Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Ahadi

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You could write a whole thing about on linguistics, and the shaping of words through social media. I commented a few times about that recently.

Intentional is one of those words that in it's current iteration, or one of them, is women talking like I only want a guy that treats me from the outset like he wants to marry me and take care of me. Like expensive spot, flowers, a gift. It's not getting to know you, it's proving yourself. it's also a bizarre way of closing yourself off from connection.

It's a testament to social media's warping of everyone's mind. Basically everything getting more extreme, and having to heighten their personal value and brand. People think they are being like wise and "traditional" but they are unintentionally mischaracterizing history. Courting and all that ritualistic shyt was when people had very very few options, both men and women. And women who weren't from wealthy families, or royalty, were essentially indigent.

I know women who talk like that, make Tik Toks about it. And some of them practice it. Esp. on a dating app. I take them them out to lavish dates, but it's on my terms.

bytches watching too much Bridgerton & picking parts of history to implement today.

Agreed. It should always be on your terms & they should be also proving themselves.
 

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Spring / Summer coming

:blessed:

Date options below:

Coffee
Ice Cream / Frozen Yogurt / Vegan Ice Cream / Protein Shake
Happy Hour
Bottle of Wine in the park / pier
Outdoor concert (Jazz, R&B, etc)
Go for a Walk
 

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Spring / Summer coming

:blessed:

Date options below:

Coffee
Ice Cream / Frozen Yogurt / Vegan Ice Cream / Protein Shake
Happy Hour
Bottle of Wine in the park / pier
Outdoor concert (Jazz, R&B, etc)
Go for a Walk
thats not intentional enough tho.
 

Tommy Lee Jones

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also I said to her what does that even mean and she unmatched me. I wasn't taking her out after her response but I was curious what she was gonna say back.
 

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The thing with dating apps is it has this overwhelming subtext of intent, like state your purpose, but you are shooting blind, or with carefully selected information.
 

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Regardless of that, at least you don't have to worry about her anymore...





For now at least :manny:
too many men put up with bullshyt and try to date bytches that aren't interested or aren't cooperating. If she has an attitude or is making you jump through hoops it's bushes status.
 
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