Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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After reading your reply this is what i was going to say.... she asking to see your piece, you got the "ex-felon" dangerous allure thing going, even though you are not playing on it and staying on the straight and narrow...:salute:...... you have no reason to rush things, let it play out organically, matter of fact don't even continue with sex talk. You're smashing chicks so you know what you're doing.

you shouldn't have the feelings of desperation of a dude who has never had p*ssy, never gets it, and is finally in a sitjation to get his dikk wet so he is panicking over every little thing because he doesn't want to "blow it".

Maybe you're over thinking it this was cause she isn't from the same realm. of women you usually mess with so it is a new foreign experience.....

either way.... chiiiiiilllll....... you get to smash and y'all enjoy, then good........ if you don't smash.... such is life.... you will have plenty of opportunities to get other box


Yeah breh you right. I'ma just cool it and see what happens. If it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen, won't be the end of the world and i will just use this experience as another data point in my assemblage of a personalized world view post-incarceration. That time away from society and women still has me a bit fukked up and I am overcompensating trying to prove to myself that im not undesirable and defunct as a man

The journey of life continues on as I try to figure this shyt out
 
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This isn't meant to be condescending or preachy, or dismissing good advice, but A LOT of people hook up/sleep together/meet their girlfriends at work. At all kinds of jobs, service industry, academia, start ups, nightclubs, hotels, medical offices, dentists offices, restaurants, real estate, on and on.

There is some element of classism at hand when those discussions come up, I have never worked a job with many women, but there are many, maybe even most jobs were it's a part of the landscape.

The points of reference that people are using for the strict no work thing is usually like a corporate job, even a high level one, that has policies in place about disclosing relationships, or whatever. Like the movie Fair Play.

Kinda how i feel about it. I don't have much to lose. This ain't a career, this isn't some high stakes corporate job, this is a grocery store + restaurant and we got a 52 year old chef that knocked up a 30 year old coworker then proceeded to fukk another chick in the same department while the other one is still pregnant. We got two managers from different departments fukking each other. Our old store manager quit after getting all her money taken by a lower level manager she was fukking because he told her he was gonna buy a house for them and start a life together so she put up her life savings to help out and he ran with it


My workplace is toxic as fukk and a fukking clownshow overall
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Kinda how i feel about it. I don't have much to lose. This ain't a career, this isn't some high stakes corporate job, this is a grocery store + restaurant and we got a 52 year old chef that knocked up a 30 year old coworker then proceeded to fukk another chick in the same department while the other one is still pregnant. We got two managers from different departments fukking each other. Our old store manager quit after getting all her money taken by a lower level manager she was fukking because he told her he was gonna buy a house for them and start a life together so she put up her life savings to help out and he ran with it


My workplace is toxic as fukk and a fukking clownshow overall
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Damn... you smashing ol'gurl would just be a Tuesday... . :mjlol:
 
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Damn... you smashing ol'gurl would just be a Tuesday... . :mjlol:

Shiiiiit it might not even be news anymore by midday :mjlol:

The chefs side piece got drunk after work and fukked the borderline retarded dishwasher just this past weekend. A chick in the bakery was in a lesbian relationship with a chick in the kitchen until she cheated on her with a dude that used to work in produce until he got fired for stealing :mjgrin:
 
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