Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mister_DoItNice]

Between this thread, and listening to Black Phillip I feel like Neo. Seeing things for what they are, and not what I imagine them to be. I've been reading some of these other threads, and watching TV with a sense of awareness that I didn't have before. I saw that KAY commercial with the little girl, and that dude on the swing... Just turned the TV off. Kev, Reincar, Sharp, Turbulent, Liquid, and many others you guys are doing a great thing.

 

[sixsixtwo]

Just wanted to repost this: peep out the YT comments -- shyt is hilarity..

 

[Wild self]

that whole trend of posting the animated gif of a woman laughing or something after every post is really starting to irk me.

That shyt makes me wanna pull an Ike Turner on her. Straight immaturity

 

[winb83]

my ex-girl is still calling me from blocked numbers to talk shyt. still sending me facebook messages.

i just answered a call and didn't say jack shyt just hit talked and listened and she starts rambling about statuses i post on facebook that she can't even read because i removed her from my friend list ages ago i just hung up in her. the status was directed at someone else but this chick has people reading my facebook page and reporting what i say on it to her and took it to be about her.

i just sent her this on facebook. hopefully she gets the message.

At this point me and you have reached the end of our dealings with each other. you and your family have all your property back and whatever of mines you may still have or own me or whatever consider it yours.

I don't ever want to see, hear, or speak to you or anyone associated with you ever again. delete and forget my number please hell forget I even existed. there's no point for you even responding to this message because going forward all attempts on your part to contact me will be ignored and i will never attempt to contact you again. have a nice day and a good life i wish you the best

 

[Lil' Kartwheel]

A thread like this with men are sharing knowledge with other men to avoid pitfalls and better themselves? Very few women do this and could care less about it because their whole life revolves around bullshyt (deception/dishonesty in multiple ways) and female projection.

I'm preaching to the choir here but you fellas already know about females talking about the male ego being "fragile" and all that nonsense, right? That's bullshyt and female projection.

Below is a video of a single mother who, despite admitting that dating sucks as a single mother, still wants to hold out hope that she's "worth it" with lines such as "single moms rock"...

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9JWf4AuoMl8"]Dating Sucks for Single Mothers! - YouTube[/ame]

Watching the video, you can see that she wants to cry about it and that it hurts. Sadly, the modern woman is all about saving face for herself. She's attractive but she's still on that bullshyt (I'm worth it/single moms rock) and female projection (Real men date single moms). Instead of posting a video giving other women a heads up on what could happen...she tries miserably to make her life choices seem acceptable. Pitiful.

 

[Turbulent]

Girls Give Advice to Their 20-Year-Old Selves - YouTube

Just wanted to repost this: peep out the YT comments -- shyt is hilarity..

this is rich. "sleep with the bad boy, don't marry him"

these fukking whores are giving faulty advice to younger women. They don't take into consideration that chances are they will get attached to the sex and the emotional rollercoaster if they do in fact sleep with the bad boy. I just hope women get smart enough to not listen to this shyt. They will be miserable following this advice.

Men, we gotta do better. we have to step our game up and teach our women the way. When a girl is your girl, teach her. lead her so that whether it works out with you or not, she doesn't become a fukking bird brain attention-whore if you two were to seperate. Don't do it for her sake. Do it for your own sake cause if you do teach her, chances are she will cause you less problems and help you be happier. everyone can win if you don't simp to your woman and teach her how to fukking live.

 

[Turbulent]

I just upped the sister thread (http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/31219-quick-little-gems-dealing-men-thread-13.html#.UOmsr6w2eBk)

this forum is a cool thing and eventhough we may get frustrated with eachother, we can still help our coli-sisters (only if they want to be helped)

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

They say sleep with the bad boy... What about pregnancy? Now he's in the wind, and there's another mom looking to be saved.

 

[sixsixtwo]

Bree Maresca-Kramer: Confession Of A Housewife

 

[CASHAPP]

my ex-girl is still calling me from blocked numbers to talk shyt. still sending me facebook messages.

i just answered a call and didn't say jack shyt just hit talked and listened and she starts rambling about statuses i post on facebook that she can't even read because i removed her from my friend list ages ago i just hung up in her. the status was directed at someone else but this chick has people reading my facebook page and reporting what i say on it to her and took it to be about her.

i just sent her this on facebook. hopefully she gets the message.

Can you remind me of what the story is between you guys?

 

[Turbulent]

They say sleep with the bad boy... What about pregnancy? Now he's in the wind, and there's another mom looking to be saved.

they don't need to think about that anymore. they treat their body like a fukking toy of pleasure and then get mad if you do the same to their bodies. A bad boy smutting you is like a boxer hiting the punching bag. he's just using and object appropriately. The woman decides what her body's function is and is completely free to do so (and we should respect that choice).

then again they complain but deep down they love it cause they're like cuckold men who enjoy and get pleasure out of the humiliation. And if they find happiness in this, who are we to judge. just stay the fukk away from my sisters with your venomous advice and wickedness.

EDIT: to bring it back to men: simping to women and consoling them telling them they could do better is like trying to convince your friend who has a cuckold fetish that he could do better. He can't do better because that's what he gets pleasure out of. Try to build up her self esteem and she'll get away from you. You need to either give her what her mind seeks (disrespect and humiliation) or decide it's not worth it and find a better girl (the better choice in the longrun in my humble opinion)

 

[DaRealness]

Girls Give Advice to Their 20-Year-Old Selves - YouTube

Just wanted to repost this: peep out the YT comments -- shyt is hilarity..

