Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The ADD]

Its not her but not sure I trust that girls trip shyt in general. I need to be able to monitor my borad man.


We've done couple trips before but her argument is about sister hood and spending time with these girls one on one since they don't get to hang out like that and she knew most of them since high school. I mean to be fair she don't go out like that so I get it.


Scared she would cheat or do something sneaky. Could be my conscience cause I cheated on her before or I don't really trust like that in general.



Lol true, I got to learn to trust her tbh but its hard for me.

I'm telling you, one of them waiting till marriage and is a strict J but got unrealistic standards according to my girl and looking at her I felt the same. The type that always find faults with her dudes she dates. I've been around them and they kinda whack and awkward, fun to hang with but couldn't imagine them on some city girl type shyt.

Truthfully most of them ugly and fat. Their is one who is the single thot one out the bunch but the rest I don't got to worry about like that.

Oh well yeah this her revenge tour…….

 

[Brandsdale]

This chick is gonna say something that most actual practitioners already know.

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[Ohene]

what you attract is a reflection of you

How? What does that actually mean? Break it down

 

[Brandsdale]

How? What does that actually mean? Break it down

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[Guvnor]

Sigh

This is some female shyt. Men shouldn’t be insecure/play games in this kind of way

You're right that I shouldn't be insecure or have fear. Got to be confident and trust more but I believe as a man you got to beat that p*ssy out the frame or someone else will.

That's just my philosophy Why you think she puts up with me.. the D lol jk

Let go of that fear. Don't lead with your fears. Doesn't mean be oblivious, but don't cling to that fear. Nothing good will ever come of that.

Appreciate your advice, that's right just got to work on trust. Can't stifle her or be controlling, won't ever work.

Oh well yeah this her revenge tour…….

You never know but I doubt it.

 

[Jasonmask]

shorty said "only the weird ones come and talk to you on the street". Which I find complete bullshyt, which is why I said you get what you attract.

I said that cause if shyt heads keep tryna holla at you and a stable regular guy doesnt, then its a reflection of what you puttin out there as a woman (attitude, clothing, looks etc.)

A dime or the shorty in work clothes can still get hit on by a shythead but how you carry yourself decreases the volume to an extent

I mean I agree with you but there’s also some truth to what the girl is saying. I’m not saying cold approaches are dead but you have to pick up on some choosing signals. A girl may be bold enough to straight up feel you up and say you look good and what’s your number and some are more subtle than that. They’ll walk in your vicinity extra slow or even ask you a bs question. Trust me all of this has happened to me verbatim these women are going to waste their time talking to random men for no reason, they’re interested. When I see what I like and just get the number I’ll get it but the day I text them nothing dead silence. Girls are afraid of what us men will do when rejected in public they’ve seen how a very small fraction of us react and they don’t want to die at the end of the day.

 

[Ohene]

I mean I agree with you but there’s also some truth to what the girl is saying. I’m not saying cold approaches are dead but you have to pick up on some choosing signals. A girl may be bold enough to straight up feel you up and say you look good and what’s your number and some are more subtle than that. They’ll walk in your vicinity extra slow or even ask you a bs question. Trust me all of this has happened to me verbatim these women are going to waste their time talking to random men for no reason, they’re interested. When I see what I like and just get the number I’ll get it but the day I text them nothing dead silence. Girls are afraid of what us men will do when rejected in public they’ve seen how a very small fraction of us react and they don’t want to die at the end of the day.

both yall missing the point

1. this idea that you are what you attract is bullshyt...just some cliche nonsense and @Bransdale's incomprehensible explanation is proof
2. she is probably just picky or anxious by default. there are surely some good men and some weirdos who approach her. the only thing that dictates whether or not a man will approach is how aggressive or confident he is. aggression and confidence is not exclusive to "weirdos".
3. some women, in fact most are receptive to cold approaches if they find the guy attractive and are single; she is probably just uncomfortable with it for her own reasons or a coward who prefers to control interactions - aka online/social media. Women like that tend to stay single.
4. Thats why online dating and instagram or shyt for meeting women. It puts the ball in the women's court and women are poor when it comes to being assertive or making decisions. A man's job is to be the aggressor/pursuer...not the other way around.

 

[Ohene]

If a woman is not interested, she simply shouldnt give out her number. I sympathize with the fact that some men cant take no for an answer and if that is the case then sure, give the number just to evade the situation.

Let's keep it real though, those kinds of losers are a far smaller percentage of the population. 9/10 dudes who actually have the balls and confidence to approach are going to keep it moving upon being rejected.

Also, I have said it here many times. A girl rejecting you doesnt even have to do anything with you as a man. There are numerous occasions where a girl rejected me one day and then gave me the number another - some that I eventually smashed too. I was literally out with a chick Sunday who I didnt realize I had holla'ed at 4-5 years ago. We were both wondering how we havent ran into each other before since we live in the same neighborhood; come to find out we had met before. I didnt realize until she told me she used to work at Saks in the Tom Ford section.

Moral of the story: 1) its a small world 2) rejection aint shyt; dont take it personally

 

[Brandsdale]

I mean I agree with you but there’s also some truth to what the girl is saying. I’m not saying cold approaches are dead but you have to pick up on some choosing signals. A girl may be bold enough to straight up feel you up and say you look good and what’s your number and some are more subtle than that. They’ll walk in your vicinity extra slow or even ask you a bs question. Trust me all of this has happened to me verbatim these women are going to waste their time talking to random men for no reason, they’re interested. When I see what I like and just get the number I’ll get it but the day I text them nothing dead silence. Girls are afraid of what us men will do when rejected in public they’ve seen how a very small fraction of us react and they don’t want to die at the end of the day.

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[Brandsdale]

lol forget it man

I'll shut up

 

[The ADD]

You're right that I shouldn't be insecure or have fear. Got to be confident and trust more but I believe as a man you got to beat that p*ssy out the frame or someone else will.

That's just my philosophy Why you think she puts up with me.. the D lol jk

Appreciate your advice, that's right just got to work on trust. Can't stifle her or be controlling, won't ever work.

You never know but I doubt it.

 

[Peter Popoff]

I remember in my single days having hoes that gave head this good....

 

[Redwood]

I remember in my single days having hoes that gave head this good....

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

I think this bytch caught me slipping. We matched on facebook dating and I thought I met her before so I searched her name on facebook and I accidentally watched one of her videos and I think she knew because I was unmatched like an hour later. It was just a reel not a story. Maybe she unmatched me anyway doesn't seem like a coincidence tho. she responded to my message then I looked at her profile and then she was gone lmao.

 

[Redwood]

I think this bytch caught me slipping. We matched on facebook dating and I thought I met her before so I searched her name on facebook and I accidentally watched one of her videos and I think she knew because I was unmatched like an hour later. It was just a reel not a story. Maybe she unmatched me anyway doesn't seem like a coincidence tho. she responded to my message then I looked at her profile and then she was gone lmao.

Onto the next breh