Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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You should've permanently bushed her once y'all broke up.

Is it possible she had a kid during that time span?
I know I should've but we ended up living in the same neighborhood after the breakup. No kid but I did start to wonder if maybe she had an abortion. In my teens I dated a girl who had an abortion (for me), and I smashed a girl who had a kid a month or 2 prior, and neither can compare to how loose this shorty was. I'm just curious what y'all think the bytch was doing? And was I was out of line for telling her?
 

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I'm just curious what y'all think the bytch was doing? And was I was out of line for telling her?

Breh. Some of us over obsess over stuff like this. Trust me, you'll NEVER find out. Women lie when they want to, and think nothing of it.
The more you try to think about it and the more you ask others it'll either piss you off or make you crazy.

I advise you to start talking to other women, go out and meet women and dont even let this ex enter your mind. Maybe she played you this time, maybe she didn't either way, either way gotta move it along.
 

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If ur a nice lookin guy and they see ur educated, can hold a conversation, they want a relationship
If they ghosted on you, did they really want a relationship? If they aren't smashing early, I chalk it up to them having trust issues, which is obviously a bad omen.
 

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I’ll keep it short: broke up with an ex two years ago. We were together for 3+ years. We got back in touch last year, she’s telling me she was with an older guy (40+; I’m in my 20s) but realizes I’m her soulmate and wants to be with me. Says she stopped smashing guy, makes me wait a few months and lets me smash. Bruh the p*ssy was so loose I was beside myself. I just hit an escort/stripper (who I knew before her profession) after not seeing her for 3 years and her p*ssy was nowhere near as loose as my ex’s was. Her p*ssy in 2017 and 2019 were completely different, like it had lost all elasticity and was just a loose hole. The first few rounds were at night with the lights off and I couldn’t really tell. Before I hit, I asked her how she felt and she said “nervous” and I shoulda known something was up. What killed me is she was running game the whole time, telling me she wasn’t fukking anyone and we’re soulmates yada yada. I usually don’t fall for it but she got me. Her p*ssy felt like someone had just smashed no less than 24 hours prior. We stopped talking a few days later, when we got into a fight and I told her how I felt. I still feel bad for telling her. When I told her, all she said was “I don’t have a time machine.” It’s still killing me inside cause I really loved shorty but I can’t even really look at her the same. She’s still swearing she only slept with one guy since we broke up. Has anyone ever experienced this?



If you are not with someone they can do whatever they want breh

Secondly nWomen always lie about their sex partners breh
 

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If they ghosted on you, did they really want a relationship? If they aren't smashing early, I chalk it up to them having trust issues, which is obviously a bad omen.

I usually deal with women over 30.. They SAY they want relationships.

If they're wanting a smash they don't make it very clear.

I think when women want something physical you know it.
 

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I'm amazed at the number of women i meet online who tout how much they go to church, and ask you if you go to church, etc.....y'all go on a couple-few dates, talk on the phone, text every day. ....and then they just get flaky and/or then completely GHOST on you.

:why:

You text them and never hear back. Then after a couple days I'm like, "alright, well good luck. Take care." No response.

Like, that's real "Christian/Christ-like" of you. :what: There's a reason why these type of women stay single...but yet they wonder why things don't work out for them.

That's happened to me 3 times over the past several weeks.



Women are transient, any woman you talk too just imagine she's talking to 10 other guys. Right now you have her attention but if someone catches it you don't exist anymore.

Best thing is just to adjust your attitude where you don't expect anything.

I prob met and went out with over fifty chicks last year not talking to even one at the moment.

