Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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i met this German chicc on Hinge . She 35 yrs old, no kids , just got to this country less than a yr ago

She said she wanna spoil me, she "love" succin dicc, she's gonna cook "schnitzel" , and give me a massage and run my bath water lol

She'll be over for the weekend

:lupe:

i aint gonna lie, im second guessin this cuz I think I'd fall for this type of shyt. My ex was the polar opposite.
 
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My love life is spiraling out of control

Met a chick at a coffee shop from IG, she's cool. After the initial link, we kicked it like 4 times and she brought her homegirl with her each time and resulted in us gettin' fukked up and just chillin together. Had me feelin' like Lou Will. I would text like, "ya'll come through tonight." Allegedly got to talking about how I was gonna do the p*ssy in a 3 someone one drunken night. Kickin' it is back down to 1 on 1....chick came over on Valentine's Day and didn't let me fukk smh

My best friend is a chick and she put me down with one of her homegirls. She's idea for most but I have shallow tendencies that won't let me get serious with her. She's the chick I talk to the most. I know I need to let her go but I don't know how yet.

One of the chicks that braids my hair has been tryna get close to ya boy- had one of her friends leave some shyt at my door on Valentine's Day while I was at work. I hit it before and ain't tryna go down that road but she's fun so I entertain her.

There's another chick I see all the time. I came across her business card, then added her on IG. Sent her an invite to an event for next Tuesday, fat Tuesday. She got right to it, telling me how she been peepin' me. Pulled up on me the same night, Monday, spent the night, gave me some head cause she was on her period and now she wants to takes shyt slow. I heard her say, "I can get use to this" when she walked in the crib...yea iight...she dope as shyt tho

I went to a networking event a couple weeks ago and I get an email yesterday from a chick I met asking me if I received the slides from the event. I was like yeah and she asked me to send em to her. I was like, I find it interesting that you found me without me giving you my last name she replied with her number. Talked for about an hour yesterday but I need to see her again to remember her. I just remember light skin, big curly hair and thick.

Then I have 4-6 chicks that I'm sporadic with that messages and link from time to time.

I can't wait until I meet the one, I'ma drop these hoes so quick. I just got a number from a coworker while typing this post and she's so damn fine - works in HR though. I message her every now and then just to check on her. Today I asked if I could text, she asked if I was married before sending the digits
 

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My love life is spiraling out of control

Met a chick at a coffee shop from IG, she's cool. After the initial link, we kicked it like 4 times and she brought her homegirl with her each time and resulted in us gettin' fukked up and just chillin together. Had me feelin' like Lou Will. I would text like, "ya'll come through tonight." Allegedly got to talking about how I was gonna do the p*ssy in a 3 someone one drunken night. Kickin' it is back down to 1 on 1....chick came over on Valentine's Day and didn't let me fukk smh

My best friend is a chick and she put me down with one of her homegirls. She's idea for most but I have shallow tendencies that won't let me get serious with her. She's the chick I talk to the most. I know I need to let her go but I don't know how yet.

One of the chicks that braids my hair has been tryna get close to ya boy- had one of her friends leave some shyt at my door on Valentine's Day while I was at work. I hit it before and ain't tryna go down that road but she's fun so I entertain her.

There's another chick I see all the time. I came across her business card, then added her on IG. Sent her an invite to an event for next Tuesday, fat Tuesday. She got right to it, telling me how she been peepin' me. Pulled up on me the same night, Monday, spent the night, gave me some head cause she was on her period and now she wants to takes shyt slow. I heard her say, "I can get use to this" when she walked in the crib...yea iight...she dope as shyt tho

I went to a networking event a couple weeks ago and I get an email yesterday from a chick I met asking me if I received the slides from the event. I was like yeah and she asked me to send em to her. I was like, I find it interesting that you found me without me giving you my last name she replied with her number. Talked for about an hour yesterday but I need to see her again to remember her. I just remember light skin, big curly hair and thick.

Then I have 4-6 chicks that I'm sporadic with that messages and link from time to time.

