Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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When you figure out the code words that women used and what are behind them, it will give you a headache. "I'm busy" and then she disappears = 99% of the time she is dealing with another guy. If she was really busy, she would reschedule immediately.

What really trips me out is that women hold way more respect for the guy that treats them like a plaything... like one of his whores than she does for the actual guy taking care of her and providing for her.

Here is a post from another forum on the topic of "Do you trust women", and it's pretty much a behind the curtains looks. When you start knowing the 'code words' women use and figuring out what they really mean, you will see where I'm coming from. Some cats probably thought I was being cold in my response to monsieur about ma who disappeared for two weeks, but believe me, even something like that isn't off limits.

Yeah if she cared she would of hit me up, key words she used was "I have to figure things out" but I mean it's whatever, back to focusing on me. Which should of been my goal in the first place. When someone comes into your life you should always think about yourself first and the rest you can deal with later.

Edit:but maybe she does care. Idk man everyone's different, can't hold anything against her and can't be upset about it. It's whatever honestly. I can understand.
 

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that "shift the blame" thing is move number one in a womans game. its a natural response they have. VERY rarely do women just come out, and admit their mistakes and take accountability.

its always some immeasurable, unseen, and unnoticed factor that makes a woman "do something"

man, I would never excuse a womans actions because shes having her period. there are moments where as men we go through some hard times, have some physical pain, have some challenges in life we're facing, may be we drank a lot, or what have you, and we cant just start punching people in the face, calling people all types of names, crashing cars or starting fights, cheat on our s/o or whatever and it all gets excused away due to "what we were feeling." and periods give discomfort, yet they dont stop women from doing their jobs right at the workplace, or from doing their school work correctly. so why should it be a legit excuse for them to act up and do something drastic to their man and/or friends? I know that its a pain, sorry to hear, but its not a debilitating pain.

and even people with debilitating pains arent allowed to be a$$holes and get away with it. no one would want to put up with it after a while. thats a quick way to being alone and treated at a distance.

we cant pardon irresponsibility because of that. thank God we dont go through it, but it still wouldnt excuse us from acting like a$$holes and making bad choices. we would get called on it, as we need to be anyways. theres also a huge difference between being cranky and irritable, and in doing something wrong. accountability still has to mean something.
 

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I don't have much debt but I don't have job presay so what do i do about finding a wife?

should I stop looking & get body count of women or what?

I would say, if you like a girl, get to know her. really get to know her before you start promoting her and making her your chick. before you even get any feelings for her, make sure that you know her WELL. I dont trust a woman unless shes EARNED it, and even then you have to be having your eyes and ears opened.

use impartial eyes, look at what she does, how she acts with you, and does this women put effort back into the relationship. see if shes really a good woman, or are you just trying to make her what shes not. are you letting a lot of things slide? does she front a lot? is she just playing a role? this happens a lot to us, and its a very dangerous thing for a man to overlook a womans entire character and to value her higher than she is.

if shes not worthy of being taken serious, and thats what you want from a girl then move on. focus on yourself, and dont take these women serious unless she shows you she is about that life. make no saves, no excuses, and no extra effort for her, just do you and see if she falls into place. when men do too much for love and affection, that is when we turn into simps and tricks in an effort to "win" a woman over. dont do that, just work towards a good future and see if she works with that.
 

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I don't have much debt but I don't have job presay so what do i do about finding a wife?

should I stop looking & get body count of women or what?

Nah, don't go out and 'get a body count'. You can take even worse losses that way via std or pregnancy with a woman you hate. Just sit back and enjoy your hobbies and don't 'stop' dealing with women per say... but when you see her coming to the table with nonsense, boot her immediately and continue about your business of enjoying life.
 

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Yeah you'd think so, but everyone's different. The night after we had our first kiss she disappeared. I hit her up a few days later and she broke the news. Said she likes me but too much Is going on with family and she needs to fix things. Again I'm allowing it to be what it is and not giving it as much attention as I could. Girl seems good/genuine but eh second thoughts have me like she's taking to another nikka, but then again she could just need some me time.

Kissing a girl makes her a fling now? :russ:
 

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The Professional Women's Ode: A Poem.

alpha fukks and beta bucks
that is how we roll
the butthsexing cocks we fukks and sucks
and in our anus it doth deosul
alpha fukks and beta bucks
it is the way of the fed
to transfer assets to those who buttsex
cuckold those who pay for our bread
beta bucks and alpha fukks
it’s what they teach us we're entitled too
the assets from betas we plucks
after the alphas desol us through our hole of poo
 

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It's wack. It's kinda scary too, brehs..

It's a scary scary world

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This is all real shyt, plus the 1 poster before.

My boys ask me y I am the way I am w woman... I respond, "because of me". They think I'm reckless or bold, I know it's just that I'm 'aware'.

The situations and things that I've been a part of w these bytches makes me know for sure that girls these days have issues. You can't trust most.

I got sucked off by a bytch who told her BF that she didn't really like to suck dikk. I nutted on her stomach after sex and the only thing any man can think at that point is..."her man, kisses right there- she's maddd trif" ....meanwhile he was a genuinely nice guy - She even cried when he dumped her!! Said she loved him!!

I swear, I just don't understand this shyt.
 

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I've been seeing this guy for almost a year now. He says he loves me and even talks about moving in with me but doesn't want to make it official yet... It drives me crazy I don't wanna pressure him but I'm starting to want to move on. I don't even have visions of us being together anymore and when he says I love you I don't believe it. But I say it back which is probably bad. I asked him why we weren't together he says because he wants us to last and he wants to get out his own way like wtf type of shyt is that. U love me. U wanna live me go on vacations with me ... claims he isnt seeing anyone...but a relationship your not ready for... He's losing me... am I being irrational as he likes to say
 

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I've been seeing this guy for almost a year now. He says he loves me and even talks about moving in with me but doesn't want to make it official yet... It drives me crazy I don't wanna pressure him but I'm starting to want to move on. I don't even have visions of us being together anymore and when he says I love you I don't believe it. But I say it back which is probably bad. I asked him why we weren't together he says because he wants us to last and he wants to get out his own way like wtf type of shyt is that. U love me. U wanna live me go on vacations with me ... claims he isnt seeing anyone...but a relationship your not ready for... He's losing me... am I being irrational as he likes to say

so because he doesnt want to move in with you, you think he doesnt love you etc?



I would never live with a chick unless she is my wife.
 

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Kissing a girl makes her a fling now? :russ:

I figured so, not an official fling I just figured it'd progress. If someone tells you that they like you you gotta kinda believe them right? Once we started kicking it I'm not gonna talk to other girls, maybe I'm just a sucker?
Edit: I'm not in this thread much, I fell back so I could focus on my life rather than having a group of men convince me to do so. I don't know everything, I lost, but we all lose at times. And if it makes you feel better then I'm over it. What's life without experience. Plus I'm young, :Whew: I got time to learn. Less advice on the Internet, more experience and I'll be good. No sweat.
 
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