Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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My gf has had my password this entire time and must not have ever gone through my phone. :ehh: Just told her If she unlocks it she can get the pics I took today and she did. Never knew she knew and good thing she never went through it.

That's for the best :whew:
 

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My gf has had my password this entire time and must not have ever gone through my phone. :ehh: Just told her If she unlocks it she can get the pics I took today and she did. Never knew she knew and good thing she never went through it.

That's for the best :whew:
She's gone through your phone hundreds of times pleighboi
:lolbron:

She's got the evidence and she's just waiting for the right moment
 

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I've been listening to Patrice O'Neal's Black Phillip a lot again. A new philosophy I have gained from him is not giving women your attention, especially if they don't deserve it. Why should I spend hours having a convo with you in text/snap when 9 times out of 10 it's going to lead you into ghosting me for good one day?Women value attention as much as dudes value sex, and once they get enough of it they're on to the next dude.

Recently I been straight up with women.

"aye, come thru."

They either come thru, agree to and cancel, or flat out make an excuse. If it's the last two options then I flat out stop responding to the chick.
I'm not about to waste my valuable time talking to you about bullshyt when you can just come over and then I'll give you attention because it will lead to things.
Funny thing is when I stop messaging these chicks they tend to message me randomly a lot more.


Smart as Patrice would say dont be a time ho
 

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Drop more info!!! That shyt :wow:

I don't even care.. I feel like age and stress contribute to this. I wasn't even angry, she attempted to victimize herself of course which failed because I had zero emotions to give her once I confronted her.. She then dragged her parents into it, thinking they'll be allies to her fukk shyt, and that failed. They came up to NC and I talked to her father, calmly I explained what happened and once I finished all he could do is give me the :francis: face.

Obviously you want to always think the best of your children, it hurt his soul when I brought out evidence of her trifling movements and honestly, I felt that was payback enough in him knowing that his daughter is a scandalous ho.

I'm in my 40s and honestly, I'm tired of relationships and don't see myself having the energy to do this shyt all over again. I have two kids, a solid career and my looks are still intact so I can get what I need, how I need it. I actually have to go to Charlotte to meet with this woman to lay out terms of how support for the kids is going to go next week. Should be fun.
 

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I’ll keep it short: broke up with an ex two years ago. We were together for 3+ years. We got back in touch last year, she’s telling me she was with an older guy (40+; I’m in my 20s) but realizes I’m her soulmate and wants to be with me. Says she stopped smashing guy, makes me wait a few months and lets me smash. Bruh the p*ssy was so loose I was beside myself. I just hit an escort/stripper (who I knew before her profession) after not seeing her for 3 years and her p*ssy was nowhere near as loose as my ex’s was. Her p*ssy in 2017 and 2019 were completely different, like it had lost all elasticity and was just a loose hole. The first few rounds were at night with the lights off and I couldn’t really tell. Before I hit, I asked her how she felt and she said “nervous” and I shoulda known something was up. What killed me is she was running game the whole time, telling me she wasn’t fukking anyone and we’re soulmates yada yada. I usually don’t fall for it but she got me. Her p*ssy felt like someone had just smashed no less than 24 hours prior. We stopped talking a few days later, when we got into a fight and I told her how I felt. I still feel bad for telling her. When I told her, all she said was “I don’t have a time machine.” It’s still killing me inside cause I really loved shorty but I can’t even really look at her the same. She’s still swearing she only slept with one guy since we broke up. Has anyone ever experienced this?
 
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I'm amazed at the number of women i meet online who tout how much they go to church, and ask you if you go to church, etc.....y'all go on a couple-few dates, talk on the phone, text every day. ....and then they just get flaky and/or then completely GHOST on you.

:why:

You text them and never hear back. Then after a couple days I'm like, "alright, well good luck. Take care." No response.

Like, that's real "Christian/Christ-like" of you. :what: There's a reason why these type of women stay single...but yet they wonder why things don't work out for them.

That's happened to me 3 times over the past several weeks.
 

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I'm amazed at the number of women i meet online who tout how much they go to church, and ask you if you go to church, etc.....y'all go on a couple-few dates, talk on the phone, text every day. ....and then they just get flaky and/or then completely GHOST on you.

:why:

You text them and never hear back. Then after a couple days I'm like, "alright, well good luck. Take care." No response.

Like, that's real "Christian/Christ-like" of you. :what: There's a reason why these type of women stay single...but yet they wonder why things don't work out for them.

That's happened to me 3 times over the past several weeks.
Gotta smash these chicks within 3 dates or it will go nowhere. :manny:
 

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I’ll keep it short: broke up with an ex two years ago. We were together for 3+ years. We got back in touch last year, she’s telling me she was with an older guy (40+; I’m in my 20s) but realizes I’m her soulmate and wants to be with me. Says she stopped smashing guy, makes me wait a few months and lets me smash. Bruh the p*ssy was so loose I was beside myself. I just hit an escort/stripper (who I knew before her profession) after not seeing her for 3 years and her p*ssy was nowhere near as loose as my ex’s was. Her p*ssy in 2017 and 2019 were completely different, like it had lost all elasticity and was just a loose hole. The first few rounds were at night with the lights off and I couldn’t really tell. Before I hit, I asked her how she felt and she said “nervous” and I shoulda known something was up. What killed me is she was running game the whole time, telling me she wasn’t fukking anyone and we’re soulmates yada yada. I usually don’t fall for it but she got me. Her p*ssy felt like someone had just smashed no less than 24 hours prior. We stopped talking a few days later, when we got into a fight and I told her how I felt. I still feel bad for telling her. When I told her, all she said was “I don’t have a time machine.” It’s still killing me inside cause I really loved shorty but I can’t even really look at her the same. She’s still swearing she only slept with one guy since we broke up. Has anyone ever experienced this?
How old is your ex
 

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I’ll keep it short: broke up with an ex two years ago. We were together for 3+ years. We got back in touch last year, she’s telling me she was with an older guy (40+; I’m in my 20s) but realizes I’m her soulmate and wants to be with me. Says she stopped smashing guy, makes me wait a few months and lets me smash. Bruh the p*ssy was so loose I was beside myself. I just hit an escort/stripper (who I knew before her profession) after not seeing her for 3 years and her p*ssy was nowhere near as loose as my ex’s was. Her p*ssy in 2017 and 2019 were completely different, like it had lost all elasticity and was just a loose hole. The first few rounds were at night with the lights off and I couldn’t really tell. Before I hit, I asked her how she felt and she said “nervous” and I shoulda known something was up. What killed me is she was running game the whole time, telling me she wasn’t fukking anyone and we’re soulmates yada yada. I usually don’t fall for it but she got me. Her p*ssy felt like someone had just smashed no less than 24 hours prior. We stopped talking a few days later, when we got into a fight and I told her how I felt. I still feel bad for telling her. When I told her, all she said was “I don’t have a time machine.” It’s still killing me inside cause I really loved shorty but I can’t even really look at her the same. She’s still swearing she only slept with one guy since we broke up. Has anyone ever experienced this?
You should've permanently bushed her once y'all broke up.

Is it possible she had a kid during that time span?
 
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