Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

I cant front....I was dumped similar to Reincar. I loved a woman for about a year.The thing was...she was a churchgirl.Attended Sun,Wed,Thurs. I honestly didnt see the signs.As time went on things change big time... The naggin,complaining.The big mistake I made was being nice and not wanting to break her heart,I didnt know HOW to break up with her.Its like being on a job and not wanting to QUIT wth your pride and look for another job. One day I get a text with a happy face and im like cool. 3-4 hours later im watching the game (this is an important fact). She sends me the text...."we are growing apart and my feelings arent there anymore" etc.... Notice I put watching the game. My ex knew I love sports.It was to the point where I wanted to watch Super Bowl with no interuptions from her. Thats why if a woman knows you love something and is your passion and she isnt involved,. She will use it against you as a weapon.So Immedately when I got the text...I was on some angry steeze.Couldnt sleep for a night,upset at work...but I quickly regained my composure.I prayed it off,it was like a cool calmness over me.The first day or so I was upset.The next day I took down the pics,all other stuff.Fast forward to 2 weeks later. She comes to my school.... and this was when women were flocking to me for some reason. Maybe they sense my freedom So she comes to my school on some "Baby I miss you,I hope you ok". She tries to woo her way back in.I immediately said "Its a wrap" and then she texts me on some "You've changed".I ignored the text and changed my # now im winning as a single man. 3 main keys

1.Always listen to a female family member when it comes to women

2.Never tell a woman your 100% passion and love.

3.Never be too available..... be inconsistent when it comes to communication

Haven't read all of this yet. It the first few sentences caught my eye, I've also been there not wanting to be with someone but scared of breaking their heart so I gutted it out only then to be dumped, I always say every red flag feeling in your stomach is signs to get out now.


Edit read the rest and yep just like what I mentioned before never let a woman know your passion or what you love.

I mentioned the mini putt thing before chick knew I loved mini putt and just to rub it in my face brought her new bf on the same day I went mini putt.

Remember once Delihah found Samson's strength was his hair he was destroyed.

I remember years ago my boy was dating this chick for like 3 years the day before he was to write his lstat his chick dumped him and he failed horrible. This chick couldn't even wait one more day she knew how much he studied for it and how much it meant to him.



And I also agree listen to females in your fam, the same reason we can tell edgy off the bat a man is fake, women can tell the same.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Haven't read all of this yet. It the first few sentences caught my eye, I've also been there not wanting to be with someone but scared of breaking their heart so I gutted it out only then to be dumped, I always say every red flag feeling in your stomach is signs to get out now.

Yea I learned over the years.Never ignore your gut. Alot of people use LOVE instea of LOGIC. Thinking with your heart is bad.But Im glad it happen that way now Im wiser...

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

if your texting first all the time..you sharing that girl

 

[Ohene]

if your texting first all the time..you sharing that girl

@ The beginning...I give it 3 times in a row max. after that...bounced

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

@ The beginning...I give it 3 times in a row max. after that...bounced

i noticed myself always texting this chick on some simp shyt

then recently just stopped texting..just went cold

then 3 weeks later she replies

"hey how are you? do you wanna hangout?"


i looked and deleted that shyt with quickness..bytch would reply to my text after 72hrs


now i feel free

 

[Ohene]

mmhmm. Texting is a whole nother thread breh.

It baffles me how one can text you to start a conversation in the afternoon...you reply within 20 minutes...then the bytch replies later to you when youre already sleeping. Have you waking up in the morning to a a couple messages like See the bytch reply to you at like 1:00 AM

These bytches will use that excuse, "I dont look at my phone a lot especially when I'm busy" yet when I'm on the train and shyt I see a plethora of girls looking at their phone constantly

Only time I have noticed girls dont look is when I am out with them and this is only the bytches that are really digging me. So what conclusion can I draw? The bytch is out with a next dude...or playing "games"...aka you need to bounce her.

 

[Coast'in]

Originally Posted by C.Holla
I cant front....I was dumped similar to Reincar. I loved a woman for about a year.The thing was...she was a churchgirl.Attended Sun,Wed,Thurs. I honestly didnt see the signs.As time went on things change big time... The naggin,complaining.The big mistake I made was being nice and not wanting to break her heart,I didnt know HOW to break up with her.Its like being on a job and not wanting to QUIT wth your pride and look for another job. One day I get a text with a happy face and im like cool. 3-4 hours later im watching the game (this is an important fact). She sends me the text...."we are growing apart and my feelings arent there anymore" etc.... Notice I put watching the game. My ex knew I love sports.It was to the point where I wanted to watch Super Bowl with no interuptions from her. Thats why if a woman knows you love something and is your passion and she isnt involved,. She will use it against you as a weapon.So Immedately when I got the text...I was on some angry steeze.Couldnt sleep for a night,upset at work...but I quickly regained my composure.I prayed it off,it was like a cool calmness over me.The first day or so I was upset.The next day I took down the pics,all other stuff.Fast forward to 2 weeks later. She comes to my school.... and this was when women were flocking to me for some reason. Maybe they sense my freedom So she comes to my school on some "Baby I miss you,I hope you ok". She tries to woo her way back in.I immediately said "Its a wrap" and then she texts me on some "You've changed".I ignored the text and changed my # now im winning as a single man. 3 main keys

1.Always listen to a female family member when it comes to women

2.Never tell a woman your 100% passion and love.

