Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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It's crazy right? I've gone out with a couple women from my gym, they were white. I caught a little heat from my female friend about it. I just shrugged it off. I like women that take care of their bodies. If they happen to be white, oh well.

I'm not going to say black women don't work out. I have a sister and she's making bank with the IRS. She'd rather buy her equipment and have it in her house to work out whenever rather than go to a gym. She use to run track in school. They are out there bruh. A lot of women, in fact, have their workout gear at home.

I'm not saying you're doing it, but I don't like black men making stuff up about black women to have an excuse to date outside the race. I don't have no problems dating chicks of another race, but I'm not going to sit here and blame anything on black women. They have been too good to me to do that. Bruhs, just date who you want.
 

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I'm not going to say black women don't work out. I have a sister and she's making bank with the IRS. She'd rather buy her equipment and have it in her house to work out whenever rather than go to a gym. She use to run track in school. They are out there bruh. A lot of women, in fact, have their workout gear at home.

I'm not saying you're doing it, but I don't like black men making stuff up about black women to have an excuse to date outside the race. I don't have no problems dating chicks of another race, but I'm not going to sit here and blame anything on black women. They have been too good to me to do that. Bruhs, just date who you want.

I hear you loud and clear. I was more interested in hearing some thoughts on why the numbers are off. I know you said that wasn't directed at me but it obviously was in some way because you quoted me. For the record, black women are my preference and always will be. However, I won't limit my dating pool. No excuses here fam. No need for them.
 

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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
Someone I know got married and his chick flipped a switch and now just talks greasy about him whether he's there or not. Just flat out emasculating him in front of people, dude is too laid back and doesn't check her so she just says whatever. He's got a felony charge on his record so he can't really get a great job and she knew that before she got with him, but now that they're married with a kid she just down talks this nikka. You ask them if they want to go out, and she'll talk like he's not even there and say some shyt like "Oh we can't go, cause he doesn't have any money" in such a shytty tone :scusthov:
 

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Someone I know got married and his chick flipped a switch and now just talks greasy about him whether he's there or not. Just flat out emasculating him in front of people, dude is too laid back and doesn't check her so she just says whatever. He's got a felony charge on his record so he can't really get a great job and she knew that before she got with him, but now that they're married with a kid she just down talks this nikka. You ask them if they want to go out, and she'll talk like he's not even there and say some shyt like "Oh we can't go, cause he doesn't have any money" in such a shytty tone :scusthov:

He'll wake-up eventually.... maybe. It's tough and I see it too often with co-workers but hey that's on them. You can't teach anyone that isn't ready to receive your knowledge.
 

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Someone I know got married and his chick flipped a switch and now just talks greasy about him whether he's there or not. Just flat out emasculating him in front of people, dude is too laid back and doesn't check her so she just says whatever. He's got a felony charge on his record so he can't really get a great job and she knew that before she got with him, but now that they're married with a kid she just down talks this nikka. You ask them if they want to go out, and she'll talk like he's not even there and say some shyt like "Oh we can't go, cause he doesn't have any money" in such a shytty tone :scusthov:

:smh:

I bet there's times he wants to walk out too, but because they have a kid it's not that easy and she knows this, hence why she's taking so many liberties. That shyt is extremely uncalled for. It's funny, because after my separation, when I've told people that I plan to remain celibate for a while and there's certain things I want to do with my life before I enter into another serious relationship like further my career and travel more, grow in knowledge, advance spiritually etc dudes are like :obama: while women always say shyt like "oh, but what if you meet a nice woman tomorrow are you just gonna turn her away" all defensively. It's almost as if they subconsciously feel threatened by the idea of any dude that wants to get his shyt together. There was another thread a while back with some posters saying single men who do them and remain bachelors are "selfish". That says it all.
 

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Now who else wanna fukk with Hollywood Court?
:smh:

I bet there's times he wants to walk out too, but because they have a kid it's not that easy and she knows this, hence why she's taking so many liberties. That shyt is extremely uncalled for. It's funny, because after my separation, when I've told people that I plan to remain celibate for a while and there's certain things I want to do with my life before I enter into another serious relationship like further my career and travel more, grow in knowledge, advance spiritually etc dudes are like :obama: while women always say shyt like "oh, but what if you meet a nice woman tomorrow are you just gonna turn her away" all defensively. It's almost as if they subconsciously feel threatened by the idea of any dude that wants to get his shyt together. There was another thread a while back with some posters saying single men who do them and remain bachelors are "selfish". That says it all.


I tell everyone if me and my girl go our separate ways, I'm pretty much done with having relationships. I don't have the patience to learn whether or not I'm compatible with someone again and will just have women for different needs with no real emotional bond taking place.
 

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I tell everyone if me and my girl go our separate ways, I'm pretty much done with having relationships. I don't have the patience to learn whether or not I'm compatible with someone again and will just have women for different needs with no real emotional bond taking place.

:manny: You gotta do what's right for you at the end of the day.
 

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I tell everyone if me and my girl go our separate ways, I'm pretty much done with having relationships. I don't have the patience to learn whether or not I'm compatible with someone again and will just have women for different needs with no real emotional bond taking place.

I reached that point a few years ago then last year finally withdrew myself from any social networking.

It's basically like having a saved like mass effect game, 40 hours in, suddenly your saved file is corrupted, do I really want to start over, learn all those skills etc again?

Nah

Sent from royalty breh
 

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I reached that point a few years ago then last year finally withdrew myself from any social networking.

It's basically like having a saved like mass effect game, 40 hours in, suddenly your saved file is corrupted, do I really want to start over, learn all those skills etc again?

Nah

Sent from royalty breh

so your saying that your just going to have friends with benefit type situations
 

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So a girl I've been talking to recently tried to shame me because I through her in the bushes for having another guy's name tatted on her neck... females man do they even try to see it from our POV? :snoop:

There's this chick who has been trying to get at me who has her ex tatted on her breast..she had the nerve to wear cleavage around me and than get mad when I pointed it out :snoop:
 
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Someone I know got married and his chick flipped a switch and now just talks greasy about him whether he's there or not. Just flat out emasculating him in front of people, dude is too laid back and doesn't check her so she just says whatever. He's got a felony charge on his record so he can't really get a great job and she knew that before she got with him, but now that they're married with a kid she just down talks this nikka. You ask them if they want to go out, and she'll talk like he's not even there and say some shyt like "Oh we can't go, cause he doesn't have any money" in such a shytty tone :scusthov:

Women willingly create the man they love to hate. Once she got dude 'locked down' and he sits there in a hen-pecked state, allowing her to run her mouth, the bad behavior only escalates. This is why men must never give up their authority and settle for disrespect from a woman.
 
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