The top two comments are gold and couldn't be more on point. I already left a comment for dudes to register on this site and check this thread.

 

[Illuminatos]

Say brehs I saw this on a basketball forum that I browse from time to time and I wanted to post this here:

Ok so, my GF has a 4yr. old son & I've been with her for roughly about a year & now we live together. I don't know the kid's father whatsoever, but my girl describes him as a deadbeat. (I'm not saying he is, but this is the way she describes him.) I've unexpectedly met him once three months ago. I introduced myself, said wassup, & kept it moving. I thought he would've had more to say to me, being that I would be around his son, and him knowing we all live together but... he didn't, so I didn't make it an issue on my part.

Fast forward to earlier today. I was on my way out the door to get a cut when my girl asked me to take her son with me to the barbershop so she can go to the gym and workout without having to keep an eye on him. He didn't need a haircut, but I figured he might as well get a shape up since he's gonna be there. So I agreed, it wasn't the first time I've taken him to the barbershop so it was a non-issue with me.

In the barbershop while waiting for my barber to get done with the guy in his chair, her son is playing a game on my phone and I'm conversing with an old friend I went to HS with. Next thing you know I hear, "DADDY!!!" come from the little guy. I look to the entrance and I see the kid's father with two other guys and a surprised/confused look, and he's like, "Hey, who you here with?" The kid points to me & says my name. I stand up and I'm like "what's going on, I met you a lil while ago. I'm..." He cuts me off like, "Nah, this b*tch is buggin!! Nah, this b*tch is buggin!! Got my son with some random muthaf*cka!! Got my son with some random muthaf*cka!!" Basically creating a scene and shyt...

So now he's like, "get up and let's go, you're coming with me!!" So now my attitude is basically, "if you wanna take him you gotta holla at his moms, if she give you the ok that's fine with me. But I can't let you take him right now. He left with me, I gotta bring him back." He's like, "this is MY muthaf*ckin son!!" Now I feel like a dikk... but still, I reiterate my point hoping he understands where I'm coming from. He doesn't. So after about 5-10 mins. of going back and forth in front of a live audience with him and one of his loud mouth homeboys, I said f*ck it & took his son out to the car and left...

A part of me felt f*cked up about the situation because even though I have a relationship with a female with a kid, I never try to play daddy. I usually steer clear of that type of shyt, so here I am in an awkward spot telling some dude who I don't even know he can't take his son. Crazy!! I told my girl what happened and she apologized & was relieved I didn't let him take the kid because she wouldn't know where he'd take him, when he'd bring him back, etc... They're already on bad terms so who know what would've happened. But anyway, here I am, with no cut, looking like wolfman thinking about it, wondering if I did the right thing despite my girl telling me I did so...

What would you have done in my shoes? What would you do in his? Would you leave the girl alone? What about afterwards, would you get on the phone with the guy to iron things out? What?

What do ya'll think about this? What would you do in his shoes and what advice would you give him?

I said dudes who are still dating single moms lost and then someone called me ignorant.

 

[DaRealness]

I just upped the sister thread (http://www.the-coli.com/locker-room/31219-quick-little-gems-dealing-men-thread-13.html#.UOmsr6w2eBk)

this forum is a cool thing and eventhough we may get frustrated with eachother, we can still help our coli-sisters (only if they want to be helped)

I personally have no desire to help any of these chicks.

 

[DaRealness]

Say brehs I saw this on a basketball forum that I browse from time to time and I wanted to post this here:




What do ya'll think about this? What would you do in his shoes and what advice would you give him?

I said dudes who are still dating single moms lost and then someone called me ignorant.

Reading things like that is one of the main reasons why I'd never date a woman with kids. Ole boy didn't do a thing wrong and actually behaved very maturely so I can't fault him on anything. Luckily the kid's dad wasn't a real goon or this cat cat may have ended up scrapping or even lost his life.

But my thing is this: I'm not getting in the middle of any folks drama when shyt hits the fan....and to be honest I'm always wary of any chick that just writes her child's father off as a "deadbeat" or "wasteman" (as we'd call them over here in UK) but has little to say about why she calls him that. You never hear the dude's side of the story, and nine times out of ten, everyone just takes the mother's word for it. Sometimes the way a small child reacts to a parent speaks volumes and the way the kid beamed for his father tells me dude isn't all bad. OK, he made a lot of noise, but when men hurt that's sometimes how we react to things although it doesn't always make it right. I bet if dude (main guy telling the story) was to sit down with this guy and hear him out, he'd discover this chick isn't exactly Mary Magdelane her damn self. There's always two sides to a story. Maybe she was just bitter and cut him off for no good reason. Who knows? I'd be willing to bit she's probably more at fault than he is and I'm not even saying that with any male bias because I kinda sense this is a guy who is probably trying.

I'm not putting my business out there (I don't have kids myself), but it's only years later talking with my own dad and hearing his side of the story that I only NOW after all this time have a clearer picture of the dynamics between him and my mother. How many dudes end up being resented by their kids without even giving their side? Look at the recent thing with that Olympic girl Gabby Douglas and her mother talking smack about the dad and everybody just laps it up.

Not to digress, but my advice for the dude would be to either walk away from the situation and find a woman with a good head on her shoulders (if there are even any around) and start his own family OR lay some serious ground rules with the chick he's with about what he is and isn't prepared to tolerate. The boy is HER child and not his, so if she's serious about him, then she'll take heed to what he's saying. If not, then ole boy just needs to bounce and protect his sanity.

I just know that I'll never be in that situation myself.