Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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You see when I hear y'all tell these stories I think, "there's no way something this absurd could be happening".......


and here we are.. ...

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

You see when I hear y'all tell these stories I think, "there's no way something this absurd could be happening".......


and here we are.. ...

It’s the opposite for me when I hear these stories cause that’s how I know these brehs are in the field

 

[Scaaar]

Lol I just had that happen. Some of them will unmatch if you don't respond in the same day.

Aight story time from this past weekend:

It all started on a chill Friday night. I'm winding down, ready to hit the hay early 'cause I got responsibilities—gym in the morning, errands on deck, and a date later in the evening. Adulting at its finest.

Around 10 PM, my phone buzzes. It’s a 24-year-old I’d messaged earlier in the week finally replying. I ask her what she’s up to, and she hits me with, “Hanging with my BFF who’s in town—we’re drinking.” Classic. Apparently, they were supposed to go out, but ended up staying in and getting too drunk to function.

I toss back a casual reply, asking what they sippin on not too pressed. I mean, I'm about to knock out. Gotta preserve the gains and the grind.

Then—plot twist—another girl messages me at like 10:30 PM, right as I’m drifting off. Her timing? Impeccably awful. I tell her straight up, “Your timing is trash, I was literally falling asleep lol” She laughs it off, says she’s usually asleep too on Fridays but her friend’s in town or whatever and they getting tacos and shyt. Honestly, I tuned out after that. Bedtime was calling.

Somewhere between dreamland and dawn, the first girl replies again—something along the lines of “Haha we’re so drunk, this is wild!! Margaritas are my favorite drink!!!”
Cute. But it’s 5 AM when I wake up (unwillingly, might I add), see the message, and just... wasn't in the mood. Not trying to match drunk energy when I haven’t even had breakfast yet.

So I shelf it. I figure I’ll respond later. I’ve got a full day ahead—preworkout in the veins, errands getting checked off, the whole morning I have that "I'm him” feeling. Except lunchtime rolls around, and I eat something I’m allergic to like a genius. Pop a Benadryl and boom—out cold.

I wake up just in time to get ready for my date at 7. It’s chill. Nothing to complain about, good vibes, decent convo. I get home around 8:40, open Hinge with intentions to finally respond to Miss Drunk Text, and—she unmatched me. Lol, what? I was literally fighting for my life against allergies

Meanwhile, the second girl—the one with the horrible timing—we’d made plans to hang on Sunday. We’d been texting through Saturday too, vibes were flowing. I last hit her up around 3, but I was busy from then until about 8:50 with my benadryl nap and my date. Come back, text her back ask when she’s free tomorrow... radio silence. Ghosted. Keep in mind this ain't even on the app. I got this chick's actually number texting so now suddenly the read receipts aren't showing up. I'm like okay...

Next day? Still nothing. I unmatched. That one kinda sucked—she was cool, we were clicking. But hey, life moves

The silver lining? The girl I actually went on the date with is still around. She’s hitting me with good morning texts, showing consistency. So yeah, we’ll see where that goes.

Sounds like you're playing the field the right way to me. It's called dating. Not everyone is going to be consistent. Folks will fall in and out of the line up until you find the one you want to lock down. That why I'm confused when brehs get angry that a chick ghosted them. Just move on to the next one and keep it pushing

 

[Apollo Creed]

Lol women are nuts....some will straight up unmatch if you make them wait for a reply WTF

You should be happy weirdos self eliminate lol.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Sounds like you're playing the field the right way to me. It's called dating. Not everyone is going to be consistent. Folks will fall in and out of the line up until you find the one you want to lock down. That why I'm confused when brehs get angry that a chick ghosted them. Just move on to the next one and keep it pushing

The issue is most men dont have options or a life outside of seeking a woman for consistent sex. So they hold on to every interaction as “this is my chance”.

This causes dudes to be blimded and play the games of a weird chick. The same way women get the ick you need to do the same and cut through the fat

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

You should be happy weirdos self eliminate lol.

I usually dont mind but this one had some massive tiddies on a slim frame

 

[Scaaar]

The issue is most men dont have options or a life outside of seeking a woman for consistent sex. So they hold on to every interaction as “this is my chance”.

This causes dudes to be blimded and play the games of a weird chick. The same way women get the ick you need to do the same and cut through the fat

They mess themselves up moving through life like that. I get it though because when I was younger I moved liked that. But after you bump your head a few times you should wise up. Ironically you run into the most chics when you're not actively pursuing the sex. When it's opposite that's why they getting laps ran around them out here lol

 

[cyndaquil]

Sounds like you're playing the field the right way to me. It's called dating. Not everyone is going to be consistent. Folks will fall in and out of the line up until you find the one you want to lock down. That why I'm confused when brehs get angry that a chick ghosted them. Just move on to the next one and keep it pushing

The anger is from time and effort wasted usually. Especially if yall never even met. From myself I've found that it usually upsets you the most when you don't have anybody else you're fukkin at the moment or haven't fukked in a little while.

I usually dont mind but this one had some massive tiddies on a slim frame

Case and point. You never met the chick. You got an idea in your head of what you want her to be. Guarantee after you've fukked a few times the thrill will wear off. You have to remember that. Your dikk will always hype some chick up cuz it's tryna reproduce. I took time off from dating just for this reason. Once you eliminate the need for a woman and realize they are a nice to have the true player comes out. Dudes be tryna shame other dudes for beatin their meet instead of getting p*ssy. Aint nothing wrong with it when it's a choice. Dating should be fun if she aint making it that way charge her to the game lol

 

[Apollo Creed]

They mess themselves up moving through life like that. I get it though because when I was younger I moved liked that. But after you bump your head a few times you should wise up. Ironically you run into the most chics when you're not actively pursuing the sex. When it's opposite that's why they getting laps ran around them out here lol

At a certain age assuming you aren't a bum you understand you have shyt to lose and peace is undefeated. Idk how dudes made it through Covid and still desperate for female attention let alone a WEIRDO.

