Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Apollo Creed]

Nah not all. It seems these rules that you're trying to dictate is why the game is in shambles. how are you in a relationship with someone that you don't trust? Y'all just sitting in the house staring at each other because you're afraid you or her might cheat is goofy behavior. Get off the internet getting all that negative info and go out here and touch grass. People aren't moving like that in real relationships. If she chooses to cheat then she just wasn't your girl and dump her. It's as simple as that.

You are seeking a fantasy thst doesnt exist. You are saying touch grass in a thread almost 7k pages of nikkas crying.

You know what do what you want see you in a few months crying like the rest of the nikkas who refuse to adapt to reality and come back crying when their feelings get hurt for the 100th time.



You nikkas legit hate yourselves signing up to be crash dummies to marketing campaigns.

 

[The ADD]

Heating up in here….

 

[Scaaar]

You are seeking a fantasy thst doesnt exist. You are saying touch grass in a thread almost 7k pages of nikkas crying.

You know what do what you want see you in a few months crying like the rest of the nikkas who refuse to adapt to reality and come back crying when their feelings get hurt for the 100th time.



You nikkas legit hate yourselves signing up to be crash dummies to marketing campaigns.

I definitely don't have those problems out here dating. I don't sit around and cry like you and the other brehs in here dating outta fear. I give brehs game to build their self confidence up and you peddling fear worried about what a woman might do. If you were as solid as you thought you were you wouldn't even be thinking like that. Got your chic on lockdown because you scared someone might scoop if she's outta sight for a weekend.That's why you sound goofy lol. But hey keep doing you I'm sure being a part of the he-man-woman hating club is working out well for you. Lol

 

[KidJSoul]

For cats that think they need to do something really cool for a 1st date.

Breh did all that for her to say I don't know if I'm going to keep seeing him lol. He wasted his time and imo if she is into you then you don't need all that creativity, none of that till she earns it.

Just do drinks or whatever you like to do, for me it was bowling and that worked almost every time plus they had drinks in the bowling alley and finger food. If you're a pool dude or you like nature take take her too a pool hall(one not too rough) or out to a scenic space with some ice cream or even a hike. Don't over do it, just try to have a good time. At the end of that date if the chemistry is good or you unsure go for the kiss and that will tell you all you need to know. If the kiss is good and she kisses back then you know what time it is but if the kiss is lacking or she pull away cut your losses. Dude went out with her three times, on that third time he was supposed to bring her back to the room then smash but he'd rather play video games with the broad. That's where he lost her and she felt they had no chemistry. He got himself a female friend and not any sex.

"I don't want to keep dating him. We have different personalities and different goals, and the spark/chemistry just isn't there for me to see this becoming a romantic relationship. I definitely see us continuing as friends."

Lol these women...

Late reply but I just saw this

This is why I feel a lot of women are low key narcissists.

They really think that as a man, you should find pleasure and enjoyment in just pleasing a woman

And then people in the comments are like "oh, you can't buy interest"

Like no shyt, that's the point

Going all out doesn't guarantee she'll like you

That's why it's pointless to do it

But these narcs think that you should still do it just because they enjoy it.

We're supposed to gain satisfaction just being in the presence of a woman because she's worth going all out for

If we expect anything we're entitled

Meanwhile they would find it unfathomable to do that to impress a man

And that brings me to my next point:

 

[KidJSoul]

Women be wondering why men "aren't obsessed with them anymore" or why men aren't romantic anymore

Well because the jig is up

We know that if a woman fukks with you, you don't have to do that shyt in the first place

Hell, some women will think you're either desperate, or manipulative (love bombing) if you act all romantic

Hell, and we know that a lot of women are truly interested in men that don't even give a shyt about them like that. That are indifferent. Whether its some regular dude that is simply indifferent, some bummy dude, or some "high status" dude that doesn't put in any effort, etc.

I've gotten more interest from women when I didn't even try to date them. Sometimes when I've acted like an a$$hole (calling them hoes) they would get in their feelings and then start flirting with me the next day

So there's no point in being romantic for a woman you aren't already in a serious relationship with yet.

