Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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My mid twenties.

ahh ok, makes sense.

Yeah breh don't waste this time of your life lol. Bush the chick and keep working on yourself. You compromise on things like letting her watch her tv show or something lol, you don't compromise on sex. You do all this waiting and finally get it and its trash, then what?
 

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According to her she is a literal virgin.




It's funny you mentioned that, she is very religious (doesn't even curse) and has a health condition I know about that may make sex painful for her however she told me that was not the reason behind not wanting to have sex. She says it's cause it's what "God" wants her to do however without going into too much detail she would jack me off occasionally and she does get real horny around me so I don't think interest is a problem here. I mean we be getting so hot and bothered I sucked her titty in the park a few times. She just won't let get my dikk wet or rub her clit but she be horny, moaning and all that :mjcry:

Either way though I think I'm just gonna dead the relationship with her soon, I'll think about it cause when times are good it's good but too many bad times. The crazy shyt is this may sound weird but I don't even mind waiting for sex but everything else is fukked up in our relationship which doesn't make it worth it.

That bytch ain't no mother theresa :mjlol:
my nikka she probably bustin' it open and getting fukked by another dude :laff: she playin' you and you believe that fake ass religious shyt she pushing.
 

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What’s up with all these simps ending up on dateline taking out a girl :gucci:




1,000,000,000 women on this earth but there are 10000 episodes of dudes simping taking lives and wasting theirs
 

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Had this chick that I really don't take that seriously who has a lot of personal relationship issues going on in your life ask if she can come over out the blue as if I'm supposed to be available whenever.

It don't even matter if I'm not doing anything. I like not doing anything. It's relaxing. I don't always feel like hosting people.

What it really is, is she's going through it with her main dude (as she always is) and trying to latch on to me. And he's a piece of work himself.

But that's what happens when you not properly trained from a young age to know what type of man to go for, or how to act. Cuz she's messy and immature herself. In a lot of ways.

:yeshrug:
 

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Telling me if im overreacting or not

so been going out with my girl for almost 2 years now. She has three sisters. One is married, one engaged, one single. Anyways the one who got engaged got engaged a few days ago and now they all wanted to go out play some games and then go for dinner so cool.

So after the games we get to the restaurant and ofc we gotta sit at two table cuz of covid and theres 7 of us. My girl and me and her single sister get there together. The engaged couple were already there at a table and were all over each other. My girl and her sister had to use the washroom so i decided to sit at the empty table cuz i knew i did not wanna sit with the engaged couple when they were all over each other.

so my girl and her sister come back and her sister goes to the other table. My girls stands in front of the table im at and then goes and sits with the other group leaving me alone sitting there.

honestly im pissed and embarrassed like im sitting here all alone and you really gonna leave me alone and not even sit with me or ask me to join you guys or anything? On top of that not like she went there to say hi and then come back she literally took her coat off and sat down didnt even look back.

then i realize her sisters are telling her to sit with me and she comes and sits down. I ignore her. She asks am i mad and i say no. She says am i mad cuz she didnt sit with me and i say im not mad. Wanted to go home at this point but didnt wanna ruin the engaged couples night.

now my girl texting me why am i mad, am i mad blah blah blah.

do i have a reason to be mad or am i overreacting
 

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Had this chick that I really don't take that seriously who has a lot of personal relationship issues going on in your life ask if she can come over out the blue as if I'm supposed to be available whenever.

It don't even matter if I'm not doing anything. I like not doing anything. It's relaxing. I don't always feel like hosting people.

What it really is, is she's going through it with her main dude (as she always is) and trying to latch on to me. And he's a piece of work himself.

But that's what happens when you not properly trained from a young age to know what type of man to go for, or how to act. Cuz she's messy and immature herself. In a lot of ways.

:yeshrug:
dont get involved with her breh :mjlol:
 

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Telling me if im overreacting or not

so been going out with my girl for almost 2 years now. She has three sisters. One is married, one engaged, one single. Anyways the one who got engaged got engaged a few days ago and now they all wanted to go out play some games and then go for dinner so cool.

So after the games we get to the restaurant and ofc we gotta sit at two table cuz of covid and theres 7 of us. My girl and me and her single sister get there together. The engaged couple were already there at a table and were all over each other. My girl and her sister had to use the washroom so i decided to sit at the empty table cuz i knew i did not wanna sit with the engaged couple when they were all over each other.

so my girl and her sister come back and her sister goes to the other table. My girls stands in front of the table im at and then goes and sits with the other group leaving me alone sitting there.

honestly im pissed and embarrassed like im sitting here all alone and you really gonna leave me alone and not even sit with me or ask me to join you guys or anything? On top of that not like she went there to say hi and then come back she literally took her coat off and sat down didnt even look back.

then i realize her sisters are telling her to sit with me and she comes and sits down. I ignore her. She asks am i mad and i say no. She says am i mad cuz she didnt sit with me and i say im not mad. Wanted to go home at this point but didnt wanna ruin the engaged couples night.

now my girl texting me why am i mad, am i mad blah blah blah.

do i have a reason to be mad or am i overreacting

Women tend to get in their feelings when people around them are getting engaged and they aren't.
 

