lol, this shyt reminds me of Reincar's "get married brehs
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ROWAN PELLING'S SEX ADVICE: My wife's weight is a turn-off | Mail Online
ROWAN PELLING'S SEX ADVICE: My wife's weight is a turn-off | Mail Online
Ohms Law
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This really ticked me off. I guess it's because women are expected by society to maintain a standard of beauty their entire lives and never age. Yes, I work out- my husband is quite a few years younger than me, so I do try because he's the spitting image of Joe Manganiello (he gets told that by other women ALL the timeBut I'll be damned if I'm going to knock myself out trying to keep up with him. When he signed up for the deal it was because he knew that beauty DOES fade. It just does. Thankfully he's made it clear to me daily that our love goes beyond 'looks'. I blame a superficial culture for the sorry state of relationships today. My parents were married 60 years - and were lovingly devoted long after looks and health gave out.
This really ticked me off. I guess it's because women are expected by society to maintain a standard of beauty their entire lives and never age. Yes, I work out- my husband is quite a few years younger than me, so I do try because he's the spitting image of Joe Manganiello (he gets told that by other women ALL the time But I'll be damned if I'm going to knock myself out trying to keep up with him. When he signed up for the deal it was because he knew that beauty DOES fade. It just does. Thankfully he's made it clear to me daily that our love goes beyond 'looks'. I blame a superficial culture for the sorry state of relationships today. My parents were married 60 years - and were lovingly devoted long after looks and health gave out.
To my knowledge there is no actual disease that completely prevents someone from being healthy and in shape even into old age. There should be no reason why Betty White looks to be in better shape than Rosie O Donnel.
This whole "looks and health gave out" mindset needs to go out. 9 times out of 10 it is due to laziness. I guess technically we could forgive it more if this was back in the day decades ago because our health system was not as good........but here NOW in 2013 folks still living by that "beauty does fade" idea of giving up.
My wife of 20 years has put on weight but I love her to the bone. She tells me I must be very secure not to have flapped over her weight gain and guess I must be...She takes care of herself extra pounds and all. She's mine foreva! (I hope)...
Take care of herself extra pounds and all.......Isn't that an oxymoron?
"She tells me". Lame ass simp. Have some self respect.
Originally Posted by kevm3
if you got a decent man, then do it. why would any man with sense look down on his woman doing something positive for him?
Originally posted by illadope
True. It's just a "token of appreciation" type of thing. He works hard and deserves a break b4 shipping off to Afghanistan...
Days later after the comment about the same guy who "deserves a break b4 shipping off to Afghanistan" , starts boasting about his woman being into him
if you got a decent man, then do it. why would any man with sense look down on his woman doing something positive for him?
Originally posted by illadope
True. It's just a "token of appreciation" type of thing. He works hard and deserves a break b4 shipping off to Afghanistan...
Days later after the comment about the same guy who "deserves a break b4 shipping off to Afghanistan" , starts boasting about his woman being into him
Yuzo Lightheart
Rookie
yeah thats what i thought it all really boiled down to. basically what she really wanted was power. she wanted everything to be about what she wanted with no intention to sacrifice her wants to another. the ultimatum was simple: my way or the highway. she wanted to have the power. she wanted to be the man.
its sentiments like that which when allowed to go un checked ultimately go on to create a matriarchal society where the women are the new men
CrossBones
Louder than words
this is 100, and I see that all the time, and its mostly the truth. the main reason why a man can have a lot of sex and be called a stud, while a woman can have a lot of sex and be a slut is because it takes a certain amount of game to be a stud, while a woman can open up her legs and really do nothing to get laid by whomever, and whenever she wants.
in general terms, that is. not across the board, but in many cases this is true.
so since the way its told to us that you need to have a lot going for yourself in order to get attention, it shows that its a much tougher challenge to get a woman interested in you as a prospect than it is for a woman to get a man interested in her. they only have to look the part, while men who want to be taken seriously have to put in the work.
