Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[CarmelBarbie]

To add @CarmelBarbie because I forgot to touch on this point, she was flirting but only that way with me and by the way she was flirting I could tell she not that experienced... She was asking other co-workers personal information about me, co-workers would come to me and say she asked about me. The way I look at it, this is either some push-pull shyt or she trying to dead feelings for me. Because we work together at least 3 days a week, I feel it's best to limit talk to small talk and nothing more. We only been working together a month.

she may have been interested in you but then something happened that turned her off. based on her not responding to your text yesterday and her recent behavior she’s not as interested as she was, could be because of what may have happened, or she could just be playing games. Either scenario though means it’s best to move on. Move on breh.

 

[Arithmetic]

You fukked up...

She sensed you were feeling her heavy and started to play the mind games...

She should have been the one to offer or give hints that she wants ti exchange numbers..

You pretty much gotta act like she dont exist and give her attention on your terms...

Make her work for it...

I know the feeling of crushing heavy on a co worker and acting like you dont wanna talk

Honestly, I played it too cool. That and I'm flirty by nature with everyone but it's always in good taste. I think she peeped that.

 

[Arithmetic]

99% likely she already fukking somebody, sound like you coming on too strong tbh. Chasing and worrying about why she doing what she doing. Stop trying to put logic to a woman.


You wilding imo anyway cause it sound like yall work on the same team or something, thats different then just working in the same company. That shyt is a recipe for disaster unless you know you leaving soon anyway.

Breh. Let me be clear. The first 3 weeks she was coming on strong. I played it cool and ignored her sometimes. Even when other coworkers were coming up to me about her. This week, she pulled back. I would understand if I was coming on too strong, but that's not the case here. But I already decided I'm pushing it forward and turning my radio signals off going forward. She's never had a bf. No kids.

 

[Max.]

Bad bytch on tinder super liked me...

Im scrolling n guess what i run out of right swipes on her....i check utube n get a

"U missed a match alert" smfh

 

[CW_1991]

This one chick I use to smash from time to time a few years back doesn't give me the time of day anymore but had nerve to ask me to help her get some weed tonight (I'm cool with a fellow who smokes a lot).

bytch been leaving me on read, flaking on meetups, always got an excuse, etc. Textbook low interest which is fine, but don't expect favors.

 

[Silkk]

Breh. Let me be clear. The first 3 weeks she was coming on strong. I played it cool and ignored her sometimes. Even when other coworkers were coming up to me about her. This week, she pulled back. I would understand if I was coming on too strong, but that's not the case here. But I already decided I'm pushing it forward and turning my radio signals off going forward. She's never had a bf. No kids.

Maybe, But it's not like she never had a nikka

 

[Arithmetic]

Maybe, But it's not like she never had a nikka

Come on breh. I'm not rookie. Girl is inexperienced and more than likely a virgin.

 

[Arithmetic]

she may have been interested in you but then something happened that turned her off. based on her not responding to your text yesterday and her recent behavior she’s not as interested as she was, could be because of what may have happened, or she could just be playing games. Either scenario though means it’s best to move on. Move on breh.

dont date or associate with women at work
if she's trying to be hot and cold, just back the hell away don't message, call nothing

next thing you know your black azz will be in hr

I came to this conclusion too. I never initiate in the workplace. I may flirt but I never initiate when it comes to connecting on another level. That's why I came to this thread, because that's what this thread is for. Even though naturally I'm gonna keep it pushing, still curious what y'all had to say.

 

[Silkk]

Come on breh. I'm not rookie. Girl is inexperienced and more than likely a virgin.

Aight Breh.....

 

[Ahadi]

Tips on how to get black women? For some reason I’m always placed as jump through hoops/clean up man, or it doesn’t work out cause I didn’t go to an HBCU or something else.

It’s kinda sad and frustrating.

 

[Arithmetic]

Tips on how to get black women? For some reason I’m always placed as jump through hoops/clean up man, or it doesn’t work out cause I didn’t go to an HBCU or something else.

It’s kinda sad and frustrating.

Find black women who appreciate who you are

 

[Balla]

remember last year it was raining didn't give a chick my jacket that was that

Real as fukk

 

[Balla]

Meh it isn’t typically about cheating. It’s more about not liking certain things that may have been said or that you did that you might not even think was an issue. I did block a man recently because he was too fixated on my looks. He was so fixated that even while complimenting he wanted find out was wearing that evening and when I asked why, he made a comment about how he’s a man, so he just wants to imagine how sexy I’ll look that night and some other dumb shyt, I stopped responding, he continued texting me. I blocked him because it was making me cringe. He was super thirsty, within minutes of giving him my number( he approached me at a grocery store) he was blowing up my phone. The next morning 7am texts. I just... nah. The kicker that guy was in his late thirties.

My friend showed us a text of a man asking if he can send her a nude. That guy in his thirties...

A lot of times it’s small dumb stuff like that. On dates it’s honestly the same. Small dumb avoidable stuff that you might not even think was a big deal.

How did he holla at you to give him the number? He gave you a compliment or something? He must of came in smooth and lost his cool lol.

 

[MikelArteta]

I came to this conclusion too. I never initiate in the workplace. I may flirt but I never initiate when it comes to connecting on another level. That's why I came to this thread, because that's what this thread is for. Even though naturally I'm gonna keep it pushing, still curious what y'all had to say.

if a woman really is interested in you, nothing will keep her away

 

[CarmelBarbie]

How did he holla at you to give him the number? He gave you a compliment or something? He must of came in smooth and lost his cool lol.

He caught me off guard. I was exiting the store and he rushed out behind me, came out of nowhere. Told me I was gorgeous, and asked if he could take me out that night and I forgot what else. He was smooth with it. Tbh it all happened so fast, didn’t have a chance to think about a rejection. He was cute. Funny thing is he went back into the store after he got my number. But I think he could tell that if I would’ve had a few seconds more to think about shyt, I would have said no. he brought up in the texts too. Overall seemed insecure, too thirsty and shallow.