Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ahadi]

I know how you feel. In my last job i was making about 350K a year lol. If I didnt get effed over it woulda been closer to 400K. I was the only black man in a like a 200 person investments division that included private equity, credit investing, infrastructure investing and other shyt. I am not entitled or egotistical enough to think that just because I have a good job that I am superior but i mean lets keep it real ... we kinda are. For goodness sake I have on at least two occassions had two women tell me that I am like a black superman due to my looks, build, demeanor, glasses and everything. But somehow it aint enough for these bytches bro. . They stay on code and try to keep us down/desperate and if you not secure enough you will fall for it.

Theres a serious issue in our community/culture man. Do these women know what it takes to make it as a software engineer at a good firm? How competitive it is. shyt's wild.

Is the question posed in this video even a question in most other cultures? lol


Granted they asking the lowest of the low but I have known professional women on the same shyt

& meanwhile, the dude who doesn’t have a bed frame is smashing the women you want



It’s basically power. They just don’t want to submit.

He’s not a well known starter or anything but even he’s showed me some of the bullshyt he’s dealing with. But then again, he’s also shooting at top tier elite ig hoes who have access to the dubai shiekh’s, drake’s and futures of the world. Even he gets humbled

As for your NFL bud, he gotta shoot much lower lol. For ex. If I’m on the same team with Jalen Hurts, I know I’m not getting the same looks. There’s still levels and I’m sure those women are looking up his salary too.

 

[re'up]

I would point to the over analysis

"You didn't spend enough time with her"
"You didn't make enough money ".
"You don't have your shyt together "
"You should have vetted her better"
"You acted too insecure when she told you she taking a girl's trip"
"You wished her happy birthday "
"You made your move too fast "
"You moved too slow and lost interest "
"You made her uncomfortable bringing up sex"
"You argued back so she lost all respect "
"She started a argument and you ignored her
She lost all respect "
"You didn't listen to her"
"You supposed to listen but don't listen "

as a bi product of social media based communication, in which conversations (in text) because of their nature:
they are visual, and lasting, unlike a phone call, or in person, you can analyze them and frame a narrative to that text.

and also, the product of social media based posting, where things are framed/refracted a certain why to fit a posts theme.

And as a result of society becoming overly anxious, overly analytical, an less able to reflect, clearly, on situations. This kind of shallow analysis is closer to confabulation, rather than introspection.

 

[Dave24]

& meanwhile, the dude who doesn’t have a bed frame is smashing the women you want



It’s basically power. They just don’t want to submit.



As for your NFL bud, he gotta shoot much lower lol. For ex. If I’m on the same team with Jalen Hurts, I know I’m not getting the same looks. There’s still levels and I’m sure those women are looking up his salary too.

@Ahadi Im unable to watch that video right now. How are men without bed frames able to smash the women I want? I always heard having financial success is very important in order to get women.

 

[Ahadi]

@Ahadi Im unable to watch that video right now. How are men without bed frames able to smash the women I want? I always heard having financial success is very important in order to get women.

Financial success is important for the investment (keeping her), but you need to turn her on first (level up masculinity to the highest & getting her) (gym, style, hygiene, status, dark traits, etc).

But for the joke above, it’s usually a power play. Corporate women getting with men (who are less than) for control purposes. But also he’s probably attractive in some way vs the guy who’s on the same level as her.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I cannot fukking last inside this chick to save my life…WITH a condom

Daily cardio/lose weight

 

[skyrunner1]

I cannot fukking last inside this chick to save my life…WITH a condom

Not sure if mentioned but breathe control.. Super underrated.. Usually when brehs have this issue they get anxious and their body gets too excited, slow deep breathing helps control that response. I have even seen study here and there where they combine HIIT and deep breathing with some results.

High-intensity interval training (HIIT) and slow breathing interventions alleviate premature ejaculation (PE) symptoms - PubMed

Compared to the control group, the efficacy of two weeks of HIIT exercise in mitigating PE symptoms suggests its potential as a novel treatment for PE.

pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov

Good luck breh

 

[re'up]

How Big Tech Mined Our Attention and Broke Our Politics

“Superbloom,” by Nicholas Carr, and “The Sirens’ Call,” by the MSNBC host Chris Hayes, argue that we are ill equipped to handle the infinite scroll of the information age.

www.nytimes.com

This is the latest of maybe 7 books I have read on social media/tech, SuperBloom, highly highly insightful. It's not about dating, but centers around communications on a macro level, a lot of is aligned with what is discussed in here.

and how our text based/online in origin communication has changed the way we think and communicate.

 

[Amo Husserl]

Baby, I'm tryna get it the only way I know, I can't act like I don't wanna make love to you. If you get sprung, it is what it is.

I love ya, but I can't be no fool.

 

[MikelArteta]

Our black queens y'all

 

[Sleepy Floyd]

This simp at my job keeps letting this female coworker use his car (she drives her car to work, but apparently the steering is fukked up). And he keeps leaving work to drive her to the store or to get food. While he's not on break. And she charges him for the food.

He's gonna learn
Putting his job on the line simping for this bird brained chick who don't even want him.

I looked her up and one of her baby daddies was arrested for murder last year. He was out on parole at the time of the shootings. He hasn't been sentenced yet.



Her other baby daddy locked up for domestic violence, violating an order of protection and malicious punishment of a child

She has orders of protection against both her baby daddies.

 

[DJSmooth]

This simp at my job keeps letting this female coworker use his car (she drives her car to work, but apparently the steering is fukked up). And he keeps leaving work to drive her to the store or to get food. While he's not on break. And she charges him for the food.

He's gonna learn
Putting his job on the line simping for this bird brained chick who don't even want him.

I looked her up and one of her baby daddies was arrested for murder last year. He was out on parole at the time of the shootings. He hasn't been sentenced yet.



Her other baby daddy locked up for domestic violence, violating an order of protection and malicious punishment of a child

She has orders of protection against both her baby daddies.

Where do you work a call center?

 

[The ADD]

Where do you work a call center?

 

[Ahadi]

That’s why I just do what I want. If I’m attractive enough to her, I’ll either get away with it, or she’ll leave.

Following rules is a headache.

Because he who is “HIM” will always have the leverage.

 

[skyrunner1]

Financial success is important for the investment (keeping her), but you need to turn her on first (level up masculinity to the highest & getting her) (gym, style, hygiene, status, dark traits, etc).

But for the joke above, it’s usually a power play. Corporate women getting with men (who are less than) for control purposes. But also he’s probably attractive in some way vs the guy who’s on the same level as her.

QFT!!

 

[phcitywarrior]

This Chinese girl is cute but it's not like she's a 10/10. It's one of those situations of proximity, similar to Clinton and Lewinsky.

Ended up just leaving it alone. Not that I pursued but I’m deading any type of “checking where her head is at” type moves.

Just not worth it at the end of the day. If I engaged and it got messy, the White/asian woman will always win out.

Spoiler

I also got a promotion coming in a few months. Not tryna jeopardize that