Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Aight when it comes to dealing with women with kids. I been in a situation like this TWICE but I was a friend/sort of like a man to the women back in early 20's (long story too much to type).The worst part is not only breaking up with a woman,but the child. The child's father isnt in the childs life,so when you become practically the child's father you are a key figure in his/her life. Now when you break up with her, that child doesnt have that bond with you.A single man and single woman break up chalk it up and keep it moving. When you break up with a woman and her child,not that simple. The child gets hurt and possibly you (everybody threshold of emotional pain is different). Yet on the otherhand a woman should only bring men around her child if its serious and she knows in her heart of hearts that HE is the one. Some single mothers are cool people, but from my experiences they are very needy and arent truly looking for a father to their child,they just want YOU to take care of him/her. Bottom line if you wanna spend your Weekend watching "Dora The Explorer" do you :manny: just know that your needs to her are expendable and that after her child,herself and child's father (if he is alive) your needs are #4 :usure:


So would u do it again?
 

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You see that? Man enough? That means nothing to me. I see absolutely no correlation between not raising another man's child, and dipping on your own. It makes no sense. If a man made that comment he's been brainwashed and needs a heavy dose of medicine as Patrice would say.

I'm going to make a post soon. Never listen to simp negroes. They are simply women in male skin. We all know how listening to the advice of women. People think the Bible is this play book, but it already told us not to let women have authority over or teach men, and now that our society ignored it, we're seeing what is happening. Simps are feminine in their heart, which is why women despise them despite all the benefits they provide women and all the defending and justifying of womens' actions they do. The logic of simps is just like that of women. It doesn't make any sense and they will do the whole circular argument thing... aka argue endlessly even if they are wrong.
 

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The shaming tactics used by these fakkitS (yeah I said it) are really starting to get out of hand now. That "man enough" shyt is so overused it's not even funny.

So if you refuse to date a woman with children that automatically means you'd bail out on your own flesh and blood? :wtf:

The world also needs good mothers and a lot of these woman shouldn't even fukking have kids to begin with.
 

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Here's a post from that thread about the guy who was dating the single mom earlier:



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dudes a idiot, i gurantee 99% if that guy came to the girl and be like hey i changed im getting my act together and i think we should give it another try, she would be in his arms right away,
 

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what women dont realize no matter how hot they are, having a kid greatly decreases yourself of finding a good decent man who will love you, yes you may find man who pretends hes interested in you for sex, or another thug who will just use for sex, but a decent man who has options for the most part will not look your way, go to any dating site and type in women with kids in whatever age bracket and a abundance of women some who look great single
 

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what women dont realize no matter how hot they are, having a kid greatly decreases yourself of finding a good decent man who will love you, yes you may find man who pretends hes interested in you for sex, or another thug who will just use for sex, but a decent man who has options for the most part will not look your way, go to any dating site and type in women with kids in whatever age bracket and a abundance of women some who look great single

Sometimes I have to ask myself man....are these women operating at a lower intelligence level. They seen it happen to their sister. They seen it happen to their mother. They seen it happen to their aunt. They seen it happen to their cousin. If we can see the signs as men, they have to. I swear if I was a woman, I'd be terrified to get pregnant. Last thing I'd want to do as a woman (no homo) is to get saddled with some joker's baby.



Do you want a family, a good husband that loves you and provides for you and a lifetime of comfort or do you want a few years of soap opera excitement, gorilla fukking and a prayer that Mi'Quan turns into Danny Tanner after little Demetreus and Tysheka are born. You have to question their intelligence level at some point. Its been like 30 years. 2 Generations of single mothers. And women still falling into the same predicament :troll:

"Women be like, I'mma change him. I can just feel it" :troll:

danny-dj-and-stephanie.jpg
 

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Aight when it comes to dealing with women with kids. I been in a situation like this TWICE but I was a friend/sort of like a man to the women back in early 20's (long story too much to type).The worst part is not only breaking up with a woman,but the child. The child's father isnt in the childs life,so when you become practically the child's father you are a key figure in his/her life. Now when you break up with her, that child doesnt have that bond with you.A single man and single woman break up chalk it up and keep it moving. When you break up with a woman and her child,not that simple. The child gets hurt and possibly you (everybody threshold of emotional pain is different). Yet on the otherhand a woman should only bring men around her child if its serious and she knows in her heart of hearts that HE is the one. Some single mothers are cool people, but from my experiences they are very needy and arent truly looking for a father to their child,they just want YOU to take care of him/her. Bottom line if you wanna spend your Weekend watching "Dora The Explorer" do you :manny: just know that your needs to her are expendable and that after her child,herself and child's father (if he is alive) your needs are #4 :usure:
i'm not playing daddy for somebody else's kid. yeah i'll interact with the child on a limited basis only when the mother is there as well. i'm not taking the child out, spending any one on one time, or watching the child. that's not my kid and its not my place to play daddy to it.

i'm not the kind of guy that falls for a kid anyway. i hate kids, they're annoying as hell especially when they're trying to be cute. i'm cool with babies but the moment they learn how to talk and form coherent sentences i want nothing to do with them.
Here's a post from that thread about the guy who was dating the single mom earlier:



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those style men are weak minded indoctrinated manginas. they're vagina slaves that adopt feminist arguing points thinking it will score them points with women. they don't even believe that garbage they're just brown nosing.

these are the same type men that hear women grumble and complain about not being able to find good men (when decent regular hard working square dudes that would love to be in a relationship are all over) and start simpin thinking doing for a woman makes a man better.
 

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Sometimes I have to ask myself man....are these women operating at a lower intelligence level. They seen it happen to their sister. They seen it happen to their mother. They seen it happen to their aunt. They seen it happen to their cousin. If we can see the signs as men, they have to. I swear if I was a woman, I'd be terrified to get pregnant. Last thing I'd want to do as a woman (no homo) is to get saddled with some joker's baby.



Do you want a family, a good husband that loves you and provides for you and a lifetime of comfort or do you want a few years of soap opera excitement, gorilla fukking and a prayer that Mi'Quan turns into Danny Tanner after little Demetreus and Tysheka are born. You have to question their intelligence level at some point. Its been like 30 years. 2 Generations of single mothers. And women still falling into the same predicament :troll:

"Women be like, I'mma change him. I can just feel it" :troll:

danny-dj-and-stephanie.jpg


Every women thinks their situation is different and special
 

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I asked this single mom if she's gonna date again


"Umm its not that I'm turned off to that idea. I've just become VERY picky. I've changed a lot n my standards are high now"
 

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Every women thinks their situation is different and special
every woman is also the exception to the rule. Not all women are like that and when she says that she's supposedly the prime example of it.

at some point a man learns to stop listening to what women say cause they're habitual bullshytters. they're so well versed at it they bullshyt themselves into believing their own crap even though the holes in their logic are big enough to drive a bus through.

one of the worst thing a man can do is buy into a woman's own vision of both herself and her life because at that point he's being lead around by someone that's likely delusional.
 

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So would u do it again?



NO...the game is changing you ask me this ? 5 years ago I would say yes,but I been in the situations myself and I know how it goes. Would it been different if those child fathers werent alive maybe so,but at this point of my life I wanna BUILD my own family. (Not dissin single moms).
 
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