shyt honestly becomes exhausting. And I personally think that as a man, what makes it worse is that no matter the situation you are always considered to be at fault. "You blew it", "Why did you say that", "You should have called her instead", "Dont call, thats creepy", "You shouldve invited her over". "You invited her over too soon", "Apply pressure", "Don't chase". You're always doing too much or not doing enough.
I can go on and on. No matter the case...it is always YOU who dropped the ball and fukked up.
At this point I am prolly gonna stop discussing my escapades with friends altogether. shyt makes you feel like something is wrong with you
This is the truth and also why alot of guys don't even talk to their friends , family , about relationships because 9 times outta 10 regardless it's YOUR fault
"You didn't spend enough time with her"
"You didn't make enough money ".
"You don't have your shyt together "
"You should have vetted her better"
"You acted too insecure when she told you she taking a girl's trip"
"You wished her happy birthday "
"You made your move too fast "
"You moved too slow and lost interest "
"You made her uncomfortable bringing up sex"
"You argued back so she lost all respect "
"She started a argument and you ignored her
She lost all respect "
"You didn't listen to her"
"You supposed to listen but don't listen "
I'm like so what the fukk ?

It's like dating became such a mind fukk that it's a wonder people are tapping from that shyt.