If you have to prove your worth to someone just to spend time with them for the HOPES of them liking you you are a fukking loser.

Dudes are looking to serve a woman rather than be around people they actually like and benefits their life. shyt insane

 

[Scaaar]

The anger is from time and effort wasted usually. Especially if yall never even met. From myself I've found that it usually upsets you the most when you don't have anybody else you're fukkin at the moment or haven't fukked in a little while.

Case and point. You never met the chick. You got an idea in your head of what you want her to be. Guarantee after you've fukked a few times the thrill will wear off. You have to remember that. Your dikk will always hype some chick up cuz it's tryna reproduce. I took time off from dating just for this reason. Once you eliminate the need for a woman and realize they are a nice to have the true player comes out. Dudes be tryna shame other dudes for beatin their meet instead of getting p*ssy. Aint nothing wrong with it when it's a choice. Dating should be fun if she aint making it that way charge her to the game lol

That's my main motto. Dating and getting to know folks should be fun and interesting. But brehs are too focused on sex and trying to get to that result the easiest/quickest way they can. That energy radiates off of you and chicks can sense that. So they either get creeped out. Or use it to their advantage to get what they want. But brehs idealize what it could be like to have sex with someone and just run off of that. Then get mad on the backend when it doesn't work or they don't get the sex. Just friend zoned lol

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Wild how a girl can cancel plans on you and you will be completely fine

But if you cancel them you’re in trouble lol

I invited her over next weekend and now she might not be able to because of Easter I said cool

I might not be able to due to work— thought I could work from home to give me time to head across the city. Now it’s looking like I got to go in and I’m highkey trying not to go work all day then spend close to an hour and a half to get somewhere

And I can feel the tension lol

 

[cyndaquil]

That's my main motto. Dating and getting to know folks should be fun and interesting. But brehs are too focused on sex and trying to get to that result the easiest/quickest way they can. That energy radiates off of you and chicks can sense that. So they either get creeped out. Or use it to their advantage to get what they want. But brehs idealize what it could be like to have sex with someone and just run off of that. Then get mad on the backend when it doesn't work or they don't get the sex. Just friend zoned lol

On the one hand yeah you gotta be focused on getting to know them but on the other hand these chicks ain't looking for friends either. Too much of that energy you'll get friendzoned too or she'll say "she didn't feel a spark". It's a fine line between giving her "all i wanna do is fukk" energy and "I'm interested in getting to know you as a person" energy. Trust I've tried going on dates with chicks i wasnt attracted to like that but seemed like we had a lot of things in common. Never works out you just cant force it. The problem is getting to know someone takes weeks and it usually takes 2-3 dates to smash that's 2 weeks like 1-2 weeks to smash and with stuff like ghosting being rampant its easy to see why some brehs get mad. Especially when they aren't having any fun with it just going through the motions for some p*ssy

 

[cyndaquil]

Wild how a girl can cancel plans on you and you will be completely fine

But if you cancel them you’re in trouble lol

I invited her over next weekend and now she might not be able to because of Easter I said cool

I might not be able to due to work— thought I could work from home to give me time to head across the city. Now it’s looking like I got to go in and I’m highkey trying not to go work all day then spend close to an hour and a half to get somewhere

And I can feel the tension lol

They be mad and assume you're going out with another woman instead and think they are the backup or sidepiece

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

On the one hand yeah you gotta be focused on getting to know them but on the other hand these chicks ain't looking for friends either. Too much of that energy you'll get friendzoned too or she'll say "she didn't feel a spark". It's a fine line between giving her "all i wanna do is fukk" energy and "I'm interested in getting to know you as a person" energy. Trust I've tried going on dates with chicks i wasnt attracted to like that but seemed like we had a lot of things in common. Never works out you just cant force it. The problem is getting to know someone takes weeks and it usually takes 2-3 dates to smash that's 2 weeks like 1-2 weeks to smash and with stuff like ghosting being rampant its easy to see why some brehs get mad. Especially when they aren't having any fun with it just going through the motions for some p*ssy

I think what frustrates brehs especially with a woman that they REALLY wanna hit is getting so close to smashing but then it falls through and they don’t have no backup or backups they don’t want as much as the main one they wanna hit. Like you said you’ll take a chick out that fits exactly what you want 1-2 times over a week or two, things seem to be going good and then for no reason she ghost or it falls through. The sunken cost fallacy.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

They be mad and assume you're going out with another woman instead and think they are the backup or sidepiece

There’s a party I’m going to the next night and I’m definitely going to try to holler at something lmaoooo

But my reason for Friday is definitely valid. A long day of work and spending damn near 3 hours on public transportation that day sounds exhausting thing about it. And I hate how inconsiderate it is to be upset

I think what frustrates brehs especially with a woman that they REALLY wanna hit is getting so close to smashing but then it falls through and they don’t have no backup or backups they don’t want as much as the main one they wanna hit. Like you said you’ll take a chick out that fits exactly what you want 1-2 times over a week or two, things seem to be going good and then for no reason she ghost or it falls through. The sunken cost fallacy.

That’s why you have to be a dawg until it’s truly official. Can’t be mad if one falls through when there’s backups. At that point it’s ego