Why treat her like she's special, when she's clearly not given how she probably likes men that don't think much of her?

a bytch especially nowadays doesn't want a man that puts her on a pedestal but it makes him look worthless and disposable. How you gonna be a man, with all that power, strength, money, leadership, and then put a woman on a pedestal just because she's pretty?

Espeically when the jig is up?

( I don't endorse redpill, I hate the extreme they say. But some of the women that criticize it don't hate it only because of sexism - they hate what it exposes about what some women do )

 

[WIA20XX]

This is why I feel a lot of women are low key narcissists.

When you look at the Anti-Social Disorder traits

• Impulsive
• Irresponsible
• Manipulative
• Deceitful
• Reckless
• Does not care about other people's feelings
• Unable to control anger
• Lack Guilt
• Do not learn from their mistakes
• Blame others for the problems in their lives

Who does that sound like?

But what does dominant culture say about ASD?

Antisocial personality disorder affects more men than women.

What is hated/medicalized in men is tolerated in women.

Should I even say celebrated?

Collins Dictionary names 'brat' word of the year for 2024

Lime green is still the shade of the season.

www.today.com

Recently, Collins Dictionary announced “brat” as its 2024 word of the year, defining it as “characterized by a confident, independent, and hedonistic attitude.”

They use different words for the same behaviors of the 2 genders.

 

[KidJSoul]

When you look at the Anti-Social Disorder traits

• Impulsive
• Irresponsible
• Manipulative
• Deceitful
• Reckless
• Does not care about other people's feelings
• Unable to control anger
• Lack Guilt
• Do not learn from their mistakes
• Blame others for the problems in their lives

Who does that sound like?

But what does dominant culture say about ASD?



What is hated/medicalized in men is tolerated in women.

Should I even say celebrated?

Collins Dictionary names 'brat' word of the year for 2024

Lime green is still the shade of the season.

www.today.com

They use different words for the same behaviors of the 2 genders.

• Being indecisive ("I don't know what to eat"/"what I want")
• Being physically weak
• Being short
• Never apologizing
• Being emotionally sensitive
• Being dumb

When women have these traits, it is considered cute

When men have these traits, they're a liability

If a woman is broke, well she can date a man with money

If a man is broke, he's worthless and should get a job



All the more reason why no man should treat a random woman like she's inherently special

And it's why women themselves prefer men that don't do that


When you do that, you're calling yourself inherently worthless as a man

When you pedastalize someone who is allowed to be an incompetent "brat"

What does that say about your worth as a man? That everything you do means nothing since that woman doesn't have to do anything

As a man, find a woman that will be under your wing and birth your kids.

Women online get mad about stuff like this but most women in real life if they had the opportunity to, would be under the wing of a man they respect anyway

 

[Apollo Creed]

I definitely don't have those problems out here dating. I don't sit around and cry like you and the other brehs in here dating outta fear. I give brehs game to build their self confidence up and you peddling fear worried about what a woman might do. If you were as solid as you thought you were you wouldn't even be thinking like that. Got your chic on lockdown because you scared someone might scoop if she's outta sight for a weekend.That's why you sound goofy lol. But hey keep doing you I'm sure being a part of the he-man-woman hating club is working out well for you. Lol

You're coping. Another nikka thsts food. Saying I'm crying when I prob the only nikka roasting you all for repeated stupidity.

 

[Ohene]

Late reply but I just saw this

This is why I feel a lot of women are low key narcissists.

They really think that as a man, you should find pleasure and enjoyment in just pleasing a woman

And then people in the comments are like "oh, you can't buy interest"

Like no shyt, that's the point

Going all out doesn't guarantee she'll like you

That's why it's pointless to do it

But these narcs think that you should still do it just because they enjoy it.

