Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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yea i mean she never directly said she liked me but i could gauge that she did like me by her actions and things she said ...

what about her fb ? should i delete that ish or what ?

nah just never talk to her again....indifference is better than reaction
 

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Yeah you're right, I guess I'm just always feeling like things have to be perfect, if I meet a girl she has to be the 1 or I can't waste time. I guess I'm scared.
fukk it you ain't perfect just let whats going to happen happen. You probably done put in the work so you know who is worth your time. Don't be scarred you could be missing out on some good people
 

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I'm giving serious thought to avoiding women that engage in social networking. It just seems like some of them are too far gone, and disconnected from reality. I went out with a woman that couldn't stop talking about Twitter, and Instagram. It was like she was speaking a different language. Just a thought.

Also as a sidenote; Am I the only one that seems to notice the disproportionate numbers between black women and white women that work out? I go to two gyms depending on what I'm looking to get done that day. I barely ever see any black women there. Plenty of dudes from all ethnicities working towards their goals but as far as the opposite sex it's mostly white women. The black women I do see there are usually building for a body competition.
 

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I'm giving serious thought to avoiding women that engage in social networking. It just seems like some of them are too far gone, and disconnected from reality. I went out with a woman that couldn't stop talking about Twitter, and Instagram. It was like she was speaking a different language. Just a thought.

Also as a sidenote; Am I the only one that seems to notice the disproportionate numbers between black women and white women that work out? I go to two gyms depending on what I'm looking to get done that day. I barely ever see any black women there. Plenty of dudes from all ethnicities working towards their goals but as far as the opposite sex it's mostly white women. The black women I do see there are usually building for a body competition.


Ive been going to the same gym for like 4 years now, about 4 days a week, real talk, today was the first day i seen a blk woman in there in months. I see more middle age (ie 50 yr old white women) more so than blk women of any age
 

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Ive been going to the same gym for like 4 years now, about 4 days a week, real talk, today was the first day i seen a blk woman in there in months. I see more middle age (ie 50 yr old white women) more so than blk women of any age

It's crazy right? I've gone out with a couple women from my gym, they were white. I caught a little heat from my female friend about it. I just shrugged it off. I like women that take care of their bodies. If they happen to be white, oh well.
 

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What is it with woman and boasting about they are the "most intelligent" in terms of rationality?

:mindblown:

What "intelligent" race would keep doing things even when there are glaring signs that it cannot be done.

Example.............







At my college campus, when I am sitting down in breaks sometimes, i see dozens and dozens of women back and forth looking for a bathroom(different females every time) and always going up to the CLOSED door that says "women FACULTY" and trying to open it.........





:mindblown:





I can count probably only 5 times total in 2 years that I have seen MEN do that for the male faculty door.
 

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women love text buddies

i keep everything to a max, the k, allright, im fine etc.

and i dont talk on the phone either, chicks odnt want to have a 1 on one conversation anymore, they would rather text 10 guys at once, or talk on the phone to a guy while they skyping and ish

Yeah pretty much. Men got to watch out about sitting around chatting with women all day, being their little talk buddies. Time is valuable. Make a move with babygirl or get off the phone. All of those long, drawn out conversations for no reason will just have babygirl devaluing you.
 

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So a girl I've been talking to recently tried to shame me because I through her in the bushes for having another guy's name tatted on her neck... females man do they even try to see it from our POV? :snoop:
 
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I'm originally from Ny. Hooking up means sex there.

Okay, whenever I use it or have someone else use it i always ask just to make sure cause it's not really concrete , it's an ambiguous term which is why people weren't sure in the first place when i typed it
 

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@His_Excellence_Reincar @kevm3

So a girl I've been talking to recently tried to shame me because I through her in the bushes for having another guy's name tatted on her neck... females man do they even try to see it from our POV? :snoop:

Naw man, these women don't have any realistic concept of self-worth because their brains have been inflated by simps. Even though you personally wouldn't accept her, there's a flood of men out there who would.
 
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Yeah, exactly. I feel as if there's a mutual attraction then the conversation should go great, or at least slowly develop and if there isn't then it won't.

But how do you feel about the idea of 2 people being attracted to each other but aren't able to like converse properly. Do you keep working at it day by day or do you just leave it be and accept the fact that you didn't vibe the first time. Remember first impressions are everything, or so they say.
i'd keep working at it if i see that she also is making an effort to connect with me. And ironically that means we do have something in common (a common goal). first impressions can be a lot. but i disagree with saying that they are "everything". If i'm attracted to her and i feel like she's attracted to me and sincerely trying to get to know me (showing interest in who i am) then i'd feel she's worth the effort of working at it and it might feel like a challenge but at least she's showing she's my partner or team member in conquering that challenge. if she's acting like it's your job to make it happen then maybe she isn't worth it :ld:

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Yeah, good advice. This actually happened to me, a girl smiled at me so I stopped and spoke to her and realized she was in one of my classes that I was in. I felt like the convo went decent, I ended it shortly tho, but question is how would you follow up with something like that? Randomly running into a girl, speaking with her, and then going about your day. Do you just let it be, hope to see her again, or just ask for her number right then and there?
don't hope. "hoping" you run into her again fukks with your mindset because it makes you needy and the next time you'll see her you'll feel even more pressure. if you would like to stay in contact with her, ask for her number (and who knows, she might ask you first). but in your situation, if you have a class with her, it's not like you don't have time to get to know her a little more before asking (or offering) the digits.
Damn good advice, lead the conversation. I think it all makes sense now, just can't approach everyone the same you've really got to make yourself aware of your intentions
don't approach all girls the same but don't change yourself too much to cater to the girl cause then your goal becomes to "gain acceptance from the girl". Approach each moment differently but remain yourself regardless of the girl because the goal is to figure out if you're compatible with the girl, not to make yourself compatible to her. at least that's my opinion.
 

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@His_Excellence_Reincar @kevm3

So a girl I've been talking to recently tried to shame me because I through her in the bushes for having another guy's name tatted on her neck... females man do they even try to see it from our POV? :snoop:

breh i dont even talk to women with any tattoos.

:obama:
 
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What do you guys think about women with children? I know we see all of the threads about them but I never really hear your opinions

Here's the thing. When you have a single mother, that child is either the most important person in her life or she is a bad mother. Every activity has to be scheduled around the kid. She can't go out spontaneously without making plans for the kid. Its not a good situation for a young guy without kids to be in because she won't be able to give him the proper attention.

And if you are in a serious relationship with a single mother, you will have to play some sort of a fatherly role. Even if the child's father is still an active parent. I've got nothing against the guys who will step up and do that, but I'm not at all prepared to play that role.
 
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