Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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What can you say? Guys bend over backwards to justify dealing with extra-average females. Have you ever wondered where the arrogance many overly average girls have comes from? It comes from people deciding to go the "easy" route with an average girl for their "starter ho." First off, as you are building up, why start with a "ho" and give yourself a potentially bad setback so early in the game? Second, people tend to end the game in a similar fashion as they began. I see guys start off with average girls, go a little higher and then settle with average girls again. Then folks say, "Who saw it coming?" Please. The dude started average, leveled up a little and then faltered - so going back to average was like a salmon going back to the place of its birth - going back to its roots. If you have that extra-average stuff in your dreams, ambitions, and tastes, that is all you are ever going to pull because your standards and the respect you demand is such.
 

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[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KTD6NuqFh3A"]Illogical Women 2.. - YouTube[/ame] stuff he's talking about in this video hits so close to home.

a woman will remember that you treated her well and if yall fall out at some point she'll come back and try to get back together with you. it could be her seeing the error of her ways and it could be her just trying to use you.

if i fukk somebody over and things go south i'm not coming back on some hey how you doing i miss you crap. i'll leave it in the past and move on.
 

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as well no matter how "great" a chicks life seems for the most part its not.

example of two females i know

to people looking in

exhibit a)
has a job
has her own place
looks amazing
can cook/clean etc.
church going


youd see her in the mall and holla get that number and start talking to her and be like damn son i won


however

- has a kid
- baby father always over a few times a week even spending the night
- 30k in debt
- credit score in the 500s
- clubs
- has had abortions and stds
- dealt with suicidal thoughts

exhibit b

- has her own place
- church going girl
- has her own car
- has a good job
- looks amazing
- doesnt curse, drink, smoke


however

- has a kid
- baby father doesnt pay child support
- has slept with over 30 guys in the past
- cheated on the only good guy she ever dated becasue she was "scared"
- wont settle
- is in counselling



what im saying brehs, is dig deep, never commit off the bat, just like makeup hides imperfections and flaws, women hide theirs, you may look on the outside and in and be like damn i won, only to find out :youngsabo:
the difference between most women and most men is most women know their flaws and know them well. because they do they can adapt and conceal them or learn how to tailor what they do around them.

the average male is purely egotistical. he doesn't even want to acknowledge his flaws just pretend they don't exist. because of that and how observant women are his flaws can be exploited to a woman's advantage.

the male ego is his greatest weakness.
 

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Illogical Women 2.. - YouTube stuff he's talking about in this video hits so close to home.

a woman will remember that you treated her well and if yall fall out at some point she'll come back and try to get back together with you. it could be her seeing the error of her ways and it could be her just trying to use you.

if i fukk somebody over and things go south i'm not coming back on some hey how you doing i miss you crap. i'll leave it in the past and move on.

Watches


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk breh!
 

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"If she cheats, leave her" (By @_Avant_) - http://tinyurl.com/6ovg5d2

I totally agree. If you're doing your part in the relationship and she still goes and cheats, then yeah cut off her totally. Don't scheme, plot revenge, or wonder "why?", just get rid of her.

I'm a loyal dude, so cheating on me is a deal breaker no matter what.
 

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I totally agree. If you're doing your part in the relationship and she still goes and cheats, then yeah cut off her totally. Don't scheme, plot revenge, or wonder "why?", just get rid of her.

I'm a loyal dude, so cheating on me is a deal breaker no matter what.

most men dont take back cheaters, most women will give another chance
as a man there is nothing worse than knowing your girl was sucking another dudes dikk or getting her back blown out, or even just flirting with another dude
 

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It cannot be emphasized enough that you have factor in a woman's family background/structure when deciding on whether or not to deal with her because for the most part, it is a strong indicator on what her values are and how she behaves. So, if a female's family structure is extremely fukked up, run the other direction because she is going to attempt project whatever baggage she has from her upbringing onto you. I am sure those who disagree will be quick to say I am being judgmental. But, everyone makes judgments in general, so you can go elsewhere with that "you are being judgmental" rhetoric.
 

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Let me have a piece of that:
4. Don't get a woman that doesn't work, or is underemployed (e.g. 35 years old and flipping burgers at McDonalds). C'mon, B, the economy ain't takin' any prisoners and some ppl gotta do, what they gotta do. Atleast she ain't turnin' tricks or stealin'.

5. Don't date a woman who has 4 kids by 5 different guys (hey, maybe she did a threesome once?) Duh...

15. Don't date a woman who calls you more than twice a day (and twice is one too many), or at nutty hours of the day or night. Why is twice so bad?

16. Don't date a woman that always has her girlfriend, sister, or other female by their side. That's a little over board.

20. If you're into older women (like me), don't date a woman who takes her of-age daughter with her to the night club. :scheme: So you datin' single moms @His_Excellence_Reincar? :laugh: I'm trollin', but, that should have been covered with the "No Single Moms" rule


24. Don't date a woman whose car seems to always have a new dent or mechanical problem every week. AND DON'T LOAN HER YOUR CAR! I agree with not lettin' her borrow yours, but, there's dudes who don't know to care for a car

25. Don't date a woman whose house is done in the leopard or tiger motif. :laugh: Just funny

27-28. Sex is for married folk Fixed :hmm:
 
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