Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ahadi

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I know how you feel. In my last job i was making about 350K a year lol. If I didnt get effed over it woulda been closer to 400K. I was the only black man in a like a 200 person investments division that included private equity, credit investing, infrastructure investing and other shyt. I am not entitled or egotistical enough to think that just because I have a good job that I am superior but i mean lets keep it real ... we kinda are. For goodness sake I have on at least two occassions had two women tell me that I am like a black superman due to my looks, build, demeanor, glasses and everything. But somehow it aint enough for these bytches bro. :laugh:. They stay on code and try to keep us down/desperate and if you not secure enough you will fall for it.

Theres a serious issue in our community/culture man. Do these women know what it takes to make it as a software engineer at a good firm? How competitive it is. shyt's wild.

Is the question posed in this video even a question in most other cultures? lol


Granted they asking the lowest of the low but I have known professional women on the same shyt


& meanwhile, the dude who doesn’t have a bed frame is smashing the women you want

:laff:

It’s basically power. They just don’t want to submit.

He’s not a well known starter or anything but even he’s showed me some of the bullshyt he’s dealing with. But then again, he’s also shooting at top tier elite ig hoes who have access to the dubai shiekh’s, drake’s and futures of the world. Even he gets humbled

As for your NFL bud, he gotta shoot much lower lol. For ex. If I’m on the same team with Jalen Hurts, I know I’m not getting the same looks. There’s still levels and I’m sure those women are looking up his salary too.
 

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I would point to the over analysis

"You didn't spend enough time with her"
"You didn't make enough money ".
"You don't have your shyt together "
"You should have vetted her better"
"You acted too insecure when she told you she taking a girl's trip"
"You wished her happy birthday "
"You made your move too fast "
"You moved too slow and lost interest "
"You made her uncomfortable bringing up sex"
"You argued back so she lost all respect "
"She started a argument and you ignored her
She lost all respect "
"You didn't listen to her"
"You supposed to listen but don't listen "

as a bi product of social media based communication, in which conversations (in text) because of their nature:
they are visual, and lasting, unlike a phone call, or in person, you can analyze them and frame a narrative to that text.

and also, the product of social media based posting, where things are framed/refracted a certain why to fit a posts theme.

And as a result of society becoming overly anxious, overly analytical, an less able to reflect, clearly, on situations. This kind of shallow analysis is closer to confabulation, rather than introspection.
 

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& meanwhile, the dude who doesn’t have a bed frame is smashing the women you want

:laff:

It’s basically power. They just don’t want to submit.



As for your NFL bud, he gotta shoot much lower lol. For ex. If I’m on the same team with Jalen Hurts, I know I’m not getting the same looks. There’s still levels and I’m sure those women are looking up his salary too.

@Ahadi Im unable to watch that video right now. How are men without bed frames able to smash the women I want? I always heard having financial success is very important in order to get women.
 

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@Ahadi Im unable to watch that video right now. How are men without bed frames able to smash the women I want? I always heard having financial success is very important in order to get women.

Financial success is important for the investment (keeping her), but you need to turn her on first (level up masculinity to the highest & getting her) (gym, style, hygiene, status, dark traits, etc).

But for the joke above, it’s usually a power play. Corporate women getting with men (who are less than) for control purposes. But also he’s probably attractive in some way vs the guy who’s on the same level as her.
 
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