Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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This some real nikka shyt right here. :myman:
She really think im Finna spend my money at an expensive Ethiopian spot with a bunch of nikkas i dont know all in the name of being in her company :mjlol:

I bet she was gonna try to have me pay for her bill too. Silly Lil girl thought she caught her a big fish
 

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I'm amazed at the number of women i meet online who tout how much they go to church, and ask you if you go to church, etc.....y'all go on a couple-few dates, talk on the phone, text every day. ....and then they just get flaky and/or then completely GHOST on you.

:why:

You text them and never hear back. Then after a couple days I'm like, "alright, well good luck. Take care." No response.

Like, that's real "Christian/Christ-like" of you. :what: There's a reason why these type of women stay single...but yet they wonder why things don't work out for them.

That's happened to me 3 times over the past several weeks.

LOL I'm waaaaaay past expecting christians to be "christ like", if anything I'm surprised when they even practice what they preach at all. I don't respond to women on apps who are christians. Saves my valuable time.
 

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Which explains why online dating can be a waste most of the time because you make one mistake and the bomb blows up.

Also explains why some women are so are never happy because when you get that petty you can never just enjoy life.

I’ve never done online dating. My friends do though. One of them said last night that her cut off game was strong this week.:dead:
 

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I guess the point of this story is to show why being a guy is awesome and why a lot of men dislike women past a sexual level.

I went out around my campus bars last night. It was super early, like 9 pm early, so most of the bars were dead. The bar I went to I saw a dude behind the counter and was like :francis: on the inside. As a dude when you want to go out you like to look at something nice behind the bar when you're drinking. The OKC vs Denver game was on so I told myself might as well chill here for a while :yeshrug:. I sat down and dude instantly started a convo with me and wouldn't let it go. Now for the first moment of it or so I was like :hhh: but then I quickly turned :ehh: because there's no reason to being a douche when someone is genuinely tryna talk to you with that type of effort.

And this is why being a dude is awesome. Never met the dude in my life and we shoot the shyt about sports, video games, dieting, exercising, drinking, etc. Women came thru, his gf came thru, his buddies came thru, and I chilled with all of them the entire night and I was treated like one of their own. :wow:



Now during one of our convos before the rest of his crew came thru, dude vented on his coworker bartenders-- of course, they were all females. Basically the short side of his stories is how none of them socialize with him, let alone talk at all. When he first worked there and trained the female coworker taught him nothing at all and left him to figure out for himself, another time is when a chick clocked in 30 minutes early and just sat in the corner on her phone not saying anything.


I believed everything he had to say. Because usually when I go there, I end up thinking the female bartenders are stuck up bytches :mjlol:.

But anyways breh was so passionate about his venting and the coli/patrice o'neal in me wanted to go on a tangent about how women aren't shyt and this is why we don't like them. I figured I would have come off weird so I saved it for here. :russ:



But yo this is why dudes don't like a lot of women. A guy puts in all that energy, and for what? Just to get a regular conversation to kill the time from them long ass shifts. But nope, the women there refuse to match the same energy. Knowing damn well she's probably one wording 20 dudes through her text messages at the moment. :mjlol: It's just like why are you allowed to have such arrogance? These chicks not saving the world, some all goat athlete, or bill gates level of genius.


If it was one of those stuck up bytches working last night then I would of had two to three drinks and left. Instead, I chilled with some cool people and they invited me back tonight. :ehh:
 

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he made a comment about how he’s a man, so he just wants to imagine how sexy I’ll look that night and some other dumb shyt, I stopped responding, he continued texting me. I blocked him because it was making me cringe. He was super thirsty, within minutes of giving him my number( he approached me at a grocery store) he was blowing up my phone. The next morning 7am texts. I just... nah.

Well, yeah that's just weird. Lol
 

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Well, yeah that's just weird. Lol

but you’d be surprised at how often brehs send weird messages to me. Even had a breh send me three videos of him singing some gospel song. It was random and he sent me a video of him at a chiropractors office this was all within an hour. I had a breh go off on me for not responding to his texts fast enough—I was in meetings all day. We had only exchanged numbers the day before. I’ve had brehs try to force me to kiss them(literally grabbing my face) on first dates, trying to get me to feel their erections. Not letting me leave the date. List goes on. A lot of weirdos outchea.

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Sounds about right. Why haven’t you done it?

im old fashion and weird. Find the concept of online dating to be too intentional and forced. I’m also not on social media besides LinkedIn. I have a low opinion of it all. I like just meeting people organically, when out and about. I find that the men I’ve dated don’t do it either actually.
 

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im old fashion and weird. Find the concept of online dating to be too intentional and forced. I’m also not on social media besides LinkedIn. I have a low opinion of it all. I like just meeting people organically, when out and about. I find that the men I’ve dated don’t do it either actually.
A woman not on social media like Instagram or Facebook? That is strange but it probably helps you stand out.
 

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New coworker of 4 weeks. Was hot, now cold. :camby:
To add, I asked her close friend at work (they new each other from another office) if she knew why this new co-worker was being short with me all of a sudden...she said she didn't know while smiling but would ask her, but I told her not to because I wanted to ask myself during break.

An hour later I go back to the friend to ask her something work-related and she said she couldn't help it and asked the new co-worker if she was mad at me. She said the new co-worker told her something but didn't want to tell me what and wanted the two of us to talk it out. I asked her what she said and she started cheesing again.

Later on break I approach new co-worker and asked her why she was acting different, she plays dumb says she's not. She was busy so I said we'll talk later. At the end of the day, I go up to her again before I left. I said I don't appreciate you being short with me and if she was mad at me then it's best she kept it real and tell me why. She said if she was mad at me she would be given me one word answers. I told her that's exactly what she was doing. Even though there were instances during the day where we would conversate more times than not it was one word answers. I asked for her number at the end, she gave it to me but said "I'm giving it to you but for work purposes only :troll:"

I made the initial text on the spot, her phone was charging. This was yesterday at like 7 or 8 last nite. No text back response since then. :mjlol:
 
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To add, I asked her close friend at work (they new each other from another office) if she knew why this new co-worker was being short with me all of a sudden...she said she didn't know while smiling but would ask her, but I told her not to because I wanted to ask myself during break.

An hour later I go back to the friend to ask her something work-related and she said she couldn't help it and asked the new co-worker if she was mad at me. She said the new co-worker told her something but didn't want to tell me what and wanted the two of us to talk it out. I asked her what she said and she started cheesing again.

Later on break I approach new co-worker and asked her why she was acting different, she plays dumb says she's not. She was busy so I said we'll talk later. At the end of the day, I go up to her again before I left. I said I don't appreciate you being short with me and if she was mad at me then it's best she kept it real and tell me why. She said if she was mad at me she would be given me one word answers. I told her that's exactly what she was doing. Even though there were instances during the day where we would conversate more times than not it was one word answers. I asked for her number at the end, she gave it to me but said "I'm giving it to you but for work purposes only :troll:"

Sounds like a few drinks will fix that situation.
 
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