I can't wait until I meet the one, I'ma drop these hoes so quick. I just got a number from a coworker while typing this post and she's so damn fine - works in HR though. I message her every now and then just to check on her. Today I asked if I could text, she asked if I was married before sending the digits
:whoo::whoo::whoo:
 

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My love life is spiraling out of control

Met a chick at a coffee shop from IG, she's cool. After the initial link, we kicked it like 4 times and she brought her homegirl with her each time and resulted in us gettin' fukked up and just chillin together. Had me feelin' like Lou Will. I would text like, "ya'll come through tonight." Allegedly got to talking about how I was gonna do the p*ssy in a 3 someone one drunken night. Kickin' it is back down to 1 on 1....chick came over on Valentine's Day and didn't let me fukk smh

My best friend is a chick and she put me down with one of her homegirls. She's idea for most but I have shallow tendencies that won't let me get serious with her. She's the chick I talk to the most. I know I need to let her go but I don't know how yet.

One of the chicks that braids my hair has been tryna get close to ya boy- had one of her friends leave some shyt at my door on Valentine's Day while I was at work. I hit it before and ain't tryna go down that road but she's fun so I entertain her.

There's another chick I see all the time. I came across her business card, then added her on IG. Sent her an invite to an event for next Tuesday, fat Tuesday. She got right to it, telling me how she been peepin' me. Pulled up on me the same night, Monday, spent the night, gave me some head cause she was on her period and now she wants to takes shyt slow. I heard her say, "I can get use to this" when she walked in the crib...yea iight...she dope as shyt tho

I went to a networking event a couple weeks ago and I get an email yesterday from a chick I met asking me if I received the slides from the event. I was like yeah and she asked me to send em to her. I was like, I find it interesting that you found me without me giving you my last name she replied with her number. Talked for about an hour yesterday but I need to see her again to remember her. I just remember light skin, big curly hair and thick.

Then I have 4-6 chicks that I'm sporadic with that messages and link from time to time.

I can't wait until I meet the one, I'ma drop these hoes so quick. I just got a number from a coworker while typing this post and she's so damn fine - works in HR though. I message her every now and then just to check on her. Today I asked if I could text, she asked if I was married before sending the digits

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One thing I learned about bytches these days, they don't want to be locked down. You can't force the relationship, you gotta let it grow organically to the point where she couldn't imagine living without you.


A chick gotta like you more than you like her

This chick I dealt with two years ago on and off basically was my rebound after my ex fiance. Haven't seen her since Dec 2017
Every few months she will send me a email asking for my number or ish or how much she misses me

Now the women I have loved nothing
 

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I wanna give one of these shortys my healthcare, dental plan and tuition reimbursement , that’s all :mjcry:

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We both 21

her.. doing the whole college thing, partying, involved in student activities etc. Nursing major

Me...I got a good government job, my own spot, car. doing decent as someone with just a hs diploma.

so I was ready to really lock things down and wife basically. She wasn’t going, along with me being an a$$hole and I moved outta Chi for a almost a year, really killed the relationship.

I moved back and tried to make amends but she was so damaged from the bs I put her through while I was gone. her sister tried to get us back together in august but I wasn’t trying to at the time:manny:

you're only 21, if you cut the ties now it will hurt for a little bit but i guarantee in a year from now you'll back and laugh

trust me i'm almost 35 , chicks i thought the world of at 21 I just look back and laugh
 

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I've been listening to Patrice O'Neal's Black Phillip a lot again. A new philosophy I have gained from him is not giving women your attention, especially if they don't deserve it. Why should I spend hours having a convo with you in text/snap when 9 times out of 10 it's going to lead you into ghosting me for good one day?Women value attention as much as dudes value sex, and once they get enough of it they're on to the next dude.

Recently I been straight up with women.

"aye, come thru."

They either come thru, agree to and cancel, or flat out make an excuse. If it's the last two options then I flat out stop responding to the chick.
I'm not about to waste my valuable time talking to you about bullshyt when you can just come over and then I'll give you attention because it will lead to things.
Funny thing is when I stop messaging these chicks they tend to message me randomly a lot more.
 
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