3.Never be too available..... be inconsistent when it comes to communication

Haven't read all of this yet. It the first few sentences caught my eye, I've also been there not wanting to be with someone but scared of breaking their heart so I gutted it out only then to be dumped, I always say every red flag feeling in your stomach is signs to get out now.


Edit read the rest and yep just like what I mentioned before never let a woman know your passion or what you love.

I mentioned the mini putt thing before chick knew I loved mini putt and just to rub it in my face brought her new bf on the same day I went mini putt.

Remember once Delihah found Samson's strength was his hair he was destroyed.

I remember years ago my boy was dating this chick for like 3 years the day before he was to write his lstat his chick dumped him and he failed horrible. This chick couldn't even wait one more day she knew how much he studied for it and how much it meant to him.



And I also agree listen to females in your fam, the same reason we can tell edgy off the bat a man is fake, women can tell the same.

Both these post speak volumes to me! I work in sports and have been every since I started college, it's my passion. My ex girl knew this and always used it against me. I would be tied up with my work duties and she would always say your not doing work you hanging with some female I just kept trying to please her. And in turn got me off task. She would call me over and over while I was at work then try to argue wit me if I picked up. Had the people I work wit like Fast forward now she just had a baby by the new dude she is engaged to.

I really only talk to woman now that have an athletic background because they know how much work is involved in sports business realm.

 

[MikelArteta]

Another thing with the whole high quality women thing and being a high quality male

It's like buying a car, a rich successfull man can afford a Ferrari just because it's a Ferrari doesn't mean it won't break down or get in a accident the same how a civic or Mercedes wouldn't. Because they are all cars and no car is 100 percent liable.

You can choose a car that past every test, always been dependable, is there for you rain or snow sickness or in health but one day that can all change regardless of the make or model.

. You can do everything right maintenance, take good care of it only premium stuff, and still it can go caput.

to a woman and you see what I'm saying.

If a women stays beside you when you lose your job that is a damn good rare women

 

[MikelArteta]

I never iniatate with females, they will break they all do.

If im on a date with a chick, I'll give her one text I know how ladies are, their friends are you ok is he cute?

And that's it

A female constantly texting I will get up and leave .

 

[Mr. Pink]

I remember years ago my boy was dating this chick for like 3 years the day before he was to write his lstat his chick dumped him and he failed horrible. This chick couldn't even wait one more day she knew how much he studied for it and how much it meant to him.

Some venomous c*nts out there!

 

[sixsixtwo]

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[winb83]

Something I had to learn the hard way is always maintain enough distance to be able to make a clean break from a woman. Never get your life so intertwined with hers to the point that the break becomes messy. It doesn't matter how you feel about a woman at any given moment someday the day may come where you need to go your separate ways and if you know the break will become messy it will become an excuse not to do it.

 

[winb83]

I disagree, women and some men shame men that speaking out against women you are labeled a misogynist, bitter, angry.

I think men are waking up and now have a outlet to cent their frustration at the lack of morals in today modern women.


Te bible states who can find a virtuous woman for her price is above rubies.

8, 9s and 10s, will mess up just like the 4s and 5s, you can get a "good woman", and all it takes is one blemish and boom.

Like I've stated I've been engaged my ex fiancé was beautiful, righteous, virtuous, educated and had morals for 99.9 percent of the time we were together all it took was one blip and boom.

Just like a man who is married for 20 years faithful loving, and his wife strays she was faithful dime for 20 years is it the mans fault for not knowing he picked a woman who would stray after 20 years?



It doesn't matter how "higher quality" you are yes you attract better lookin females look wise but trait wise?

You can be a poor ass man yet still get a high quality woman she may not look like Esther Baxter she may be average but with a heart of gold.

If you're a guy that doesn't have your shyt together and you meet a high quality woman how long are you gonna possibly be able to keep her before she notices?

There is a difference between bashing women and general observations of common character flaws many women share. Some guys got hurt and it made them bitter so they bash women constantly. That's entirely different than a guy that's experienced enough women to know the games they play and call them out for it.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

If your umemployed for a long period of time and your woman has never complained she is a keeper. Oh another thing is never ever take $$ from a female. This will come back and bite you. If you constantly take from her....she will use it against you.It;s best to go broke and have your pride,then to take $$ or depend from your woman.Because as we all know once you take $$ from her,she will keep offering and you will keep taking and then issues will arise.

 

[MikelArteta]

If your umemployed for a long period of time and your woman has never complained she is a keeper. Oh another thing is never ever take $$ from a female. This will come back and bite you. If you constantly take from her....she will use it against you.It;s best to go broke and have your pride,then to take $$ or depend from your woman.Because as we all know once you take $$ from her,she will keep offering and you will keep taking and then issues will arise.

Yep there is actually a stat that 75 percent of women won't date a dude without a job.


75 Percent of Women Say They Won't Date Unemployed Men - Yahoo! News