We're supposed to gain satisfaction just being in the presence of a woman because she's worth going all out for

If we expect anything we're entitled

Meanwhile they would find it unfathomable to do that to impress a man

And that brings me to my next point:

yup

Its a shame breh. It wasnt always like this either. Back then the formula was pretty straight forward (7-10 years ago for me). Pre-covid lets say if I met a woman, i could expect her to respond to my texts, expect her to be down to go out and do whatever, and expect her to be receptive to future plans/coming over if the date went well objectively. The cause and effect had a strong relationship.

Now it just be mad random and theres no rhyme or reason to why a girl does or doesnt like you; no rules to engagement. You can get a girls number only for her to ignore you / take long as hell to respond. You can invite her out and she asking you all the questions tryna se if its worth it. You can even go out have a great time and she will turn around and act weird/continue the cat and mouse shyt; showing no appreciation and acting entitled.

The jig is up. Why waste your time, money and energy, Dudes are choosing to strictly deal with women who show keen interest from the get and not tryna impress anyone

 

[Guvnor]

Yeah you're a bit outta pocket. What's wrong with her taking a girl's trip? Do you take a trip with just your boys? You should be able to trust her to go on a trip solo. If you can't why are you in a relationship with her. If she wanted to cheat she'll do it regardless. Being controlling like that will only cause her to resent you which will cause issues down the line

I haven't before but one of my boys suggested it, maybe I will now.

Appreciate the honesty bro but you're right that if she wanted to cheat she would. I don't think she is like that so I'll trust her more.

Depends on who her friends are and how they are is one thing
Where are they going is another question
I’ve let my wife do it twice but it was for a concert so she was gone like 2 or 3 days
I don’t dwell on the cheating aspect because if a woman gonna cheat she will no matter what and where it happens wont matter either
So I mean I can see why not let her and I can see why you wouldn’t
Everyone has different perspective on it I don’t think either is wrong it’s more situational and how your relationship is with her
But for me I don’t have an issue I trust her and I know her friends decently enough
Plus if she wanna play stupid games and do it get severe consequences so she knows how i roll
She bothers me more when she went twice on them talking bout missing me and seeing all the couples and shyt made her sad told her oh well enjoy yourself I am at home

I hear you breh her friends seem decent for the most part so I'll let it go and trust her. I guess the issue is with me is i have trust issues period but you can't be that way in a relationship. I also didn't grow up around women who did the whole girls trip thing unless they were single or going on church retreats.

 

[RaspberryFitted]

If I met a woman, i could expect her to respond to my texts, expect her to be down to go out and do whatever, and expect her to be receptive to future plans/coming over if the date went well objectively. The cause and effect had a strong relationship.

My situation right now
3rd date at the park after two fun interactive dates (bowling and museum)

 

[Ohene]

My situation right now
3rd date at the park after two fun interactive dates (bowling and museum)

dont settle for nothin less. go in for the kill this time if you havent already

 

[RaspberryFitted]

dont settle for nothin less. go in for the kill this time if you havent already

I will

 

[re'up]

I haven't before but one of my boys suggested it, maybe I will now.

Appreciate the honesty bro but you're right that if she wanted to cheat she would. I don't think she is like that so I'll trust her more.

I hear you breh her friends seem decent for the most part so I'll let it go and trust her. I guess the issue is with me is i have trust issues period but you can't be that way in a relationship. I also don't grow up around women who did the whole girls trip thing unless they were single or going on church retreats.

I think it's also clear that you need decide what your comfort level is. Most men and women who are reasonably good looking, if they are going out with friends, they are going to interact with the opposite sex on some level. I've known women that detailed every interaction with men to me, after a night like that, like a federal investigation briefing lol and I didn't ask, and I don't really care that much. I think people are entitled to their own private inner lives, and secrets.

this is a little deeper, but lounges, nightclubs, bars, are on some level selling a fantasy, right? So, when married women/men, committed relationships go to those places, they are engaging in fantasy to some degree, it's about how much.

 

[Guvnor]

My situation right now
3rd date at the park after two fun interactive dates (bowling and museum)

Lol that's whats up glad it's been going well so far. Enjoy yourself breh and I wish y'all well.