Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

man i'm in a drought. I give up at this point fukk it. I was never trying to force the issue, rather seize opportunities. But now fukk the opportunities.

Somethings gone wrong with me lately, I lost my mojo.

You're pretty much coming to the realization that all of this effort isn't giving you any tangible rewards. Finding that decent, loyal woman without drama is like looking for a unicorn.

When it's said and done, you have to do all this work for what? You have to shift your personality into this indifferent nonchalant dude, dull your emotions until you just frankly don't care, constantly check your conversation, dress well, have immaculate game etc., and for what? A little time with a woman who also has 15 other guys orbiting around her? What is your reward for putting up with her mood swings, problems and headaches?

I'd rather spend my time and energy on something that will actually give me some kind of positive return for investing my time and energy in it.

When you see stories like the guy with 30 kids by all these different women, the baltimore prisoner who impregnated 4 cos and had sex with more, you just sit back and say what in the world am I even putting in an effort for? You just come to realize how utterly insane it is that women willingly CHOOSE to put themselves in awful situations and then look for the decent guy to bail them out when it's said and done, and then go RIGHT BACK to doing the same thing.

 

[kevm3]

Here is an example of the no accountability culture
Real World Portland Brawl - Nia VS Johnny & Averey (Full Video) - YouTube!

Women can pretty much go wild on men and not face a single repercussion. Some of these women took the 'don't hit a woman' rule and ran with it and abused it to the extreme and just felt free to completely haul off on men knowing the man can't do anything back. If it was a dude smacking a woman, he would get kicked off, called some kind of beast and get sent to jail... but it's perfectly fine for a woman to hit a dude with several punches and nothing is done.

 

[concise]

Forgot to tell my brehs about my weekend.....so basically I'm in training camp mode right now. Just trying to these girls out, nothing too serious. Just seeing where their head is at and having fun. So Friday night this new chick and I hit a roof top bar and we chillin and talking about our worse dates and what not. Before I went out with her I had no expectations or intentions of trying to beat or stay the night with her. She seemed kind of conservative too and she mentioned one guy try to invite himself in and she shot that down quickly. Before I knew 8:30 turn into 12:30 and then she pulled a fast one...did I want to come back to her place and meet her dog

So we get back there and I meet the dog and everything and we watch Pulp Fiction, by this time its 3:30 and she's like you can't go home its too late so I stay the night. Next morning we wake up and go get breakfast. We are talking over breakfast and she tells me she's been using POF to meet guys and she says this one guy was blowing her up the night before while we were out and called this morning. So I was like return the call, I don't mind...she puts him on speaker and the first thing out his mouth was so did you have a good time on your date last night...you must have because you didn't return any of my text. My dude was so mad right now but the next few words he spoke left me speechless...dude asked if he was winning by this time I'm eating my home fries and french toast and I was like tell em I stayed the night. She was like he will lose it if I say that. Then he says should I just delete your number since you like him more. Now I'm laughing at the whole situation because 1: they only hung out twice 2: dude insecurities are coming out and its making him look like a bytch right now. 3: we only went out once


She gets off the phone and says I'll call you later. We finish breakfast, get back to her place and I'm thinking well we'll go separate ways and talk to each other later or whatever...wrong. She invites me in and we chill and her sister calls and is throwing a cookout for her boyfriend later on. She asks do I want to come. At first I was like I don't know you and you already got me meeting part of the fam. She was like they grilling steaks and having drinks...I was down after that. I was like fukk it, what's the worst that can happen

Man I had so much fun, family was cool as fukk. I was eating, drinking good while watching the playoffs and interacting with the fam. Meanwhile she shows me her phone and ol boy from earlier is blowing up her phone again and she couldn't understand why. So that night we ended up staying over at her sisters house. Now its Sunday and I'm thinking finally I got a day to myself...wrong. Her pops had a extra baseball ticket and asked did we want to go. shyt I always wanted to see a game but never did so I was like lets do it. After the game we ended up going out to eat and get back to her place around 11 so I stayed the night again.

