Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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A thread like this with men are sharing knowledge with other men to avoid pitfalls and better themselves? Very few women do this and could care less about it because their whole life revolves around bullshyt (deception/dishonesty in multiple ways) and female projection.

I'm preaching to the choir here but you fellas already know about females talking about the male ego being "fragile" and all that nonsense, right? That's bullshyt and female projection.

Below is a video of a single mother who, despite admitting that dating sucks as a single mother, still wants to hold out hope that she's "worth it" with lines such as "single moms rock"...

Dating Sucks for Single Mothers! - YouTube

Watching the video, you can see that she wants to cry about it and that it hurts. Sadly, the modern woman is all about saving face for herself. She's attractive but she's still on that bullshyt (I'm worth it/single moms rock) and female projection (Real men date single moms). Instead of posting a video giving other women a heads up on what could happen...she tries miserably to make her life choices seem acceptable. Pitiful.

didnt watch video but she looks attractive and dating sucks for her

ah well, poindexter in the it department prob hollared but he was a lame enjoy the fruits of your harvest
 

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Say brehs I saw this on a basketball forum that I browse from time to time and I wanted to post this here:




What do ya'll think about this? What would you do in his shoes and what advice would you give him?

I said dudes who are still dating single moms lost and then someone called me ignorant. :mindblown:

dating is hard as it is already why making it harder dating a single mom?

there are millions of single women out there without kids, every day women without kids are turning 18 as well


in regards to that story posted, the guy did the right thing, your gf or whatever gave you the responsibility of that kid, but this is why that guy is makign things harder for himself.

now in this situation as a man who will never date a single mom but if i ever did this is what would happen

1. why are you babysitting a kid that aint yours so his mom can go to teh gym, as a man you lay down the law, tell her to get a baby sitter kid aint yours

2. imagine if that scenario turned violent? your gonna risk goign to jail, getting killed, getting beat up over a kid that aint yours/?

3. i understand what the dad is doing, from reading the story he never met dude so hell if i had a kid and i see him/her with a random dude best believe someting is going to go down and best believe I would be angry, the highest molestation rate out there is between step daddies/ and boyfriends of single moms and their kids.

4. look at all this stress this guy is putting himself througgh all for some warm little hole:bryan:
 

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my ex-girl is still calling me from blocked numbers to talk shyt. still sending me facebook messages.

i just answered a call and didn't say jack shyt just hit talked and listened and she starts rambling about statuses i post on facebook that she can't even read because i removed her from my friend list ages ago i just hung up in her. the status was directed at someone else but this chick has people reading my facebook page and reporting what i say on it to her and took it to be about her.

i just sent her this on facebook. hopefully she gets the message.

change your number


this leads me to stories that get swept under the rug storties like

Jodi Arias

Jodi Arias case: Woman, 32, facing death penalty 'for brutally stabbing boyfriend to death in his shower' | Mail Online

bec areful of women you date,
 

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Say brehs I saw this on a basketball forum that I browse from time to time and I wanted to post this here:




What do ya'll think about this? What would you do in his shoes and what advice would you give him?

I said dudes who are still dating single moms lost and then someone called me ignorant. :mindblown:

I would just tell dude to get as far away from that woman as he can. Dude doesn't want to play daddy but that's a role you're forced into when you get serious with a woman who has a child. Especially living together, it's impossible to avoid. Honestly, I'm not about to tell a man what to do with his son so I would've just gotten my cut and called shorty after to let her know the deal.
 

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I would just tell dude to get as far away from that woman as he can. Dude doesn't want to play daddy but that's a role you're forced into when you get serious with a woman who has a child. Especially living together, it's impossible to avoid. Honestly, I'm not about to tell a man what to do with his son so I would've just gotten my cut and called shorty after to let her know the deal.

for real dude is lucky he didnt get killed stabbed or beat up

sorry not me
 

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not really down with dating single moms :smugdraper:
but, some of em really cool and bangin body :noah:
but, still i aint about the kid life brehs :upsetfavre:
 

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Take her out to dinner. Get an appetizer, a steak, and dessert. When the check comes tell her you forgot your wallet at home. :myman::steviej:
 

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dating is hard as it is already why making it harder dating a single mom?

there are millions of single women out there without kids, every day women without kids are turning 18 as well


in regards to that story posted, the guy did the right thing, your gf or whatever gave you the responsibility of that kid, but this is why that guy is makign things harder for himself.

now in this situation as a man who will never date a single mom but if i ever did this is what would happen

1. why are you babysitting a kid that aint yours so his mom can go to teh gym, as a man you lay down the law, tell her to get a baby sitter kid aint yours

2. imagine if that scenario turned violent? your gonna risk goign to jail, getting killed, getting beat up over a kid that aint yours/?

3. i understand what the dad is doing, from reading the story he never met dude so hell if i had a kid and i see him/her with a random dude best believe someting is going to go down and best believe I would be angry, the highest molestation rate out there is between step daddies/ and boyfriends of single moms and their kids.

4. look at all this stress this guy is putting himself througgh all for some warm little hole:bryan:
Dating a single mom who's not a widow. you just leave yourself open to too many Ls...
 

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I would just tell dude to get as far away from that woman as he can. Dude doesn't want to play daddy but that's a role you're forced into when you get serious with a woman who has a child. Especially living together, it's impossible to avoid. Honestly, I'm not about to tell a man what to do with his son so I would've just gotten my cut and called shorty after to let her know the deal.
i get where you're coming from but the kid is under your responsibility still. dude kept the kid out of principle eventhough it wasn't conveniant and for that he gets props. but at the same time, maybe he should think about putting "not dating single mothers" in his principles as well to avoid such fukkery in the future. If it was me, you better believe if she wants me to stay in that situation, she better show her appreciation for what i did and treat me like the king of Zamunda from here on out. But most dudes (and i suspect the guy in the story as well) would take that and act like it's nothing and she deserves such favors...
 

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:whew: the last few pages about dating single mothers really scared the shiit out of me, Im never never never ever gonna do it
 

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:whew: the last few pages about dating single mothers really scared the shiit out of me, Im never gonna do it

rarely any positives,

if dad is around your gonna pull up one day and his car gonna be in the driveway and shell be like can you come back later

:leostare:
even if the dad is long gone any time he can pop up and that spark reignites and you';ll get the JB me and javarian are going to try an work it out, im sorry i sitll love you though
 
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