straaaaaange breh.

What this dude right her is saying is true, and sadly some men never understand this aspect of women's nature. A man's biggest mistake is in assuming men and women are exactly alike, we are two different animals. I've said it before, a man's inclination in female interaction is to prove to them he is worthy of sex. A woman's inclination is to prove to him she is worthy of love. Too many guys make the mistake of thinking that showing a woman a lot of love will lead to sex, if she already has your love then she doesn't have to give anything up. This isn't to say that you should be mean to women, TREAT WOMEN WITH DIGNITY AND RESPECT LIKE YOU DO EVERYONE ELSE. But stop trying to emotionally connect with women, stop taking them so seriously, keep your heart in your chest. Until you have had sex with her you mean nothing, so until she has EARNED your love treat her like you would anybody else.

- Do not tell a woman she is beautiful unless you are having sex with her. Ego reassurance is the job of her mate, if you are earning none of the benefits of being her boyfriend why should she reap any rewards
- If you are not having sex with a women she is not special. Treat her like you would everybody else, if you wouldn't do something for a male friend of yours, then DO NOT do it for a women you are not hooking up with. Again, treat her with dignity and respect, but NO special favors for a woman who you have not consummated a relationship with, thats what we call a simp. I don't care if you have taken her on a hundred dates, until the relationship is consummated you mean nothing

 

[Mr210]

Yeah something definitely seems suspect

my guess is she is probably dating someone else already, she was either talking to him or with him, i bet im the backup plan or something

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

What this dude right her is saying is true, and sadly some men never understand this aspect of women's nature. A man's biggest mistake is in assuming men and women are exactly alike, we are two different animals. I've said it before, a man's inclination in female interaction is to prove to them he is worthy of sex. A woman's inclination is to prove to him she is worthy of love. Too many guys make the mistake of thinking that showing a woman a lot of love will lead to sex, if she already has your love then she doesn't have to give anything up. This isn't to say that you should be mean to women, TREAT WOMEN WITH DIGNITY AND RESPECT LIKE YOU DO EVERYONE ELSE. But stop trying to emotionally connect with women, stop taking them so seriously, keep your heart in your chest. Until you have had sex with her you mean nothing, so until she has EARNED your love treat her like you would anybody else.

- Do not tell a woman she is beautiful unless you are having sex with her. Ego reassurance is the job of her mate, if you are earning none of the benefits of being her boyfriend why should she reap any rewards
- If you are not having sex with a women she is not special. Treat her like you would everybody else, if you wouldn't do something for a male friend of yours, then DO NOT do it for a women you are not hooking up with. Again, treat her with dignity and respect, but NO special favors for a woman who you have not consummated a relationship with, thats what we call a simp. I don't care if you have taken her on a hundred dates, until the relationship is consummated you mean nothing

This might be the realest shyt in this thread. Definitely 100% true.

I'll admit, I have made this mistake before but I can guarantee it won't ever happen again. Unfortunately I had to learn the hard way.

 

[45123]

It's never wise to "tell girls how you feel" breh we've all been there and it rarely ever ends well especially if you come out with the feelings first. It's easy for us guys to fall for a good girl but in a woman's mind it comes off ingenuine and thirsty because she wants to "earn" your love. It comes down to the female psyche of her feeling like she was "better" than all the other women in your life and it's very selfish in actuality but we humans can be selfish at times. As far the "letting something go" phrase I've always found it to be B.S for example I remember when I dated a girl and she suggested we break up after a fight(which was a test I didn't then know of) It made things much worse when I nonchalantly agreed "yea maybe you're right" because I wasn't willing to "fight for her". Women are straaaaaange breh.

But what if the reason she lost interest is because you didn't show enough and gave her a cold shoulder?

 

[RealAssanova]

my guess is she is probably dating someone else already, she was either talking to him or with him, i bet im the backup plan or something

bruh, ain't u got any other h0es on deck?

u investing too much into shorty and you haven't even beat. Remember, you da prize son. If shorty ain't wid it, throw up da deuces.

It's all a number GAME at the end of the day. Never take em or a rejection serious.

 

[Mr210]

bruh, ain't u got any other h0es on deck?

u investing too much into shorty and you haven't even beat. Remember, you da prize son. If shorty ain't wid it, throw up da deuces.

It's all a number GAME at the end of the day. Never take em or a rejection serious.

trying to restock, just got out of a relationship about 2 months ago

 

[MAKAVELI25]

ok, so almost 2 hrs later after i called her and left a vm, she just sent me a text saying "Hey, its pretty late. Talk tomorrow?" What should i say?

She didn't even bother apologizing for missing the talk, this tells me that she doesn't even consider you a priority. If I were you I would text her back "Sure, call me when you're free". Doing this puts her to the test to see if she will actually make the time for you as opposed to just answering your call, if you do take this course of action DO NOT call/text her before she does you. I don't care if you have to delete the number to make sure you don't call her, leave the ball in her court

 

[George Gooney]

But what if the reason she lost interest is because you didn't show enough and gave her a cold shoulder?

