Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

One thing men need to do is lose that fear of being offensive to that woman. Don't be on some ol weirdo tip, but stop trying to regulate your opinions and tastes on whether or not she will like it. Don't be afraid to ask a woman to do something. Women LIKE to serve a man that they really respect. One of the problems a lot of men have when they got a woman doing a little something for them is they like to start showing off or starting throwing their ego around... Don't be afraid to tell your woman to go to the store and get you something to drink or to make you a sandwich... but then don't go clowning and giggling with your boys when she does, talking about I RUN my woman. You got to appreciate those who decide to undertake your leadership and stop clowning... because what does that really say about you that you are laughing when someone follows your instructions? That you're a joke? It shouldn't be a big deal if your woman listens to what you say and follows your orders. That's what she's supposed to do, just like you're supposed to be a man at all times and make her feel safe and protected.

Stop being afraid to be a leader and have things for your woman to do. This ol' feminism movement and the men that follow behind it got men afraid to be men and have them tip-toeing. Does it mean be a dictator? Naw, but when you have something important you need her to do, let her know what needs to be done. Don't be apologetic for being a man. Lay it down real.

Let me drop something real for ya'll. You're not supposed to be a man that does what a woman likes. You're supposed to be the man that marinates with the women that like what you do. Take some time to understand that right there.

 

[kevm3]

Here's some external tips
1) Shoes matter
You can get away with non namebrand shirts and jeans, but you can't get away with cheap shoes. Now it DOES help your perception if you might have that RL shirt on with certain women, but they WILL be looking at your shoes. Your shoes should not be dirty and if it's sneakers, nikes, especially jordans work...

Remember, it's all about perception. If you have busted and disgusted looking shoes, she's going to think you're a dirty dude.

2) Keep your castle in order and keep your ship well-maintained.
When you're in your car, you're the captain, so make sure your car is clean. You're not only advertising to the woman you are currently dealing with, but also to women you are driving past. You don't have to have the most fly ride, but you need to keep yours clean and shining. Keep your house in order and have house rules. Take your shoes off when you enter, no smoking in the house, etc. Don't have all these clothes laying around, etc. Besides just being part of manhood, aka maintaining YOURS, it dramatically improves your perception. Nobody wants to be in a nasty house and nobody wants to roll in a stanking car.

 

[iMajor]

Yeah be respectable and presentable at any moments notice out in public. And don't front if you are nice in public but a grinch in the house cut that sht out that's not cool or keeping it 100. Don't let that girl fall into a facade. Maintain who you are throughout. This doesn't mean you won't have bad days or what not. But don't heckl and jyde.

 

[T-K-G]

Brehs i think this thread been going on too long, nikkas recycling stuff now




bring some groundbreaking shyt to the table or just off of what's already here

 

[kevm3]

Yeah be respectable and presentable at any moments notice out in public. And don't front if you are nice in public but a grinch in the house cut that sht out that's not cool or keeping it 100. Don't let that girl fall into a facade. Maintain who you are throughout. This doesn't mean you won't have bad days or what not. But don't heckl and jyde.

I agree with that. Keep it consistent. That's one of the top keys. Now, you will react differently depending on how she reacts. You might be cool as the breeze if she's acting right and then show her you don't play if she screws around, but if you just switch up personalities, then that's weirdo behavior. But yeah, if you got all these different personalities, then that ain't what it is.

Another thing men got to learn is PACING. One of my biggest mistakes in the early days is that I would hit a woman with an atomic bomb when she first met me. Hit her with my best convo, and just put my absolute best foot forward. When she gets all of your best up front, you won't do nothing but go downhill after that. Honestly, I would say hit a woman with your B game up front... Hit her with that version of you that you can maintain without having to strain. You always want her to be able to dig into even more flyness. If you hit her with all of your best bombs up front, when she gets to know you more and more, you're not going to have any of that left over for her. Your b-game, aka your consistent, every-day game, should be fly, but you should only reward a woman that shows interest in that with your a game. If she really shows she's digging you, that's when you start hitting her with bombs here and there. We ain't here to impress no woman. We're here to find the woman that us impressed by what we do... with that said, ALWAYS make sure a woman has something to look forward to. A hungry woman is one that is ready to grind.