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Women tend to get in their feelings when people around them are getting engaged and they aren't.
Nah this is a terrible response to that post. It’s a huge cop out that will lead this poor guy down a path laced with misery.

@leoc I hate to be the one to break this to u but there’s something missing in your relationship. It’s true affection.

There are a few possibilities that will apply to your case:

- Your girl does not love u. And is just using u to either pay for her share of meals when y’all go out with others, or to not look alone and pitiful on occasions like the one she dragged you into.
- She is oblivious to common sense things.
- She lacks compassion.

I’ve been in relationships where I knew without the shadow of a doubt the girl I was with was head over heels enthralled by me. Spellbound. Bewitched even. I’ve also been in relationships where I’ve experience situations similar to the one you just described. And yup, things ended badly in those relationships.

you go out in public and u see other couples all up on each other or not being apart from each other for any noticeable length of time. Then u have ur girl who’d rather spend her time chatting up the room. Don’t be that pathetic guy. Yes, u did look pathetic and I wasn’t there.

sadly, the game u need to break down this chick is not one u have right now.
 

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Telling me if im overreacting or not

so been going out with my girl for almost 2 years now. She has three sisters. One is married, one engaged, one single. Anyways the one who got engaged got engaged a few days ago and now they all wanted to go out play some games and then go for dinner so cool.

So after the games we get to the restaurant and ofc we gotta sit at two table cuz of covid and theres 7 of us. My girl and me and her single sister get there together. The engaged couple were already there at a table and were all over each other. My girl and her sister had to use the washroom so i decided to sit at the empty table cuz i knew i did not wanna sit with the engaged couple when they were all over each other.

so my girl and her sister come back and her sister goes to the other table. My girls stands in front of the table im at and then goes and sits with the other group leaving me alone sitting there.

honestly im pissed and embarrassed like im sitting here all alone and you really gonna leave me alone and not even sit with me or ask me to join you guys or anything? On top of that not like she went there to say hi and then come back she literally took her coat off and sat down didnt even look back.

then i realize her sisters are telling her to sit with me and she comes and sits down. I ignore her. She asks am i mad and i say no. She says am i mad cuz she didnt sit with me and i say im not mad. Wanted to go home at this point but didnt wanna ruin the engaged couples night.

now my girl texting me why am i mad, am i mad blah blah blah.

do i have a reason to be mad or am i overreacting


she doesnt sound like a keeper breh:camby:on to the next
 

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Nah this is a terrible response to that post. It’s a huge cop out that will lead this poor guy down a path laced with misery.

@leoc I hate to be the one to break this to u but there’s something missing in your relationship. It’s true affection.

There are a few possibilities that will apply to your case:

- Your girl does not love u. And is just using u to either pay for her share of meals when y’all go out with others, or to not look alone and pitiful on occasions like the one she dragged you into.
- She is oblivious to common sense things.
- She lacks compassion.

I’ve been in relationships where I knew without the shadow of a doubt the girl I was with was head over heels enthralled by me. Spellbound. Bewitched even. I’ve also been in relationships where I’ve experience situations similar to the one you just described. And yup, things ended badly in those relationships.

you go out in public and u see other couples all up on each other or not being apart from each other for any noticeable length of time. Then u have ur girl who’d rather spend her time chatting up the room. Don’t be that pathetic guy. Yes, u did look pathetic and I wasn’t there.

sadly, the game u need to break down this chick is not one u have right now.

Follow this advice
 

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At 29 years old I've gotten to a point where unless the vibe is good i'd rather not even fukk (for the most part). A female that I perceive as dumb or annoying turns me off.

Business like sex just not the same anymore...

Anyone else feel this way?


Yup it’s like a job when you’re 16 you can work at McDonald’s when you’re 30 with experience even if you’re laid off you won’t
 

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Telling me if im overreacting or not

so been going out with my girl for almost 2 years now. She has three sisters. One is married, one engaged, one single. Anyways the one who got engaged got engaged a few days ago and now they all wanted to go out play some games and then go for dinner so cool.

So after the games we get to the restaurant and ofc we gotta sit at two table cuz of covid and theres 7 of us. My girl and me and her single sister get there together. The engaged couple were already there at a table and were all over each other. My girl and her sister had to use the washroom so i decided to sit at the empty table cuz i knew i did not wanna sit with the engaged couple when they were all over each other.

so my girl and her sister come back and her sister goes to the other table. My girls stands in front of the table im at and then goes and sits with the other group leaving me alone sitting there.

honestly im pissed and embarrassed like im sitting here all alone and you really gonna leave me alone and not even sit with me or ask me to join you guys or anything? On top of that not like she went there to say hi and then come back she literally took her coat off and sat down didnt even look back.

then i realize her sisters are telling her to sit with me and she comes and sits down. I ignore her. She asks am i mad and i say no. She says am i mad cuz she didnt sit with me and i say im not mad. Wanted to go home at this point but didnt wanna ruin the engaged couples night.

now my girl texting me why am i mad, am i mad blah blah blah.

do i have a reason to be mad or am i overreacting

You're not overreacting. She knew damn well what the fukk she was doing. The mere fact she keeps asking "are you mad" proves that.

The one thing I won't do is sit around like an a$$hole in public when a chick is either late or pulls the same shyt your girl did. You should have got up and left.
 
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