Monday she made dinner and invited me over and I stayed the night again

I've been at her place every night since Sunday, I'm afraid she's gonna want something more committed pretty soon. I think I fukked up by spending so much time with her so soon

Got damn this was my longest post ever...

at that guy who you might become very well acquainted with shortly

 

[DaRealness]

Do online dating brehs.

Daily Star: Simply The Best 7 Days A Week :: Just Jane :: My web girl is a scary con artist

I ASKED my internet girlfriend to marry me based on a glamorous picture she sent over. But now that I’ve seen her in the flesh I realise that I’ve been duped.

Basically, she looks nothing like the slim, blonde babe in the shot.

In fact, I’m not even sure that it IS her! There’s no brimming bust, no taut stomach, no sunny smile and no endless legs.

The picture made her look like Heather Graham and she’s nothing like that.

She’s now living with me, at her insistence, and I feel I’m being held to ransom.

I once mentioned a possible date in December for our wedding and she won’t let it go.

She keeps going on about venues, flowers and invitations. She’s desperate to pin me down so that she can start inviting her multitude of relatives over.

The other night I had a drink for Dutch courage and casually mentioned that I’d rather we live together for a while instead of getting married.

She went wild. She stormed around my fl at smashing crockery and glasses. She screamed that I WOULD marry her or her brothers would “sort me out”.

She accused me of bringing shame on her family, of making false promises and using her like a prostitute for sex.

It was the scariest moment of my life and only stopped when my neighbours called the police and they managed to calm her down.

Now I’m miserable and terrified.

How could I have been such a fool to fall for a complete stranger?

Why did I ever think that someone beautiful and decent would want me in the first place? It feels as though my life is over before it’s even begun.








Then again, it's obvious he has low self esteem as he pretty much admitted in the last sentence. That would explain proposing to this nutjob chick over a damn PICTURE. Haven't people heard of skype?!

 

[Atlrocafella]

You're pretty much coming to the realization that all of this effort isn't giving you any tangible rewards. Finding that decent, loyal woman without drama is like looking for a unicorn.

When it's said and done, you have to do all this work for what? You have to shift your personality into this indifferent nonchalant dude, dull your emotions until you just frankly don't care, constantly check your conversation, dress well, have immaculate game etc., and for what? A little time with a woman who also has 15 other guys orbiting around her? What is your reward for putting up with her mood swings, problems and headaches?

I'd rather spend my time and energy on something that will actually give me some kind of positive return for investing my time and energy in it.

When you see stories like the guy with 30 kids by all these different women, the baltimore prisoner who impregnated 4 cos and had sex with more, you just sit back and say what in the world am I even putting in an effort for? You just come to realize how utterly insane it is that women willingly CHOOSE to put themselves in awful situations and then look for the decent guy to bail them out when it's said and done, and then go RIGHT BACK to doing the same thing.

Brother this is such a powerful post

Do things that will impress yourself, not women, you will get a lot more done with your life.

Ever since I stopped dealing with the attitudes, temper, and daily bullshyt of my ex, I was able to outperform in other areas of my life. Health, career, and saving $$$.

The dream is real brehs

 

[Atlrocafella]

Brehs should I avoid a female who quotes marylin Monroe?

You know " if you can't handle me at my worst then you can't handle me at my best" bullshyt

Yes, avoid them, it's just an excuse for some women to justify their behavior towards you and expecting you to deal with it no matte what.

 

[karim]

Brehs, so i've been seeing/talking/dating this girl for a while now, we've gone out 3 times, most recently last night (she's finally 21 and we can go get drinks). Haven't smashed yet but we've madeout and shyt ... we have a fun time together and she knows i like chillin with her, and I enjoy her company but I feel on this date I should of brought up that I like her and want to see where her head is at so i'm not wasting time. If we go out a 4th time then I'd def bring it up that I'd like to 'date' her. Do you think I should bring up I like her and want to like really date her, I don't know if she wanted me to say this on this date?? or do girls usually bring this stuff up. I don't know .. And bad part, she hasn't hit me up since last night after I texted her so maybe she's not even interested anymore and wanted me to tell her I like her, I don't know. I feel the best move is to just not text or call her and see if she does. Who has some input

no texts, no calls, stop thinking about her until she contacts you.you are on the verge of going into simp mode and fukking this up.

