Telling me if im overreacting or not
so been going out with my girl for almost 2 years now. She has three sisters. One is married, one engaged, one single. Anyways the one who got engaged got engaged a few days ago and now they all wanted to go out play some games and then go for dinner so cool.
So after the games we get to the restaurant and ofc we gotta sit at two table cuz of covid and theres 7 of us. My girl and me and her single sister get there together. The engaged couple were already there at a table and were all over each other. My girl and her sister had to use the washroom so i decided to sit at the empty table cuz i knew i did not wanna sit with the engaged couple when they were all over each other.
so my girl and her sister come back and her sister goes to the other table. My girls stands in front of the table im at and then goes and sits with the other group leaving me alone sitting there.
honestly im pissed and embarrassed like im sitting here all alone and you really gonna leave me alone and not even sit with me or ask me to join you guys or anything? On top of that not like she went there to say hi and then come back she literally took her coat off and sat down didnt even look back.
then i realize her sisters are telling her to sit with me and she comes and sits down. I ignore her. She asks am i mad and i say no. She says am i mad cuz she didnt sit with me and i say im not mad. Wanted to go home at this point but didnt wanna ruin the engaged couples night.
now my girl texting me why am i mad, am i mad blah blah blah.
do i have a reason to be mad or am i overreacting
you need to check her ass... she know what she did is dead wrong and she is shti testing you. Just keep a mental note of what you did.
This is what I would do... I would pull back a moderate amount.. not a lot, but moderately. Do more things on my own and respond back slower and when I feel like it and kill the convo when I got what I needed to say. If she text back with something definitive, don't respond. Just be like "yep, got it" (but don't acknowledge her in a text - just don't text back in other words). Also do this >>>> Let her know, since she doesn't value your time like she should by ditching you, then you would have to be more mindful of how you spend it.
Again, you don't want to pull back entirely, but make your availability to her scarce in physical and text form....
She'll get the picture.
Edit:
After more consideration.... she's a selfish a$$hole
She wanted you to chase her... and in a sense, she was trying to stunt on her sisters on how she has you twisted around her finger by having you get up and move to where she is at.... Even her sisters notice how she did you... that's wrong as hell.
Bruh, no lie, I'd dump her ass (that's just me though).