Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Nah not all. It seems these rules that you're trying to dictate is why the game is in shambles. how are you in a relationship with someone that you don't trust? Y'all just sitting in the house staring at each other because you're afraid you or her might cheat is goofy behavior. Get off the internet getting all that negative info and go out here and touch grass. People aren't moving like that in real relationships. If she chooses to cheat then she just wasn't your girl and dump her. It's as simple as that.

You are seeking a fantasy thst doesnt exist. You are saying touch grass in a thread almost 7k pages of nikkas crying.

You know what do what you want see you in a few months crying like the rest of the nikkas who refuse to adapt to reality and come back crying when their feelings get hurt for the 100th time.

:russ:

You nikkas legit hate yourselves signing up to be crash dummies to marketing campaigns.
 

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You are seeking a fantasy thst doesnt exist. You are saying touch grass in a thread almost 7k pages of nikkas crying.

You know what do what you want see you in a few months crying like the rest of the nikkas who refuse to adapt to reality and come back crying when their feelings get hurt for the 100th time.

:russ:

You nikkas legit hate yourselves signing up to be crash dummies to marketing campaigns.
I definitely don't have those problems out here dating. I don't sit around and cry like you and the other brehs in here dating outta fear. I give brehs game to build their self confidence up and you peddling fear worried about what a woman might do. If you were as solid as you thought you were you wouldn't even be thinking like that. Got your chic on lockdown because you scared someone might scoop if she's outta sight for a weekend.That's why you sound goofy lol. But hey keep doing you I'm sure being a part of the he-man-woman hating club is working out well for you. Lol
 

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For cats that think they need to do something really cool for a 1st date.



Breh did all that for her to say I don't know if I'm going to keep seeing him lol. He wasted his time and imo if she is into you then you don't need all that creativity, none of that till she earns it.

Just do drinks or whatever you like to do, for me it was bowling and that worked almost every time plus they had drinks in the bowling alley and finger food. If you're a pool dude or you like nature take take her too a pool hall(one not too rough) or out to a scenic space with some ice cream or even a hike. Don't over do it, just try to have a good time. At the end of that date if the chemistry is good or you unsure go for the kiss and that will tell you all you need to know. If the kiss is good and she kisses back then you know what time it is but if the kiss is lacking or she pull away cut your losses. Dude went out with her three times, on that third time he was supposed to bring her back to the room then smash but he'd rather play video games with the broad. That's where he lost her and she felt they had no chemistry. He got himself a female friend and not any sex.

"I don't want to keep dating him. We have different personalities and different goals, and the spark/chemistry just isn't there for me to see this becoming a romantic relationship. I definitely see us continuing as friends."

Lol these women...
Late reply but I just saw this :laff:

This is why I feel a lot of women are low key narcissists.

They really think that as a man, you should find pleasure and enjoyment in just pleasing a woman :russ:

And then people in the comments are like "oh, you can't buy interest"

Like no shyt, that's the point :dead:

Going all out doesn't guarantee she'll like you

That's why it's pointless to do it :dead:

But these narcs think that you should still do it just because they enjoy it.

We're supposed to gain satisfaction just being in the presence of a woman because she's worth going all out for

If we expect anything we're entitled :dead:

Meanwhile they would find it unfathomable to do that to impress a man :dead:

And that brings me to my next point:
 

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Women be wondering why men "aren't obsessed with them anymore" or why men aren't romantic anymore

Well because the jig is up

We know that if a woman fukks with you, you don't have to do that shyt in the first place

Hell, some women will think you're either desperate, or manipulative (love bombing) if you act all romantic

Hell, and we know that a lot of women are truly interested in men that don't even give a shyt about them like that. That are indifferent. Whether its some regular dude that is simply indifferent, some bummy dude, or some "high status" dude that doesn't put in any effort, etc.

I've gotten more interest from women when I didn't even try to date them. Sometimes when I've acted like an a$$hole (calling them hoes) they would get in their feelings and then start flirting with me the next day :russ:

So there's no point in being romantic for a woman you aren't already in a serious relationship with yet.

Why treat her like she's special, when she's clearly not given how she probably likes men that don't think much of her?

a bytch especially nowadays doesn't want a man that puts her on a pedestal but it makes him look worthless and disposable. How you gonna be a man, with all that power, strength, money, leadership, and then put a woman on a pedestal just because she's pretty?

Espeically when the jig is up?

( I don't endorse redpill, I hate the extreme they say. But some of the women that criticize it don't hate it only because of sexism - they hate what it exposes about what some women do :lolbron: )
 

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This is why I feel a lot of women are low key narcissists.

When you look at the Anti-Social Disorder traits
  • Impulsive
  • Irresponsible
  • Manipulative
  • Deceitful
  • Reckless
  • Does not care about other people's feelings
  • Unable to control anger
  • Lack Guilt
  • Do not learn from their mistakes
  • Blame others for the problems in their lives
Who does that sound like?

But what does dominant culture say about ASD?

Antisocial personality disorder affects more men than women.

What is hated/medicalized in men is tolerated in women.

Should I even say celebrated?


Recently, Collins Dictionary announced “brat” as its 2024 word of the year, defining it as “characterized by a confident, independent, and hedonistic attitude.”

They use different words for the same behaviors of the 2 genders.
 

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When you look at the Anti-Social Disorder traits
  • Impulsive
  • Irresponsible
  • Manipulative
  • Deceitful
  • Reckless
  • Does not care about other people's feelings
  • Unable to control anger
  • Lack Guilt
  • Do not learn from their mistakes
  • Blame others for the problems in their lives
Who does that sound like?

But what does dominant culture say about ASD?



What is hated/medicalized in men is tolerated in women.

Should I even say celebrated?




They use different words for the same behaviors of the 2 genders.

  • Being indecisive ("I don't know what to eat"/"what I want")
  • Being physically weak
  • Being short
  • Never apologizing
  • Being emotionally sensitive
  • Being dumb

When women have these traits, it is considered cute

When men have these traits, they're a liability

If a woman is broke, well she can date a man with money

If a man is broke, he's worthless and should get a job



All the more reason why no man should treat a random woman like she's inherently special

And it's why women themselves prefer men that don't do that


When you do that, you're calling yourself inherently worthless as a man

When you pedastalize someone who is allowed to be an incompetent "brat"

What does that say about your worth as a man? That everything you do means nothing since that woman doesn't have to do anything

As a man, find a woman that will be under your wing and birth your kids.

Women online get mad about stuff like this but most women in real life if they had the opportunity to, would be under the wing of a man they respect anyway
 
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