Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mandarin Duck]

That chick at my job either wants to fukk me, or is really trying her hardest to get me caught up.

Our boss had the day off so she decided to play some music.

She's playing Pop Lock and Drop, then start dancing in front me.

I literally had to look away from stopping myself from getting hard

My dumbass got caught up and encouraged it
I'm like "naw that don't count you didn't drop it all the way down"

Then she start laughing and drops it lower.

Then she start playing Usher "Yeah" and does some slow wind shyt and I'm just like


On the inside.

I really don't know what to do.

I feel like she flirts but every time I think that I kinda doubt it.

She even made it a point to point out that nobody else in the office was watching her on some "omg this is so embarrassing. I hope nobody else sees me"

 

[TRUEST]

Brehs I need serious advice. How does one know when it’s time to let a relationship go?

I mean me and shorty not having sex cause she wanna wait till marriage which already is a big deal but I decided to keep things going cause I like her and she’s like my best friend. However recently shyt just been all bad, she even sent me a video of a podcast she did and was like if you don’t like it don’t say anything. I’m like so I can’t even offer a critical opinion or feedback. Am I bugging or should I just let her go.

Yes u need to let her go. I won’t be like some here and use dubious terms such as “probably”. No there is no maybe or probably in the case you just described. That girl runs the relationship. U need to dead it now.

And if u do end it and she comes back begging, swearing she’ll change, just know that she’ll only maintain that facade until she finds your replacement, if one isn’t already lined up.

think of how you’re feeling right now. Think about it real hard. Examin very carefully the thoughts, worries and images that coalesced to possess you to post this dilemma on a forum asking for advice. Now, imagine it getting worse because she’s ur wife and/or baby momma. Imagine that.

If u don’t drop this demon of a girl, you won’t have to imagine this nightmarish existence. You will be living it.

The girl u marry should never be this bold with the disrespect.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I mean prime years with women.

didn’t want to say 45+ because it’s not socially accepted to be that dude up there in age out there having fun— even though it shouldn’t be that way.

nah older men get play from all women. The women who cry about older men do it as a deflection to discourage men (because as a woman her value decreases with age while a mans increases).

 

[VertigoKnight]

Yes u need to let her go. I won’t be like some here and use dubious terms such as “probably”. No there is no maybe or probably in the case you just described. That girl runs the relationship. U need to dead it now.

And if u do end it and she comes back begging, swearing she’ll change, just know that she’ll only maintain that facade until she finds your replacement, if one isn’t already lined up.

think of how you’re feeling right now. Think about it real hard. Examin very carefully the thoughts, worries and images that coalesced to possess you to post this dilemma on a forum asking for advice. Now, imagine it getting worse because she’s ur wife and/or baby momma. Imagine that.

If u don’t drop this demon of a girl, you won’t have to imagine this nightmarish existence. You will be living it.

The girl u marry should never be this bold with the disrespect.

Yep that breh in his heart of hearts knows what he needs to do.

Bro. No sex, no cooperation, no criticism.

Your walking on eggshells and as a man it's doesn't sound like it'll end well.

She dictating the rules, its unnatural.

If you don't have a plan, you are just part of someone else plan.

Once you as a man need to start walking on eggshells in anything, it's done.

Just takes you off your axis having to double think whether you'll anger her or not.

I went through the same shyt with my ex near the breaking point of our relationship. I will never allow that to happen again.

 

[DaRealness]

I swear the universe has a sense of humour and is always listening.

Same chick messaged me out of nowhere tonight.

Haven't spoken to her since beginning of December.

Kept it very dry with my replies. I think she sensed the vibe was different. I wished her a good evening and kept it moving.

These chicks think they can pop back up out of nowhere and men will somehow just forget they were MIA for weeks.

lol the typical "hey big head" chicks. Nah, we ain't going for that shyt in 2021. I got the memory of an elephant for every chick that ghosted me.

Brehs I need serious advice. How does one know when it’s time to let a relationship go?

I mean me and shorty not having sex cause she wanna wait till marriage which already is a big deal but I decided to keep things going cause I like her and she’s like my best friend. However recently shyt just been all bad, she even sent me a video of a podcast she did and was like if you don’t like it don’t say anything. I’m like so I can’t even offer a critical opinion or feedback. Am I bugging or should I just let her go.

What's there to think about? This chick is displaying more red flags than a chinese march with piru gangs in attendance. She's not even a good friend much less a partner.

New year, new start. Bushes.

 

[Deafheaven]

How with all the fukkery weve traversed in 2020 some of yall still letting these dumb ass heauxs get yall vexed is beyond me. The last 6 or so months Ive been stacking, investing, hitting my fwb sporadically. Its lovely not having to worry about any goofy shyt with women.

This year as shytty as it was should have been a wake up call and recalibration. Dont tell me yall wasted it

 

[TRUEST]

How with all the fukkery weve traversed in 2020 some of yall still letting these dumb ass heauxs get yall vexed is beyond me. The last 6 or so months Ive been stacking, investing, hitting my fwb sporadically. Its lovely not having to worry about any goofy shyt with women.

This year as shytty as it was should have been a wake up call and recalibration. Dont tell me yall wasted it

Smart man. Some people made chasing girls a full time job. And frankly if it wasn’t for the specific painful life experiences I’ve had myself I’d be doing the exact same thing.

there are Very few things in life that are more glorious than being in the company of a woman who likes u as much if not more than u like her. But at the end of the day and after such a tumultuous year, if u r smart u will realize very quickly that girls, romantic relationships are not as important as being able to sufficiently provide for urself and ur family. Not even close.