whether hustling, working out constantly, having a good career, a nice car and crib, whatever. thats all adding to your value.
in other words, its subtly reinforced that the man must be of a higher value than the woman. with all of that, then we are supposed to bow down and cater to her whims, and put up with her mess to be called "a real man." thats the catch. that she will only like a man who makes more than her, has emotions in control, and is smarter than her (because if youre not, youre more like a bytch and she will lose her respect for you)
society tells you that once you have built yourself up, you then have to submit and kneel to a woman, who becomes the prize in your life. even hearing the president talk like that is absurd to me.
the thing is though, if everything that you do is to make you of a higher value, then why would you stress yourself over some random, dumb assed chicks who are of lesser value? why would you be fighting each other and competing to look better, and toiling to get these high standards of achievement and the gaining of rediculous titles just to say that now theyll be all over me? arent they even more interchangable for you at this point? and why work on improving yourself if its all for another person? why let someone have that much power over you? so what happens when she leaves, do you lose your own self worth and self esteem? why thirst over them, simp to them, and give up your pride and strengths in order to please them for what will turn out to be a limited amount of time?
the point is, if you want to acheive the kind of life that you want, you need to have yourself in order. and choose your path only for yourself
take the wifey out of the picture, THEN see how she fits in, once you have it straight. have yourself right and be living how you should be. not for anyone else, but for your own happiness. if not, then you become stuck in someone elses idea of what "youre supposed to be like" and thinking about making someone else happy, when that is something that they have to do, and find for themselves. you cant make someone happy, you can only appease them for a short period of time. thats why you need a girl who already has herself together if you want to take her serious.
and then once you have a partner like that, then you can go ahead and coexist. now youre on the same page. if you are only trying to make someone else happy, you will fail and make yourself miserable at the same time. a persons happiness is in their own power.
self improvement should be a priority for yourself and your future, moreso than just finding a woman who will now come around. now that she sees you shining, and thinks youre the best. her loyalty is never guaranteed, so to hinge so much of your own value and happiness to her can be dangerous. make sure that youre not toiling, and busting your ass for a woman or an image, but for yourself.
self improvement and a sense of self satisfaction will lead to women regardless, so make sure that its done your way, and not just to look better in the eyes of people who you are supposed to impress.
for once you respect yourself and act right your mindframe changes and youre not concerned with putting someone over you. your girl will either fit in, or get kicked out to the curb.
men have to realize how much power is in their hands in this very moment, and to always be fully aware of that throughout their lives. make sure your interactions always demonstrate that youre in charge. because ultimately, you are.
and dont take shyt from a female, especially. walk it like you talk it, and live on your self respect and goals.
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such delusional behavior. This thread blew up over the weekend.DaRealness
I think very deeply
Age is no excuse at all. I always refer people to Annette Lawkins when they come out with that nonsense. Everybody's got a reason to not be healthy and letting themselves go, but have the money and the time to go be shoe shopping and all other kinds of nonsense that are just as time consuming.
I don't expect a woman to still be physically attracted to me if I let myself go, so it's unreasonable for them to expect men to still be attracted to them when they do.
Poh SIti Dawn
Staying Positive, Getting Better Everyday. Holler!
As a man, should you have everything in your hands as far as dates go? Say a chick wants to hangout on a certain day, do you text her telling her the time and such, or do you wait for her to text you?
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
What's funny is those fat women proclaiming their husbands should love them no matter what would be on the next thing smoking if those men lost their ability to provide. There is no such thing as unconditional love. That's just some garbage concocted by the media, and jewelry stores. The closest thing to unconditional love is the relationship between a parent, and their child. That is, if the parent has raised that child. Love itself is very conditional and those women are foolish for thinking otherwise.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
You don't text. You call her and cement the details. Have a direction that you want the evening to go in before you call. Take the experience into your hands and set the pace.