CrossBones
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shes already set up for the easy play. he laid down all the groundwork for her to take the money and split later on, this is an easy call right now! I see exactly how shes movin
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shes already set up for the easy play. he laid down all the groundwork for her to take the money and split later on, this is an easy call right now! I see exactly how shes movin
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
I once dated a woman with twin 5 year old boys. I pulled the plug before things got too serious. It's like Mike Singletary says: "Can't win with em".
the funny thing most opele i know have dated single moms and they always tell me they would never again
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
I just don't see a reason for it. I'm only 26, not down with the insta-family as some women like to say. I've been out mingling with women and the entire vibe of the conversation changes when I find out they have kids. Fellas don't ever let a woman shame you if you choose not to take on her baggage. They'll call you immature, or say if you were a real man you wouldn't have an issue with her having kids. Just tell her to enjoy her night and keep it moving.
the problem dating single mothers is the same problem in dating any woman.the last few pages about dating single mothers really scared the shiit out of me, Im never never never ever gonna do it
you could find a good responsible single mother that takes care of her shyt and needs for nothing that'a a good credible person and has a well behaved child.
but what are the odds of that? i'm not saying that all single mothers are irresponsible because they aren't its just the fact that she's a single mother is usually a manifestation of her poor decisions and suggest irresponsibility.
let's distinguish that there's a difference between a single women with kids and a single mother. a single mother is raising her kids alone. a women with kids that's single has the child's father doing his job and helping her raise those kids.
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Yesterday,A popular twitter niigga killed himself over a gal
heres his twitter page, read his last few tweets...I guess his chick cheated on him: https://twitter.com/Freddy_E
then, shorty after, one of his family members posted this ---> https://twitter.com/...1668993/photo/1
heres dudes youtube page, his videos are already being filled with "rip" comments-----> JERKTV | FBP - YouTube
Apparently this is the chick he shot himself over -----> https://twitter.com/QueenHoneyC
heres his twitter page, read his last few tweets...I guess his chick cheated on him: https://twitter.com/Freddy_E
then, shorty after, one of his family members posted this ---> https://twitter.com/...1668993/photo/1
heres dudes youtube page, his videos are already being filled with "rip" comments-----> JERKTV | FBP - YouTube
Apparently this is the chick he shot himself over -----> https://twitter.com/QueenHoneyC
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Its not breh, dating a woman with a kid, u dating her,her kid and her baby daddy. The baby daddy will always be around, too much drama. So many women without kids to get at, than risking putting yourself in a situation where you are most likely gonna square up with the baby father
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Exactly. Also the father of her child/children will always have a shot to get back in the picture. No matter what you're told that window isn't closed. You put yourself through this ordeal, going against your better judgment and that of your family/friends for what? It isn't worth it.
that doesn't mean by default that the baby daddy and the child are problems. could be problems but aren't guaranteed to be. i don't suggest dating women with children but then again my attitude is don't date a women with more children than you. i don't have any children. if a woman has one child i could see possibly dealing with her and since i have no kids that's a stretch.
all single mothers aren't broken. some are, maybe even the majority, but some aren't. we all make mistakes in life and none of us are perfect. whatever woman ultimately gets with you is gonna have to put up with your flaws also. maybe you too had something in life not quite go as planned. should you be judged for that alone?
All you nikkas that use POF should be the most careful. Single moms on that site are looking for a man who isnt tied down to anything to anchor themselves to. bytch talkin bout she wanna "try something new" Yea shes going to try to get pregnant by a nikka with a good job so she can get some better child support payments this time around.
I agree with alot of hat you say but no good can come from dating a single mother
how is that any different than any other ex-boyfriend that she may or may not still have lingering feelings for?
what you have to accept is dating seriously in and of itself is problematic and in the grander scheme of things there's not much you can really do to minimize the risk. there are a bunch of variables in the picture you know little to nothing about because they were planted before you came into the picture. you don't really know any woman's past.
avoiding single mothers isn't going to necessarily lead you to any further prosperity. one thing you'll discover is sometimes women without kids are more fukked up than women with them. i don't have any kids but that is not because i was smart its because i was lucky. i was out fukking raw for years and granted it was with a limited number of people over the course of a relationship. the point is some people don't have any kids because they were lucky not because they were smart or responsible.
i'm of the school that you shouldn't be dating at all. you should interact with the opposite sex if you so choose but always maintain your freedom. enjoy their company while your dealings last and when things reach the natural conclusion move on.
the moment you decide to start dating seriously you're headed for trouble and granted limiting the scope of women to a range that is within your social status may minimize some of your problems beyond dating seemingly normal women (some of who may even have a child) there's nothing you can do to lower the risk. a woman with a child (single child) to me doesn't really pose a much greater dating risk than a woman with none.
the question isn't does the child exist its how is the child? well behaved? well taken care of? who is the child's father? how is he?
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
I understand what you're saying but that's how I view the matter. I never said women without kids weren't trouble but that's the topic we were discussing.