Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

and yes never tell a broad you like her, especially if she is not showing that she feels the same way about you.

there is a saying the person who cares less wins

now im not saying dont care, be a big a$$hole and all that. all im saying is keep your emotions incheck never wear it on your sleeve.

the thing is im a extremely nice person so alot of women have thought they "had me" etc. , i always remember whne i was so nice to this broad etc. that in her mind she thought she had me lol, one day out at the mall im with another broad ansd she sees me, my phone blows up accusing me of cheating and all that. Lol Im like we WERE NEVER TOGETHER, you thought i liked you? im nice to everyone.

 

[MikelArteta]

exactly. Women are attracted to men who live an ACTIVE lifestyle. Pick up some hobbies; it can be anything from exercising, biking, sports, painting, hiking, drawing, playing an instrument, etc. if she finds out that too much of your focus is on her, she's gonna think that you dont have much to live for other than being dependent on her.

who cares what women are attracted to?

do what you want to do

if you want to go to work come home and just relax, chill at home on the weekends if you love that then do it.

NEVER DO ANYTHING because its like women want.

 

[Mr210]

well it looks like i striked out with girl number 2, i called her an hour ago, i asked what she was up to, she says she was eating with her friend and that she would call me when she (her friend) left her place. No return phone call yet....smh

 

[Medio]

how do you all feel about 17 year old. i met this 17 year old girl, i'm in my younger 20's, age of consent in NY is 17.. she's only in my area until friday for the summer then she's gone, she lives 3 hours away. i met her along with her older aunt, i approached both. she def looked older or i wouldn't of approached her, and she gave me her number.

this chick is mad immature, age really shows. she was texting me a lot and shyt and even called me, then one day she was like there's new rules for texting me, which are she's not texting me first anymore, lol. then she told me to text her in the morning the night before, lol... shyt like this is smh. i'm pretty sure if i smash she's gonna be blowing my phone up like crazy and shyt and want to maintain something and i'm not ready for that nor do i want it with her, just would want to smash and that's it.

 

[Votti]

who cares what women are attracted to?

do what you want to do

if you want to go to work come home and just relax, chill at home on the weekends if you love that then do it.

NEVER DO ANYTHING because its like women want.

why the hell would a women want to be with a man who doesnt care what she wants? im not speaking from a simpish level. Doesnt make any sense. Like How the hell are you two gonna relate if you dont have any common interests cause you just wanna do what you wanna do all the time. you might as well live a life alone if thats your logic. But do what works for you.

 

[Teal.]

Had to come by and get a daily dose

 

[Mr210]

ok so she just sent me a text saying if we could talk tomorrow. Her friend just left because they watched a show and that she is sleepy because she had a long day at work. Atleast she apologized unlike chick #1

dont really believe her though...smh

 

[Rich Spirit]

how do you all feel about 17 year old. i met this 17 year old girl, i'm in my younger 20's, age of consent in NY is 17.. she's only in my area until friday for the summer then she's gone, she lives 3 hours away. i met her along with her older aunt, i approached both. she def looked older or i wouldn't of approached her, and she gave me her number.

this chick is mad immature, age really shows. she was texting me a lot and shyt and even called me, then one day she was like there's new rules for texting me, which are she's not texting me first anymore, lol. then she told me to text her in the morning the night before, lol... shyt like this is smh. i'm pretty sure if i smash she's gonna be blowing my phone up like crazy and shyt and want to maintain something and i'm not ready for that nor do i want it with her, just would want to smash and that's it.

Come on man, don't waste your time on young chicks especially a 17 year old

 

[re'up]

so many little observations over last few big weekends, 4th, Comic Con, so many late nights and after parties with a bunch of useless bytches, and my friends I have no interest in even talking to...not like I was before, but it's just more apparent then ever how many of these women in these circles are just idiotic, shallow, vacant of much of anything besides looks, I hear what they have to say to me, and to each other, and just completely lose any interest, I may have had based on looks. Also coming to terms that despite gender roles and expectations I have very little interest in casual sex, or one nights stands, doesn't do very much for me, just not who I am, and never was. Hard to find a quality girl, when you have 6 in front of you all coming from some Playboy party at a downtown club and it's past 2:00 AM....

