Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Pretty much man, it be the same women who are telling you they don't trust guys or all we want is sex.

I dont even think its that they cant tell the difference between a dude who is not all about sex or just trying to smash em. They don't care about none of that shyt, the whole, "guys are dogs" schtick is just dissonance when they get played by one. They know what theyre getting into. Seems like its feast or famine out here though. I cant even hate on the dudes doing their thing out there, can only be frustrated with myself lol.

breh it sucks, even ten years ago it wasnt this bad, i swear social media/internet/dating sites have ruined dating/relationships.

lol at that all guys are dogs as they post booty shots and clevage shots on instagram, or talk to 50 different guys.

as well women dug their own hole, by giving away their greatest commodity for free.
 

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breh it sucks, even ten years ago it wasnt this bad, i swear social media/internet/dating sites have ruined dating/relationships.

lol at that all guys are dogs as they post booty shots and clevage shots on instagram, or talk to 50 different guys.

as well women dug their own hole, by giving away their greatest commodity for free.

Females who do any of this make themselves look even more foolish whenever they go into that "men are dogs" spiel. The crazy part about it is many of these females know that they are on bullshyt deep down within, but still put up a front like they have a high level of confidence in their bullshyt antics. Pure fukkery.
 

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1963:

Him: I want to have sex with you.
Her: Not until we’re married (or at least engaged).
Him: Okay, let’s get on with it then.

2013:

Him: I want to have sex with you.
Her: Okay, jump on.
[ six months later ]
Her: I want to get married.
Him: Why mess up a good thing?
Her: Why are there no good men anymore?
 

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random little anecdote/interraction that made me reflect...

Basically i'm at work and someone came to make a little presentation. The room is setup a little weird but i'm sitting infront of this chick i'm kinda feeling a little. Anyway, dude makes his little presentation or whatever (was kinda of a douche) and the girl just tries to get his attention and she got dissed infront of everyone. Her whole facial expression changed and she felt uncomfortable and embarrassed. I won't lie, i felt the urge to come up to her afterwards and just tell her dude was wrong and blablabla but i resisted it. Instead when people were gossiping about it, i just said what i felt (that the dude was kind of a douche but i can't even front, that part was funny). Now she always sits next to me at lunch, we talk more than before, etc.

a couple of remarks about this random anecdote:

1. They don't want to be saved. Had I came up to her with the :cape: she would have thought "how sweet of him :smile:" and KIM. Remain yourself and keep it real with yourself and with others. Fight the urge...

2. That dude could probably fukk her easy now, lol.
 

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:ufdup: no texts, no calls, stop thinking about her until she contacts you.you are on the verge of going into simp mode and fukking this up.

ALWAYS let the woman bring up the where is this going conversation.

i feel like i already fukked it up by telling her i like spending time with her and we should go out again .. w/e b, not gonna hit her up .. live and learn I guess
 

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This video is a textbook example of what I've been talking about. You may want to skip to the commentary, but it's pretty much verbatim how it goes down. Negroes be believing everything their woman says until one day they check that facebook or email and the real story is completely different. This isn't just a 'black woman thing'... It's a woman thing in general.
 
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Mr Vegas Breaks Down Crying After Finding Out His Wife Cheated - YouTube

This video is a textbook example of what I've been talking about. You may want to skip to the commentary, but it's pretty much verbatim how it goes down. Negroes be believing everything their woman says until one day they check that facebook or email and the real story is completely different. This isn't just a 'black woman thing'... It's a woman thing in general.

You have to definetly spend time getting to know the woman you're trying to set a life with. Anything funny and out of the ordinary should put you on high alert. Don't let these women lull you to sleep with their kindness (acting).
 
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There is a big unintended consequence that results from treating women (or men) as a (fake) political class: it cuts across the real class lines, to the great disadvantage of the lower classes. America's class war against its lower classes is a permanent, full-spectrum, total war, and it is by this point quite close to total victory. Among its foot-soldiers there are numerous higher-class, educated women ensconced in various official positions who, while supposedly championing the rights of women and children, end up oppressing lower-class, uneducated men. To do so, they rely on the services of America's oversize criminal-industrial complex, which imprisons a larger share of the population than Stalin did during the height of his purges, with the majority of the inmates male, non-white, uneducated and poor. Add to this the fact that in the US, as women joined the “workforce” (a term full of inane puffery), family incomes stagnated (women's wages have been subtracted from the men's) while family costs went up (because domestic services such as child care and food preparation now had to be paid for). The results of all this are plain to see: the US leads the world in the percentage of children brought up fatherless, many of them on public assistance that is becoming precarious. Eventually “men's liberation” will come and all these inmates will be freed—once the system runs out of money and can no longer spend the $60-80k or so a year it costs to keep someone in jail. Since jail is a deeply dehumanizing experience, the role these freed inmates will play in society upon release is unlikely to be positive. This seems to be the unintended but hardly unexpected consequence of politicizing gender: all fall down.

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we all take Ls man. it could be from a chick you barely know and not even kissed or a chick you've been married with for 10 years and have kids with. and ven if you'll feel them differently, they'll both sting in the moment. Usually a "fling" refers to a chick you fukked. that other chick who's grandpa died, she figures she can afford not giving you any energy cause in her mind you'll still be there if she decides to come back to you (she thinks you're in her back pocket). Don't contact her for a while and watch how she'll try to come back as if nothing happened. and if she finds out you kept it moving, watch how she'll subtly try to guilt trip you. don't let women use tragedy as an excuse to act shytty. but like you said, don't be bitter about it either. Just realize it's human nature.

Yeah I know, an L is an L; no matter how and who you take it from. She really can't guilt trip me. I'm intelligent, tall, handsome, athletic, etc. She's a girl, I'm going to Germany in less than a month, there's plenty of girls out there, plenty of girls everywhere, the only thing I need to worry about is getting my AA, transferring to a university, moving out, and progressing in life; the rest is unimportant. So it's no sweat at all, if she comes back then she does, and if not then she does.
 
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