I’ve been so occupied (deliberately so) with work that I find any persistent prolonged interaction with love partners an absolute nuisance.

 

[Deafheaven]

Smart man. Some people made chasing girls a full time job. And frankly if it wasn’t for the specific painful life experiences I’ve had myself I’d be doing the exact same thing.

there are Very few things in life that are more glorious than being in the company of a woman who likes u as much if not more than u like her. But at the end of the day and after such a tumultuous year, if u r smart u will realize very quickly that girls, romantic relationships are not as important as being able to sufficiently provide for urself and ur family. Not even close.

I’ve been so occupied (deliberately so) with work that I find any persistent prolonged interaction with love partners an absolute nuisance.

Dont get me wrong Ill def be back to linking up with ladies next year when shyt more normal but this was a blessing. Im making more than I ever had in my life, not stressed at all. The enforced isolation Ive been on for the most part exposed just how much power we willfully hand over to women for no real reason.

I pop in here every once in a while and cats still pontificating over ain shyt bytches n situations and Im like damn. That was me lol. I would behoove everyone with lady probs get on your purpose...that shyt real.

 

[Guvnor]

when you become indifferent insstead of wanting to fight for your relationship its over. And if chick is talking wild on a podcast then that shows she has no respect for you and you need to dead it. Sticking around shows weakness which will keep you in a state of never having respect. If yall had sex in the past and now all of a sudden she doesnt want sex anymore then its really over. Marriage changes nothing and many people have LESS sex after marriage.

Nah we never had sex tbh and she isn't talking wild on the podcast. According to her perspective it was just her and her friend talking and she did it as a favor to her friend, it's the friend podcast so she's like I don't need any criticism for something I just did as a favor or me and my friend just talking about the charity work I do. However it rubbed me the wrong way for her to say that in the text a second after sending it to me. She even got me a gift for christmas and was like if you don't like it don't tell me anything or act like you like it.

@Action Mike @TRUEST @DaRealness Thanks brehs for the advice. In light this info was I over reacting?

 

[TRUEST]

Nah we never had sex tbh and she isn't talking wild on the podcast. According to her perspective it was just her and her friend talking and she did it as a favor to her friend, it's the friend podcast so she's like I don't need any criticism for something I just did as a favor or me and my friend just talking about the charity work I do. However it rubbed me the wrong way for her to say that in the text a second after sending it to me. She even got me a gift for christmas and was like if you don't like it don't tell me anything or act like you like it.

@Action Mike @TRUEST @DaRealness Thanks brehs for the advice. In light this info was I over reacting?

Listen to your gut my dude. If given the chance (through the entanglements of marriage or children), she will wreck ur life. I like to make sure the women I run the risk of impregnating are crazy about me and that they have a kind heart.

One of the ways kind hearted women display their nature is by being very quick to forgive if you apologize. If u are mad about something they did, ur displeasure will make them unhappy and they will want to rectify things as quickly as possible. If u like and respect someone you won’t want to waste time fighting over frivolous things.

this girl is back talking u and I know for a fact she’s not the going to be the wife a man needs. Wives respect their men. Your gut is alerting u to the danger signs. Pay attention.

 

[DaHNIC82]

How with all the fukkery weve traversed in 2020 some of yall still letting these dumb ass heauxs get yall vexed is beyond me. The last 6 or so months Ive been stacking, investing, hitting my fwb sporadically. Its lovely not having to worry about any goofy shyt with women.

This year as shytty as it was should have been a wake up call and recalibration. Dont tell me yall wasted it

When I deleted that bullshyt Bumble/tinder off my phone and replaced it with Inshot.. It was one of the best decision I ever made this year.. I started learning how to do mini videos and got noticed by Screwball/Mad Men Management and they wanted me to do shyt for them.. I even had Wu Tang nikkahs liking my shyt too..

 

[Deafheaven]

Nah we never had sex tbh and she isn't talking wild on the podcast. According to her perspective it was just her and her friend talking and she did it as a favor to her friend, it's the friend podcast so she's like I don't need any criticism for something I just did as a favor or me and my friend just talking about the charity work I do. However it rubbed me the wrong way for her to say that in the text a second after sending it to me. She even got me a gift for christmas and was like if you don't like it don't tell me anything or act like you like it.

@Action Mike @TRUEST @DaRealness Thanks brehs for the advice. In light this info was I over reacting?

Waiting till marriage in 2020...man you setting yourself up for failure here. How long you known this woman?

 

[360dagod]

Brehs I need serious advice. How does one know when it’s time to let a relationship go?

I mean me and shorty not having sex cause she wanna wait till marriage which already is a big deal but I decided to keep things going cause I like her and she’s like my best friend. However recently shyt just been all bad, she even sent me a video of a podcast she did and was like if you don’t like it don’t say anything. I’m like so I can’t even offer a critical opinion or feedback. Am I bugging or should I just let her go.

No sex

End it...QUICKLY

 

[Canon]

New Year New Hoes brehs

 

[Guvnor]

Waiting till marriage in 2020...man you setting yourself up for failure here. How long you known this woman?

Over a year, will be two this summer.

No sex

End it...QUICKLY

Yeah man Im thinking about. Plus I got chicks im talking too on the side that are showing crazy interest.