ALWAYS let the woman bring up the where is this going conversation.

 

[young3000]

Do online dating brehs.

Daily Star: Simply The Best 7 Days A Week :: Just Jane :: My web girl is a scary con artist

I ASKED my internet girlfriend to marry me based on a glamorous picture she sent over. But now that I’ve seen her in the flesh I realise that I’ve been duped.

Basically, she looks nothing like the slim, blonde babe in the shot.

In fact, I’m not even sure that it IS her! There’s no brimming bust, no taut stomach, no sunny smile and no endless legs.

The picture made her look like Heather Graham and she’s nothing like that.

She’s now living with me, at her insistence, and I feel I’m being held to ransom.

I once mentioned a possible date in December for our wedding and she won’t let it go.

She keeps going on about venues, flowers and invitations. She’s desperate to pin me down so that she can start inviting her multitude of relatives over.

The other night I had a drink for Dutch courage and casually mentioned that I’d rather we live together for a while instead of getting married.

She went wild. She stormed around my fl at smashing crockery and glasses. She screamed that I WOULD marry her or her brothers would “sort me out”.

She accused me of bringing shame on her family, of making false promises and using her like a prostitute for sex.

It was the scariest moment of my life and only stopped when my neighbours called the police and they managed to calm her down.

Now I’m miserable and terrified.

How could I have been such a fool to fall for a complete stranger?

Why did I ever think that someone beautiful and decent would want me in the first place? It feels as though my life is over before it’s even begun.

No way this can be real in this day and age but if it is

If he doesn't have the balls to get rid of her, have someone else do it. So many ways to get rid someone these days



I meant legally

 

[MikelArteta]

no texts, no calls, stop thinking about her until she contacts you.you are on the verge of going into simp mode and fukking this up.

ALWAYS let the woman bring up the where is this going conversation.

yup

the moment you bring it up is hte moment you lost, because she realizes you have no other options

 

[MikelArteta]

man i'm in a drought. I give up at this point fukk it. I was never trying to force the issue, rather seize opportunities. But now fukk the opportunities.

Somethings gone wrong with me lately, I lost my mojo.

when you stop caring and working on you thats when chicks pop up


kind of like when you look for a key or something cant find it you say f it, then a week later you come across it.


close those dating accounts, stop hollering at every broad you come across and just relax enjoy life

 

[DaRealness]

No way this can be real in this day and age but if it is

If he doesn't have the balls to get rid of her, have someone else do it. So many ways to get rid someone these days



I meant legally

He's just ultra pussified, nothing more. LOL @ letting a chick practically force herself into living with him and smashing his own place up (after having to get liquored up for 'courage' just to make a suggestion) and intimidating him into marriage while he just cowers in a corner like a lil bytch.

He's a punk and an easy target and she knows it.

 

[Turbulent]

Do online dating brehs.

Daily Star: Simply The Best 7 Days A Week :: Just Jane :: My web girl is a scary con artist

I ASKED my internet girlfriend to marry me based on a glamorous picture she sent over. But now that I’ve seen her in the flesh I realise that I’ve been duped.

Basically, she looks nothing like the slim, blonde babe in the shot.

In fact, I’m not even sure that it IS her! There’s no brimming bust, no taut stomach, no sunny smile and no endless legs.

The picture made her look like Heather Graham and she’s nothing like that.

She’s now living with me, at her insistence, and I feel I’m being held to ransom.

I once mentioned a possible date in December for our wedding and she won’t let it go.

She keeps going on about venues, flowers and invitations. She’s desperate to pin me down so that she can start inviting her multitude of relatives over.

