Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

Data-Hawk

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You’re too nice ! You took a cross country trip for shorty . A similar situation happened to me in the summer lol boy was that a mean L .

That's why brehs have to have some sort of limit on far they travel to see a female. like 20 miles max and some would consider that too far.
 

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I think the growth of the IG 'self care' quote movement hasn't helped and makes women even more miserable. And it's mostly women who subscribe to this stuff. Basically makes it seem that any shytty decision they make is free of consequence and an excuse to be flaky and not apologize for anything they do because 'self care'.

A few chicks I've dealt with follow a lot of that shyt. Nothing wrong with actual guided self care that you learn from. But many treat it as an out for not being decent human beings.






I def have noticed over the past several years decidedly sociopathic behavior from women in general. I fukk with all types of women so its not isolated. Just do the sheistiest and most inconsiderate shyt on a whim
 

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Ever since I been in a relationship it’s been so many beautiful women coming into my life, I’m just trying to be satisfied being friends, I ain’t gone lie and say I don’t be tempted but all I got to do is think about her and it all stops
 

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Ever since I been in a relationship it’s been so many beautiful women coming into my life, I’m just trying to be satisfied being friends, I ain’t gone lie and say I don’t be tempted but all I got to do is think about her and it all stops

That shyt happened to me when i was a Shift Lead at walgreens. I would be suited and booted at work. Left on lunch break one time to go pick up some chinese food for somebody at work and this chick that would see me at work was there and flat out asked me."so when we going on a date :shaq:" Had to ignore her cuz i had a chick at work
 

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What's y'all office game like?

I work at a large office campus. Predominantly white but you occasionally see a nice ebony lady not wearing a ring, in the cafeteria or at the Starbucks. Obviously you can't come in the way you would at a bar or at a social event, but there's gotta be a way to make that initial approach without coming off as unprofessional.

Instead of you to face your work you're there trying to do Don Juan

My brother watch yourself :ufdup:

No go spoil Naija boys name.
 

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So that chick I met at the mall last week went up to NY last weekend. Called her tonight to try and set something up for this weekend. Rings a few times then I get the VM with one of those declined texts saying "Can I call you later?".

Cool np. Maybe she's at work.

I really hate setting dates over texts but I'm not feeling like calling again. Will text her tomorrow to try and set something up for the weekend. If nothing happens then so be it.

Ole girl had a phatty though :ehh:
 

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So that chick I met at the mall last week went up to NY last weekend. Called her tonight to try and set something up for this weekend. Rings a few times then I get the VM with one of those declined texts saying "Can I call you later?".

Cool np. Maybe she's at work.

I really hate setting dates over texts but I'm not feeling like calling again. Will text her tomorrow to try and set something up for the weekend. If nothing happens then so be it.

Ole girl had a phatty though :ehh:

Why call her tomorrow? She clearly saw you tried to call.
Better fall back until she hits you up.
:ufdup:
 

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Why call her tomorrow? She clearly saw you tried to call.
Better fall back until she hits you up.
:ufdup:

Idk, maybe it’s me. I like to take action and get a definite response.

I’m not gonna call again. Just shoot her a text tomorrow asking if she wanna grab drinks on Friday/Saturday.

I’m not too pressed as I got a trip I’m going on soon and gotta even shelve away some cash for.
 

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Idk, maybe it’s me. I like to take action and get a definite response.

I’m not gonna call again. Just shoot her a text tomorrow asking if she wanna grab drinks on Friday/Saturday.

I’m not too pressed as I got a trip I’m going on soon and gotta even shelve away some cash for.
Leave her alone. If she was interested she would show it.

Saturday I had an appointment at 5 PM to get my sons hair braided. I get there at 450 and I see the person driving away. She texts at 5 minutes later she’s 5 minutes away. I text her at 420 that we can reschedule the appointment for Wednesday. She says she’s sorry and she got stuck at the check cashing place, and then tells me that she would text me on Monday for Wednesday.

Well it’s 8 pm on a Wednesday night.

Should I call her? :troll:
 
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And she refuses to even engage on that.

This is our interaction:

Met her last week, talked for like 3 mins and exchanged numbers. Called a few days later to set something up on Sat, she said she was out of town for weekend. No biggies.

Called today and got the quick (can I call you later?) text. I replied and said 'cool np'. That's been the extent of our interaction.

Me sending a "Hey, I'm planning to grabs drinks at XYZ on Saturday you wanna come" text tomorrow is light weight. If it's positive cool, I got a date for Saturday night, if not then at least I know I actually made an offer.

I don't really have much to lose IMO
 
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