 

[iMajor]

Breh I completely hear you on that. I used to stay trying to impress these broads with the best version of me. Especially when it comes to my knowledge about sht. I am a casual dresser so it's not often you see my best clothes but I used to give girls my best game and that's a burner because if you get rejected it becomes something mental and can mess up with your psyche. If you know you're reaching for that apple it's better to fall back and stand on safe ground. They say a girl will know whether she likes you, wants to be your friend, or smash in the first like 5-15 secs of meeting y'all. So it's not about getting her to like you it's about manifesting an attraction that will linger in her mind for you.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Stop going out of your way to make plans with a chick, especially if you ain't smashin..all this calling her and seeing if she wants to go out to eat and shiit is nonsense..let her make the first move for once to plan something..if she doesn't, on to the next.

 

[dangerranger]

Stop going out of your way to make plans with a chick, especially if you ain't smashin..all this calling her and seeing if she wants to go out to eat and shiit is nonsense..let her make the first move for once to plan something..if she doesn't, on to the next.

Question though, how are you suppose to progress with her if she's not the type to initiate something? Some girls just think the guy should make the first move?

 

[kevm3]

Question though, how are you suppose to progress with her if she's not the type to initiate something? Some girls just think the guy should make the first move?

Well, as a man you should expect to make the move. The difference is if you have to go out of your way... she's showing little interest in you and you have to do things out of the ordinary to impress her. That's the kind of woman you don't deal with.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Question though, how are you suppose to progress with her if she's not the type to initiate something? Some girls just think the guy should make the first move?

Well, as a man you should expect to make the move. The difference is if you have to go out of your way... she's showing little interest in you and you have to do things out of the ordinary to impress her. That's the kind of woman you don't deal with.

To add on to what Kev said, Basically if she's not even making any attempt to show interest in you (not even calling you), but you're on the other end always hitting her up to go give her a free meal than that's out of line..Women will take advantage of your kindness.

 

[Sharp]

To add on, in the long run, a chick will respect consistency. We put too much effort into trying to impress women. If she wasn't feeling you in some capacity she probably wouldn't have either bothered to go out with you. Ponder on that.

 

[Akuma]

Trust this small piece of advice might save you from unnecessary lawyer fees, investigations, drama and/or paternity tests.

If a woman you have been dealing with in an extended relationship or acquaintance has completely disappeared from your company for more than 28 days, you have to DROP HER FROM YOUR TEAM COLD BLOODED. Any thing in life that is a true priority will not leave you uninformed for 4 weeks and then pop back up unannounced unless something is awry.

4 weeks AWOL, no call, no show, no explanation = KEEP IT MOVING

Just a small but important rule of thumb if you are trying to gauge the max time (if that) to give a female their "space" or she "has a lot going on right now". Let her re-establish contact with you for 28 days straight before you consider letting her back in or touching it again, but PROCEED WITH EXTREME CAUTION.

 

[Ohene]

one would think that is obvious...but tell us breh

ielaborate on the story behind this

 

[Juliano Soprano]

XIV. fukk her good

fukk her like it’s your last fukk. And hers. fukk her so good, so hard, so wantonly, so profligately that she is left a quivering, sparking mass of shaking flesh and sex fluids. Drain her of everything, then drain her some more. Kiss her all over, make love to her all night, and hold her close in the morning. Own her body, own her gratitude, own her love. If you don’t know how, learn to give her squirting orgasms.

This shyt makes me wanna go fukk something right now

I'ma change this up a bit and make it into a poem for my Jumpoffs as a birthday gift

 

[Akuma]

one would think that is obvious...but tell us breh

ielaborate on the story behind this

This Mexican cat from college had a girl that vanished for 5 weeks with no text, IM, e-mail, or calls which is rare for her. He was so astonished by her absence that he rushed to take her back without asking questions.

She was wanted for murder charges in another state for a botched home invasion/kidnapping (she opened the door while the dude was asleep, cops pulled her phone records), her other side of her family snitched on her to plea deal for the cousins who actually did the dirt, and the creepy part is the dude who fell victim resembled exactly like the Mexican cat. It was like she was carrying so much guilt the whole time and she went and dated the same exact type of dude!

4 WEEKS AWOL = PROCEED WITH EXTREME CAUTION!