The other night I had a drink for Dutch courage and casually mentioned that I’d rather we live together for a while instead of getting married.

She went wild. She stormed around my fl at smashing crockery and glasses. She screamed that I WOULD marry her or her brothers would “sort me out”.

She accused me of bringing shame on her family, of making false promises and using her like a prostitute for sex.

It was the scariest moment of my life and only stopped when my neighbours called the police and they managed to calm her down.

Now I’m miserable and terrified.

How could I have been such a fool to fall for a complete stranger?

Why did I ever think that someone beautiful and decent would want me in the first place? It feels as though my life is over before it’s even begun.








Then again, it's obvious he has low self esteem as he pretty much admitted in the last sentence. That would explain proposing to this nutjob chick over a damn PICTURE. Haven't people heard of skype?!

seems like a good match if you ask me (and i'm actually serious)

 

[Atlrocafella]

no texts, no calls, stop thinking about her until she contacts you.you are on the verge of going into simp mode and fukking this up.

ALWAYS let the woman bring up the where is this going conversation.

Absolute truth! And don't ignore her just to ACT like your busy, just actually be busy. You will be better off for it and when you do respond to her it will come off sincere and not bitter.

 

[Ohene]

You're pretty much coming to the realization that all of this effort isn't giving you any tangible rewards. Finding that decent, loyal woman without drama is like looking for a unicorn.

When it's said and done, you have to do all this work for what? You have to shift your personality into this indifferent nonchalant dude, dull your emotions until you just frankly don't care, constantly check your conversation, dress well, have immaculate game etc., and for what? A little time with a woman who also has 15 other guys orbiting around her? What is your reward for putting up with her mood swings, problems and headaches?

I'd rather spend my time and energy on something that will actually give me some kind of positive return for investing my time and energy in it.

When you see stories like the guy with 30 kids by all these different women, the baltimore prisoner who impregnated 4 cos and had sex with more, you just sit back and say what in the world am I even putting in an effort for? You just come to realize how utterly insane it is that women willingly CHOOSE to put themselves in awful situations and then look for the decent guy to bail them out when it's said and done, and then go RIGHT BACK to doing the same thing.

Pretty much man, it be the same women who are telling you they don't trust guys or all we want is sex.

I dont even think its that they cant tell the difference between a dude who is not all about sex or just trying to smash em. They don't care about none of that shyt, the whole, "guys are dogs" schtick is just dissonance when they get played by one. They know what theyre getting into. Seems like its feast or famine out here though. I cant even hate on the dudes doing their thing out there, can only be frustrated with myself lol.

 

[Jason B]

You're pretty much coming to the realization that all of this effort isn't giving you any tangible rewards. Finding that decent, loyal woman without drama is like looking for a unicorn.

When it's said and done, you have to do all this work for what? You have to shift your personality into this indifferent nonchalant dude, dull your emotions until you just frankly don't care, constantly check your conversation, dress well, have immaculate game etc., and for what? A little time with a woman who also has 15 other guys orbiting around her? What is your reward for putting up with her mood swings, problems and headaches?

I'd rather spend my time and energy on something that will actually give me some kind of positive return for investing my time and energy in it.

When you see stories like the guy with 30 kids by all these different women, the baltimore prisoner who impregnated 4 cos and had sex with more, you just sit back and say what in the world am I even putting in an effort for? You just come to realize how utterly insane it is that women willingly CHOOSE to put themselves in awful situations and then look for the decent guy to bail them out when it's said and done, and then go RIGHT BACK to doing the same thing.

Truth. Many people, particularly those from previous generations, completely oblivious to the abundance of fukkery that is a part of today's dating scene. It is quite draining to have to sift through the nonsense and having to feel the need to constantly modify your actions in order to protect yourself against it. Therefore, it is easily understandable for anyone to be like "fukk this shyt" altogether since it makes no sense to be subjected to unnecessary bullshyt at all.