17 years old? lol come on.. one of my friends is on some bullshyt right now, dating some 21 year old, he's 27, after meeting and talking to her, I was just laughing and shaking my head, she was like a nice naive little girl, like someones little sister, i couldn't even really imagine having sex with her, some guys like that whole younger women thing...i think it's indicative of some type of issue relating to relationships, control, whatever. I usually get along with women better who are older then me, but you still meet some 36 year old acting like she's 25 still.

 

[Medio]

Come on man, don't waste your time on young chicks especially a 17 year old

usually I wouldn't, i never have. but she's out here on vacation for only 3 more days and is basically throwing the puss at me

 

[Jahmal]

some guys like that whole younger women thing..

Most men like younger women...

A 35 yr old man would choose a 25 yr old chick over a 35 year old chick most of the time...

"The cure for Erectile Disfunction is Young Hot p*ssy" - Tom Leykis

 

[re'up]

Right, I should have specified, or gone into detail more, several of my close friends, and some what less closer ones date younger girls, just doesn't work for me, I've met a 23 year old who I would have potentially dated, she was cool...but more then age is just maturity, mostly in these specific cases of my friends, they are dating below their age bracket because it's likely women in theirs would be less then comfortable with some of their habits...? living conditions? Living at home, or partying every weekend, or smoking 10 blunts a day....

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

I'll just leave this here:

 

[MikelArteta]

why the hell would a women want to be with a man who doesnt care what she wants? im not speaking from a simpish level. Doesnt make any sense. Like How the hell are you two gonna relate if you dont have any common interests cause you just wanna do what you wanna do all the time. you might as well live a life alone if thats your logic. But do what works for you.

Are you sure you read what I wrote?

Don't change yourself for broafs, if your fine with a 97 Honda civic then don't blow 20k on a 2012 Honda civic because girls will like it.

Do everything for you, I don't care that women like men who do hobbies etc.

 

[Turbulent]

ok, so tonight im calling girl number 2, who I have yet to talk to on the phone (just got her number last night). If the first girl who I was suppose to talk to last night calls or text wondering why i didnt call her today, do I ignore it, or tell her that she disrespected me yesterday by how she handled the whole situation.

did you tell her you would call her today? if so call her. if not and she asks you that shyt, tell her she's the one who said >talk tomorrow?"

well it looks like i striked out with girl number 2, i called her an hour ago, i asked what she was up to, she says she was eating with her friend and that she would call me when she (her friend) left her place. No return phone call yet....smh

ok so she just sent me a text saying if we could talk tomorrow. Her friend just left because they watched a show and that she is sleepy because she had a long day at work. Atleast she apologized unlike chick #1

dont really believe her though...smh

seems like both these chicks are controlling the interractions and they can sense you're eager to talk to them. they can sense they have the power and power corrupts. The problem is that you seem to be in a mindset where you're hoping not to make a bad move which would end up in them finding you less attractive. that mindset is poison. you are unsure of yourself. stop worrying about if you're doing the right move by calling, not calling, answering, not answering, checking her, not checking her, etc. If you want them to like you that much, that means you already like them. ask yourself why you like them exactly. why is it so important for you to "get" these chicks? why should you be the only one trying to qualify yourself to them and if you think they already qualified themselves to you, what exactly makes them qualified to you? and when asking yourself these questions, keep it real with yourself. don't make excuses for them OR for yourself.

once you get in the proper mindset, you'll realize that magic silver bullet you're looking for to get these chicks simply does not exist. and you'll be at peace with that. you're actions wont be based on trying to portray something to these women. you actions will be based on self-respect, fairness and realness. beyond that, you just let the women who feel your actions choose it. you wont even need to ask what you should or shouldnt do in most cases because you will feel it in your gut once you get your mind right. we all need to do some introspective work breh.