Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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how is that any different than any other ex-boyfriend that she may or may not still have lingering feelings for?

what you have to accept is dating seriously in and of itself is problematic and in the grander scheme of things there's not much you can really do to minimize the risk. there are a bunch of variables in the picture you know little to nothing about because they were planted before you came into the picture. you don't really know any woman's past.

avoiding single mothers isn't going to necessarily lead you to any further prosperity. one thing you'll discover is sometimes women without kids are more fukked up than women with them. i don't have any kids but that is not because i was smart its because i was lucky. i was out fukking raw for years and granted it was with a limited number of people over the course of a relationship. the point is some people don't have any kids because they were lucky not because they were smart or responsible.

:comeon: Are you dating or wifeing up a single mother breh? The way you going out to defend them sounds like you taking it too personal :cape:
 

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I just don't see a reason for it. I'm only 26, not down with the insta-family as some women like to say. I've been out mingling with women and the entire vibe of the conversation changes when I find out they have kids. Fellas don't ever let a woman shame you if you choose not to take on her baggage. They'll call you immature, or say if you were a real man you wouldn't have an issue with her having kids. Just tell her to enjoy her night and keep it moving.

Or ask them if they were single and free with no kids and had a good job would THEY take on a dude with children. :hmm:
 

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:comeon: Are you dating or wifeing up a single mother breh? The way you going out to defend them sounds like you taking it too personal :cape:
no i'm saying if i meet a woman that has it all together she's fine independent and doing well in life and her only major flaw is having a single child i'd possibly be willing to overlook that considering the other circumstances if i was looking to get serious. its not what i'd prefer but you have to make some concessions because at some level you have to settle for less than perfection.

i'm saying that this child isn't the measure of her character, it doesn't doom her to fukking with the baby daddy 5 years down the line just because she had it. the child doesn't mean drama and bullshyt.

its a huge concession but i've come to accept that people having children is normal and excluding potential dating partners over a single child is extreme. now if she's got a child the cooperation better be 110%.
 
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This isn't that kind of thread homie. No shots, do your thing but we're chopping different game

Yeah, lots of questions have been asked in this thread, some are fun questions, others are serious. I have been involved with this thread since it started, and i would consider myself one of the MRA on this forum. Sometimes i burn out from all of the serious talks of mens rights and ask stupid questions. It's all good.
 

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this is rich. "sleep with the bad boy, don't marry him"

these fukking whores are giving faulty advice to younger women. They don't take into consideration that chances are they will get attached to the sex and the emotional rollercoaster if they do in fact sleep with the bad boy. I just hope women get smart enough to not listen to this shyt. They will be miserable following this advice.

Men, we gotta do better. we have to step our game up and teach our women the way. When a girl is your girl, teach her. lead her so that whether it works out with you or not, she doesn't become a fukking bird brain attention-whore if you two were to seperate. Don't do it for her sake. Do it for your own sake cause if you do teach her, chances are she will cause you less problems and help you be happier. everyone can win if you don't simp to your woman and teach her how to fukking live.

This is exactly why you have to have morals and they need to be taught. Whores teaching the younger generation can only give them a whore mentality. This is why society didn't let whores speak in the past, but this weak, liberalized society that wants to 'tolerate' everything, has given whores a platform to spread their virulent mentality.

What those women don't realize is that you can sleep with all those 'bad boys', but men aren't stupid. They are watching waht you are doing. Do they really think that a 'good guy' is eager to take on a baby gravy dumpster? What's sad is that they probably do given they are distributing that advice. These women talk about how much they hate these so called bad boys but end up getting impregnated by them.

This is why threads like this are needed, because a lot of men would be unaware of what's going on until after they got caught in the blender.
 

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Here's a post from that thread about the guy who was dating the single mom earlier:

The dudes chiming in against dating single moms are the same ones who'd bail on a child to begin with. This world needs good dads anyway it can find them. If a man is man enough to stay with a woman with kids, he doesn't need to hear any sh*t from the immature masses that can't even handle their own kids.

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You see that? Man enough? That means nothing to me. I see absolutely no correlation between not raising another man's child, and dipping on your own. It makes no sense. If a man made that comment he's been brainwashed and needs a heavy dose of medicine as Patrice would say.
 

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Aight when it comes to dealing with women with kids. I been in a situation like this TWICE but I was a friend/sort of like a man to the women back in early 20's (long story too much to type).The worst part is not only breaking up with a woman,but the child. The child's father isnt in the childs life,so when you become practically the child's father you are a key figure in his/her life. Now when you break up with her, that child doesnt have that bond with you.A single man and single woman break up chalk it up and keep it moving. When you break up with a woman and her child,not that simple. The child gets hurt and possibly you (everybody threshold of emotional pain is different). Yet on the otherhand a woman should only bring men around her child if its serious and she knows in her heart of hearts that HE is the one. Some single mothers are cool people, but from my experiences they are very needy and arent truly looking for a father to their child,they just want YOU to take care of him/her. Bottom line if you wanna spend your Weekend watching "Dora The Explorer" do you :manny: just know that your needs to her are expendable and that after her child,herself and child's father (if he is alive) your needs are #4 :usure:
 
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