Just a few weeks ago met this Indian chick at a wedding I shot was talking texting every day was suppose to go out last moment she said something come up

Haven't heard from her since :heh:

Back in the day this would have bothered me

Now it's meh I'm happy actually these chicks ain't wasting my time

And it's also why I talk to a bunch of women at all times and always replenish when my stock gets low
 

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I’ll keep it short: broke up with an ex two years ago. We were together for 3+ years. We got back in touch last year, she’s telling me she was with an older guy (40+; I’m in my 20s) but realizes I’m her soulmate and wants to be with me. Says she stopped smashing guy, makes me wait a few months and lets me smash. Bruh the p*ssy was so loose I was beside myself. I just hit an escort/stripper (who I knew before her profession) after not seeing her for 3 years and her p*ssy was nowhere near as loose as my ex’s was. Her p*ssy in 2017 and 2019 were completely different, like it had lost all elasticity and was just a loose hole. The first few rounds were at night with the lights off and I couldn’t really tell. Before I hit, I asked her how she felt and she said “nervous” and I shoulda known something was up. What killed me is she was running game the whole time, telling me she wasn’t fukking anyone and we’re soulmates yada yada. I usually don’t fall for it but she got me. Her p*ssy felt like someone had just smashed no less than 24 hours prior. We stopped talking a few days later, when we got into a fight and I told her how I felt. I still feel bad for telling her. When I told her, all she said was “I don’t have a time machine.” It’s still killing me inside cause I really loved shorty but I can’t even really look at her the same. She’s still swearing she only slept with one guy since we broke up. Has anyone ever experienced this?

this isn’t funny, but that made me bust out laughing. :dead:So sorry breh. Sounds like you just need to keep her an ex.
 

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I'm amazed at the number of women i meet online who tout how much they go to church, and ask you if you go to church, etc.....y'all go on a couple-few dates, talk on the phone, text every day. ....and then they just get flaky and/or then completely GHOST on you.

:why:

You text them and never hear back. Then after a couple days I'm like, "alright, well good luck. Take care." No response.

Like, that's real "Christian/Christ-like" of you. :what: There's a reason why these type of women stay single...but yet they wonder why things don't work out for them.

That's happened to me 3 times over the past several weeks.

Just had a group conversation with friends about this—a lot of us are flakey and petty, one wrong text, strange mishap, or “off” vibe during a date will usually result in cutting guys off/blocking them. :francis:
 

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If you are not with someone they can do whatever they want breh

Secondly nWomen always lie about their sex partners breh
That’s a fact. I just felt bamboozled that shorty was having me listen to her problems, call me her soulmate and all types of shyt just to lay down and give me some ran through p*ssy. But lesson learned.
 

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Heres a quick gem for yall... Stop listening to dudes about what women like or don't like. Im talking about your friends, brothers, uncles, you tubers influencers, pimps... None of them nikkas.

Stop asking women what they look for and like in other guys.

Start asking female friends, fwb, sister's home girls, etc what they like and don't like about YOU. Pay attention to the first thing they say and how long it takes to answer. Pay attention to how many different answers you get and how many are repeated.

Learn how the opposite sex perceives you, find your lane and master it.

Everybody ain't for everybody but there is somebody who wants YOU right tf now if you know where to look.
 

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Heres a quick gem for yall... Stop listening to dudes about what women like or don't like. Im talking about your friends, brothers, uncles, you tubers influencers, pimps... None of them nikkas.

Stop asking women what they look for and like in other guys.

Start asking female friends, fwb, sister's home girls, etc what they like and don't like about YOU. Pay attention to the first thing they say and how long it takes to answer. Pay attention to how many different answers you get and how many are repeated.

Learn how the opposite sex perceives you, find your lane and master it.

Everybody ain't for everybody but there is somebody who wants YOU right tf now if you know where to look.
Never ask women that stuff, breh.
 

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Just had a group conversation with friends about this—a lot of us are flakey and petty, one wrong text, strange mishap, or “off” vibe during a date will usually result in cutting guys off/blocking them. :francis:

That women's intuition is often incorrect when it comes to men.:yeshrug:

Maybe you can tell when dudes are cheating but judging a dude character y'all are often incorrect

But thanks for being honest
 
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Heres a quick gem for yall... Stop listening to dudes about what women like or don't like. Im talking about your friends, brothers, uncles, you tubers influencers, pimps... None of them nikkas.

I disagree 1000% breh.

Actually if I had listened to rappers advice on women instead of thinking they were simply being misogynistic or hateful, it'd be a lot less riff raff.

Instead, we listen to a lot of R&B singers and other love songs singers who are really only singing about a tiny 1% of good women that actually exist. And even those guys are only singing those type of songs because women are the ones supporting their albums
 
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