You should've kept doing it. Her "loss of interest" could've very likely been a power move to get you to start simping. To keep it really real with you i'm going through this almost exact scenario right now. Chick im talking to stopped calling me and started the short responses to my texts I didn't start no simping so i'm still good money(NEVER SIMP!). I remember we were texting while we were both busy and i said yea call me( I was expecting her call that night which didn't come) but she did text me saying something about sorry I forgot but i'll hit you up tomorrow. To which i replied(an hour and change later) "Cool just woke up" Which was NOT the response she wanted! LOL The simp move would have been for Me to call her but nah she's always been the initiator before i'm not ready to forfeit any power and I don't like calling girls anyway. but I didn't do any simping so i'm still in the game. I never called her(ever) and often ignored texts of hers(which I know got to her). So now I guess she's giving me a "taste of my own medicine" But as long as I don't do a drastic switch and become the romeo to her Juliet over night I'm still good and have great frame. When the simps start hitting her up she'll remember that guy she felt so good about that never ever called her and was mysterious and she'll be back No shwarzenneger.

 

[Mr210]

She didn't even bother apologizing for missing the talk, this tells me that she doesn't even consider you a priority. If I were you I would text her back "Sure, call me when you're free". Doing this puts her to the test to see if she will actually make the time for you as opposed to just answering your call, if you do take this course of action DO NOT call/text her before she does you. I don't care if you have to delete the number to make sure you don't call her, leave the ball in her court

I just texted her ok, I dont plan on calling her tomorrow, there is another chick ive been talking to on okcupid, i just sent her a message and got to the point, see where this goes

 

[RealAssanova]

She didn't even bother apologizing for missing the talk, this tells me that she doesn't even consider you a priority. If I were you I would text her back "Sure, call me when you're free". Doing this puts her to the test to see if she will actually make the time for you as opposed to just answering your call, if you do take this course of action DO NOT call/text her before she does you. I don't care if you have to delete the number to make sure you don't call her, leave the ball in her court

this.

being outcome dependent is the worst. This is a constant battle i face every cot'damn day. I see a broad i wanna lay out, but then my mind instantly switches into da 6th gear and i start over-analyzing and thinkin about sheed when i really shouldn't.

Women are funny. A h0e will be like i want a dude to respect me for my personality and intelligence, yet dat same broad be havin her azz over the counter takin a pic emphasizing her azz. OR..you approach a broad and it doesn't go well and she tells her homegirls you ain't got no 'GAME'. You see what i mean? Shyt is a game which you gotta keep your emotions out of. That will only come with trial and error. Do not also take what everyone here and in person say so serious. The way i do things be different from the way you do things and from the way person xyz does things too.

Oh and get'cho weight and dollas up.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

You should've kept doing it. Her "loss of interest" could've very likely been a power move to get you to start simping. To keep it really real with you i'm going through this almost exact scenario right now. Chick im talking to stopped calling me and started the short responses to my texts I didn't start no simping so i'm still good money(NEVER SIMP!). I remember we were texting while we were both busy and i said yea call me( I was expecting her call that night which didn't come) but she did text me saying something about sorry I forgot but i'll hit you up tomorrow. To which i replied(an hour and change later) "Cool just woke up" Which was NOT the response she wanted! LOL The simp move would have been for Me to call her but nah she's always been the initiator before i'm not ready to forfeit any power and I don't like calling girls anyway. but I didn't do any simping so i'm still in the game. I never called her(ever) and often ignored texts of hers(which I know got to her). So now I guess she's giving me a "taste of my own medicine" But as long as I don't do a drastic switch and become the romeo to her Juliet over night I'm still good and have great frame. When the simps start hitting her up she'll remember that guy she felt so good about that never ever called her and was mysterious and she'll be back No shwarzenneger.

 

[Mr210]

this.

being outcome dependent is the worst. This is a constant battle i face every cot'damn day. I see a broad i wanna lay out, but then my mind instantly switches into da 6th gear and i start over-analyzing and thinkin about sheed when i really shouldn't.

Women are funny. A h0e will be like i want a dude to respect me for my personality and intelligence, yet dat same broad be havin her azz over the counter takin a pic emphasizing her azz. OR..you approach a broad and it doesn't go well and she tells her homegirls you ain't got no 'GAME'. You see what i mean? Shyt is a game which you gotta keep your emotions out of. That will only come with trial and error. Do not also take what everyone here and in person say so serious. The way i do things be different from the way you do things and from the way person xyz does things too.

Oh and get'cho weight and dollas up.

No biggie i just asked and got a number of this other woman I had been talking to on okcupid, I will hit her up tomorrow and see where it goes. My convo with her hasnt been as good as the other chick ive been talking about, and at one point i told this new chick that I hope you finds what she is looking for and to take care. She responds first with a question mark and then says did she miss something. So I just told her that I wanted her number. She gave it to me and then asked why was I trying to check out if thats what she wanted. I didnt even answer I just told her I would hit her up tomorrow. Hopefully she doesnt bring it up tomorrow but if so i will let her know